[deerhunter]

I am against the death penalty because I don't trust my government to be killing us. There is no correlation in my mind between the death penalty and me watching someone raping my mum. Dukakis was a lame bitch. If I wasn't able to kill the guy who did that in front of me I would have to kill myself.

[funkyzeit]

Getting angry from time to time is healthy for you mental state and very attractive to women who will see you as someone who isn't a pushover. Just don't get trolled by petty tricks people and especially women are known to play.

[Bill]

99% of the reason one get´s angry is because of women directly or indirectly so no wonder curdguy is a more cool guy. Game can make angry. It´s like playing pick up basketball. It´s a lot of fun but from time to time people get angry there. On MGTOW mode one has a calm life because in the mordern world basic survival things are easy to get only validation is overprized.

[pitt]

If somebody rapes your mum in front of you and you don't become angry then you have some serious issues. Somebody rapes my mum or any of my family members in front of me, that fucker is gone in less than 5 minutes.

So what happens when someone is taking advantage of you? Don't you get angry? Don't you become aggressive to them if there is need to? You need to get angry,..if I couldn't get angry I would be a ''carpet''.

[Bill]

(05-12-2014 08:00 AM)pitt Wrote:  

If somebody rapes your mum in front of you and you don't become angry then you have some serious issues. Somebody rapes my mum or any of my family members in front of me, that fucker is gone in less than 5 minutes.

So what happens when someone is taking advantage of you? Don't you get angry? Don't you become aggressive to them if there is need to? You need to get angry,..if I couldn't get angry I would be a ''carpet''.

I think it´s much more fun to take revange with a cooler blood. One can do what "must" be done without getting angry at least on theory though I might be wrong.

[berserk]

Everyone gets angry. If you think you don't get angry then you are probably acting passive aggressive instead of directing it outwards.

[Moma]

I bet I could get cardguy angry

[strengthstudent]

(05-12-2014 08:45 AM)berserk Wrote:  

Everyone gets angry. If you think you don't get angry then you are probably acting passive aggressive instead of directing it outwards.

When required... I act angry. I act aggressive.

But I really am not. Maybe people has not pushed me enough. I have had two street fights during the past 2 years, I was calm as fuck even back then. I actually needed to learn aggressiveness after.

[Bill]

(05-12-2014 09:02 AM)Moma Wrote:  

I bet I could get cardguy angry

He has to go out of his comfort zone like doing the no fap challenge and taking some viagra then the dark side might be strong in him.

[heavy]

Yesterday evening...
Me: movie at my place
her: Don't be mad if I need a raincheck
Me: I don't get mad
her: I know you don't. It's a good quality to have

Though I do have two holes in my wall at home, not about a chic though

[berserk]

I'm just saying that being passive aggressive is fairly typical of the 'nice guy' or beta or blue pill or what you want to call it. I have struggled with expressing anger in proper ways and proper measures. It used to be 'nothing can make me angry' until something made me so angry I'd explode in rage. Not good, better to get angry and express it quickly and then come down to earth and apologize if necessary.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

If no one ever got angry, the world would have stagnated into oblivion. Anger is not just a negative emotion - it also helps right injustices and bring forth cleansing to allow for peace later.

[Felix88]

Interesting discussion, personally I think anger is a weakness and the first one to get angry is the first one to lose since it prevent them from thinking straight. I used to have short temper, then I realized it does me no good and I'm not getting angry anymore. If someone try to take advantage of you, it's always better to keep cool and use your head to avoid them instead of getting angry and show them they can push your button and that is no good, if they make you angry, they control you.

[Ice]

(05-12-2014 01:25 PM)Felix88 Wrote:  

it's always better to keep cool instead of getting angry and show them they can push your button and that is no good, if they make you angry, they control you.

Yeah that's true. When someone gets angry about some minor shit I always have to laugh .. people think I'm laughing at them, but it's just the fact that someone gets so worked up about something so irrelevant, losing their cool. I think it's hilarious.

When you get angry, you do lose control to a certain extent I think - and losing control because of some stupid shit is just too funny to me.

When you argue with someone and they keep their poker face, you have no idea what they're thinking or what they're gonna do, so there's a certain tension and subtle threat - but when they explode and get angry, in my eyes they just look ridiculous.

[Moma]

Emotions are gears for us to use in life. Anyone who doesn't get angry has been shortchanged in life. Anger is used as that turbo boost when you need that instant action to power through a situation. You faced by a bunch of thugs or killers, you need anger for that last burst of survival.

The key is not about getting angry, it's to control the emotions. Get angry when need be and use it to survive.

A person who cannot get angry will be shortchanged in dire situations and be chewed on by predators while he stays there in his calm, flaccid state when a more angry individual may have been able to break free.

[Ice]

(05-13-2014 08:45 AM)Moma Wrote:  

Emotions are gears for us to use in life. Anyone who doesn't get angry has been shortchanged in life. Anger is used as that turbo boost when you need that instant action to power through a situation. You faced by a bunch of thugs or killers, you need anger for that last burst of survival.

The key is not about getting angry, it's to control the emotions. Get angry when need be and use it to survive.

A person who cannot get angry will be shortchanged in dire situations and be chewed on by predators while he stays there in his calm, flaccid state when a more angry individual may have been able to break free.

Yeah that's maybe true in a fistfight or some other physical confrontation - as you write:

(05-13-2014 08:45 AM)Moma Wrote:  

You faced by a bunch of thugs or killers, you need anger for that last burst of survival.

But in normal life / business / strategizing anger doesn't get you anywhere.

[poledaddy]

http://www.rooshv.com/anger-is-an-aphrodisiac-to-women

[Moma]

(05-13-2014 08:56 AM)Ice Wrote:  

But in normal life / business / strategizing anger doesn't get you anywhere.

You sure?

[Onto]

My guess Cardguy is it's because you don't side with emotions as being anything of importance. Certainly not more important than reason and logic. Maybe it goes beyond importance to the point where being in feeling makes you uncomfortable?

Lots of people are that way, less are aware they are, and even less question why it is.

[cardguy]

Yeah - I guess so. I am actually very sensitive to other people's feelings.

Which might suggest that I have sensitive feelings myself?

But equally - I think it comes down to this. The only way to piss a guy off is to not let him get you angry. I learned that lesson early on at school. It is all war at the end of the day - and getting angry feels like showing the other guy your battle plans.

[Onto]

(05-11-2014 01:33 PM)cardguy Wrote:  

Maybe this is why women get a kick out of emotional drama? Since they know if a guy is capable of getting angry - he is also capable of falling in love.

Yes, for sure, women side with feelings being the real. There's a thread somewhere's that asks "What do women really want?"

I believe the answer is to get men to subscribe to the feminine dimension of reality as being primary. Men of course desire the opposite.

Women want to bring a man into "feeling" because when they do, they win and he loses. From an unconcious, metaphysical point of view.

[Onto]

(05-13-2014 03:32 PM)cardguy Wrote:  

Which might suggest that I have sensitive feelings myself?

To have feelings is to be a human being. The question is are they more important than reason/logic? And do you fear them?

(05-13-2014 03:32 PM)cardguy Wrote:  

The only way to piss a guy off is to not let him get you angry.

The one who doesn't get angry wins because he's proving himself to be more masculine than the other and not just some little bitch who get's overcome with emotions.

[cardguy]

Women have two weapons in an argument and men have just one.

If you defeat a guy with logic, if he is smart, he will go away and lick his wounds.

If you beat a woman with logic, she will put out her other weapon called 'feeeeeeelings.'

[Kingsley Davis]

In my humble opinion, anger is a femcentric emotion since you're allowing outside factors to affect your mind state instead of calmly contemplate the issue at hand and resolve it logically. For example, lately i've been doing dumb shit behind the wheel of cars. Speeding, red light tickets, running out of gas, etc and concluded that my boredom and frustration with DC manifest itself differently in every thing i partake in.

[pitt]

Is aggressiveness a feminine characteristic? Some of the most aggressive guys I have ever met would snap for anything..they wouldn't take any type of disrespect.