[Glock]

Here it is. I do think she's overlooking what initially attracts women to bad boys. Overall, however, this article is yet another example of how Red Pill thinking is going mainstream.

http://www.readunwritten.com/2014/02/26/...ys-dating/

Quote:

Here’s the thing: no girl actually WANTS to date an asshole. Instead, every girl wants to be the girl that changes the asshole.

The majority of girls are enticed by assholes because it’s a damn quest. Fundamentally, dating in your twenties is all about playing the game; am I right or am I right? We already know going into it that he’s probably an asshole, but we do it anyway, every time. Why? Because every single one of us is fervently craving to be that exception, the one who makes a player quit the game.

This perpetual loop is forced by nature. After all, we’re just creatures, right? It’s not you, nice guys; it’s nature! (Try that line next time a nice guy is trying to cross over the friend zone.) Dating an asshole is sort of like taming a wild horse. You meet out in the wild; you work to gain their trust and respect, train them a little and then, ‘Viola! Your horse has been branded. Nice guys, on the other hand, are like old golden retrievers. They’re all loyal and fun-loving and you know that they’re always going to be there waiting for you with their unconditional love. I don’t know about you guys, but I want a wild beast of a horse not some old shaggy dog.

Dating a nice guy is just boring for us. Girls love a project. We feel more of use in a relationship when the other person needs fixing; it keeps us busy-it’s like a little part time job. As females, we like to be a source of growth and evolvement. We want to be the one who ripens you into the guy who sends us a ‘good morning beautiful’ text. That text doesn’t mean as much if we’re not the one responsible for it’s renovation. Nice guys are already fixed and that’s no fun. Dating someone who doesn’t need fixing would be weird because it’s not really yours, it just feels lived in. Chances are that we are going to get bored with the nice guys, ultimately end up to hurting you. You can take my perfectly molded Rainbow flip-flops or my favorite infinity scarf away from me but don’t make me be the bad guy! Don’t do it!

It’s all just one big rush. When you get involved with an asshole, the both of you are put in a very vulnerable state, which is what makes this whole situation so zesty and invigorating; it’s like a spicy hummus-yum! Basically, assholes are scared of experiencing feelings while girls are scared of getting hurt. It’s a toxic sequence that both parties are ruthlessly participating in. Whether you recognize it or not, it’s happening around us all of the time. When a guy checks out a girl at the bar and thinks, “Mmm I could hit that”; that girl is looking right back at him thinking, “Oh I could TOTALLY fix that.” Doesn’t matter how you slice it, it’s most likely not going to end well but it’s definitely going to be one hell of a ride while it lasts.

[ASOT]

The only value the article has in that it is an honest admission of the reality that nice guys lose.

But it's reasoning (women are a source of growth and this seek to change a bad guy) is pure hamster. If you want to talk nature a stable provider is attractive and a cad that will pump and dump will have her ostracised from the clan.

Do you think our grandmothers wanted a bad guy to change? No they wanted a nice guy for the stability.

It's only that society allows women to mooch off quotas, welfare and alimony that allows tingle chasing.

Recognise the admission. And adjust your behaviour accordingly if you want to get laid. But don't fall for the hamster rationalisation and start believing that slutty behaviour and hypergamy are 'natural' or noble.

Also this is pure shit lol:
"When a guy checks out a girl at the bar and thinks, “Mmm I could hit that”; that girl is looking right back at him thinking, “Oh I could TOTALLY fix that.”"
-- yeah I'm sure when a chick is grinding her pussy against my leg on the dance floor and shoving her tongue down my throat she's thinking of fixing me ???.


Conclusion:
Stick to roosh/rossy/RVF/your own experience for game advise and as always don't listen to women

[tawillionaire]

"We want to fix you"

No, you want us to never be fixable. If you do "fix" us you get bored and we turn into the nice guys you eventually dump.

[Vitriol]

These dumb cunts are a little behind the times if they think most guys are still willing to raise C-czar's bastard kid when you hit the wall at 30. Fuck that.

Who wants to pay for a mistake one of these retarded bitches made years ago before you were in the picture? Probably not nearly as many guys as 10 years ago.

[Suits]

Women don't choose assholes because they want to CHANGE them. The choose assholes because guys who have game tend to be able to get away with being assholes and guys with game make the 'gina tingle. In fact, sometimes being an asshole makes the 'gina tingle even more than it might otherwise.

That they want to CHANGE assholes is just the justification.

[Windom Earle]

"We're dicks! We're reckless, arrogant, stupid dicks. And the Film Actors Guild are pussies. And Kim Jong Il is an asshole. Pussies don't like dicks, because pussies get fucked by dicks. But dicks also fuck assholes: assholes that just want to shit on everything. Pussies may think they can deal with assholes their way. But the only thing that can fuck an asshole is a dick, with some balls. The problem with dicks is: they fuck too much or fuck when it isn't appropriate - and it takes a pussy to show them that. But sometimes, pussies can be so full of shit that they become assholes themselves... because pussies are an inch and half away from ass holes. I don't know much about this crazy, crazy world, but I do know this: If you don't let us fuck this asshole, we're going to have our dicks and pussies all covered in shit!"