[coolio]

I went to a superbowl party couple of weeks ago and saw many attractive girls; but having no game, i didn't get to talk to the girl i really liked I eventually settled for a 7 (i guess because she was lonely). We've hung out couple of times and even made out, but she hasn't let me hit it yet. I just found out one of the pretty girls at the party is friends with one of my buddies, and i could actually get to meet with the girl. The problem is the attractive girl is friends with the one i'm currently with. How do i get to approach her without both girls finding out since they are friends?

[coolio]

Come on, guys! No one can hook me up with some game? I need to hook up with this girl, fast. Thanks.

[Tyler for short]

How old are you and these girls?

So you want to know how to get with the pretty girl without the other girl finding out? The other girl being, the one you had made out with but haven't slept with?

It doesn't sound like you're too confident about the whole situation...

The girl that was a 7 talked to you because she was lonely...and you "actually" could have a chance to meet the pretty girl...

Perhaps you should start with the basics rather than trying to address this one isolated incident. Go out, meet some new girls and get used to interacting with them. Hit on girls at the mall, take them out on dates...

But to answer your questions...if this was me...I would just go for the pretty girl and forget about this 7. And if you sabotage the whole situation, who cares. If it worked out, you could be banging the pretty girl....if you didn't go for it, you'd be stuck banging this lonely 7, and is that really what you want? I don't know if there is a good way to keep it a secret from each other. You would be running a high risk of them finding out, but what are you really risking?

Strategy wise, girls can be ruthless. If this pretty girl liked you, she may not even care that you made out with this other girl...so rather than trying to be sneaky, just outright go for her. Well good luck man...

[coolio]

Thanks, Tyler. I'm 30 and she's probably 26. I blew it; i should have just gone for her in the first place. I've thought about the whole situation, and there's a high probability of them finding out, but i'm willing to take the risk. It might even happen this weekend. Thanks for the input.

[FretDancer]

(02-25-2011 04:13 PM)coolio Wrote:  

Thanks, Tyler. I'm 30 and she's probably 26. I blew it; i should have just gone for her in the first place. I've thought about the whole situation, and there's a high probability of them finding out, but i'm willing to take the risk. It might even happen this weekend. Thanks for the input.

Dude you only made out with her, even if the other girl finds out, who cares? I don't think she will even give a shit about it. Run tight game with the girl you like, but don't go for the make out too soon because even if you manage to get it there's a chance you might come off as a player and you'll end up with none of the two.

Now like Tyler said, go meet new girls and don't let something like that stop you.

[HarmonicaFTW]

(02-25-2011 04:13 PM)coolio Wrote:  

Thanks, Tyler. I'm 30 and she's probably 26. I blew it; i should have just gone for her in the first place. I've thought about the whole situation, and there's a high probability of them finding out, but i'm willing to take the risk. It might even happen this weekend. Thanks for the input.

The key to everything is fearlessness. You are the king, or as Roissy calls it irrational self-confidence. When you talk to them, they are in your domain. They are there to prove to you, not you to then, of their worthiness. That's the mindset you need. There are a million of them, but just one of you.