Here's how I see the nice guy dynamic in attraction. You can be a nice guy as long as you are doing enough other things to be an attractive man:
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If you can afford a place like this, DO IT.
If you can't do these things it's mandatory that you be a little bit of an asshole to girls. Being 'not a nice guy' will disproportionately make you more attractive to girls in comparison to these lifestyle factors.
But just being an asshole is not a magic pill to instant results, being an asshole is a skill set itself.
What's really ideal is to practice being an asshole while leveling up your lifestyle. You'll end up coming full circle; becoming a nice guy with an attractive edge, but along way they'll be some real dickish moments... Have fun!
- Keeping your game sharp, going out a lot. Working on your sub communication.
- Going to the gym, dressing fly.
- Approaching a lot.
- Developing hobbies and skills.
- Ambition and working hard to growing a career and financial stability.
- Being present and mindful, practicing meditation or brain training.
- Have an abundant social circle.
- The time in my life that I was 'being a nice guy' but also getting laid the most was when I had a gorgeous high rise condo downtown. I would have pre parties a couple times a week before we went out clubbing. I had a charming wing woman who would invite girls back to my place for me.
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If you can afford a place like this, DO IT.
If you can't do these things it's mandatory that you be a little bit of an asshole to girls. Being 'not a nice guy' will disproportionately make you more attractive to girls in comparison to these lifestyle factors.
But just being an asshole is not a magic pill to instant results, being an asshole is a skill set itself.
What's really ideal is to practice being an asshole while leveling up your lifestyle. You'll end up coming full circle; becoming a nice guy with an attractive edge, but along way they'll be some real dickish moments... Have fun!