Bring this thread up because Op had a topic Im fairly knowledge in . Im 22 right now and I have a natural inclination towards getting to know people with a special emphases on their intelligence . I feel the word smart has many definitions and is subjective in a sense. A truly smart girl to me strictly would be common sense, proactive, adept, and constantly thinks(havent met one younger than 25 either) . These are common characteristics ive seen with women and men I meet who are "smart." while for women its a PLUS to be feminine, disciplined, confident yet submissive, have self-belief, their own desires, and even the ability to bond and have fun with others. These are ALL possible and I've met women with some but not ALL of them together.
For me the great interest and very strong desire for a smart girl comes from the fact that I want to be smarter, The common saying is your intelligence and even your income is easily portrayed in the top 5 people you spend most of your time with. As any man looking for a partner I would think long term it would be ideal to have someone smart , adept, being able to change to whatever life throws at you, constantly wanting to grow and become better, basically never settling. I feel that would be the ideal companion , not a hot piece of dead weight.
Another common note is that most if not all intelligent people I met experienced very tough hardship in their lives before and some how that event drives them to this very day and its exhilarating to meet and have someone like that in my life. To me it bothers me how smart people never get along with each other, they have so much doubt in others that they can't seem to notice intelligence even if its sitting right there in their face. It is also a common trait that they tend to do all of the work (not physical of course) because of the lack of trust they have in others in doing it right(rightfully so because most people are not smart) . They seem to look as people as a whole vs me, I look as people as individuals and I do see the rareness of smart people even more so in a women. I constantly meet new smart people with the same common denominator of traits but with surprising personality traits that come along with it.
For me the great interest and very strong desire for a smart girl comes from the fact that I want to be smarter, The common saying is your intelligence and even your income is easily portrayed in the top 5 people you spend most of your time with. As any man looking for a partner I would think long term it would be ideal to have someone smart , adept, being able to change to whatever life throws at you, constantly wanting to grow and become better, basically never settling. I feel that would be the ideal companion , not a hot piece of dead weight.
Another common note is that most if not all intelligent people I met experienced very tough hardship in their lives before and some how that event drives them to this very day and its exhilarating to meet and have someone like that in my life. To me it bothers me how smart people never get along with each other, they have so much doubt in others that they can't seem to notice intelligence even if its sitting right there in their face. It is also a common trait that they tend to do all of the work (not physical of course) because of the lack of trust they have in others in doing it right(rightfully so because most people are not smart) . They seem to look as people as a whole vs me, I look as people as individuals and I do see the rareness of smart people even more so in a women. I constantly meet new smart people with the same common denominator of traits but with surprising personality traits that come along with it.
Adam says to God, "God, why did you make women so soft ?"
God says, "So that you will like them."
Adam says to God, "God, why did you make women so warm and cuddly?"
God says, "So that you will like them."
Adam says to God, "But, God, why did you make them so stupid?"
God says, "So that they will like you"
