[Shadowarrior]

Went to a bar with some people that I TA with. I started talking to a girl that I've seen but never really talked to. Right away I noticed the ring because she had her hand next to her face. I lightly used some game and we both seemed to get turned on. When her husband came and left, that seemed to dampen the mood for me. But she continued to give me light touches on the arm and sat next to me at least half of the night. I didn't get her number but she gave me a hug at the end of the night saying she was glad to finally talk to me. I am still conflicted because she says she also has a baby. I am not going to actively pursue it, but if she continues to be friendly with me, I might try to bang her. What should I do? Also was she just being friendly? Haha

[vinman]

She wants some dick. It's your job not to screw it up. Keep it casual, but get the bang.

[Virtus]

walk away

[eradicator]

(11-25-2013 02:56 AM)calihunter Wrote:  

walk away

Agreed, I would say married women aren't worth the drama. I don't care about whether it is ethical or not, I would be more concerned about the husband showing up crazy at where you live or work and wanting to fight or kill you. Most murders are crimes of passion.

[MrXY]

Don't bang married women who know your name and where you work

[FrenchCanadian]

As sexual tensions grow in the work place, it can be hard to walk away.
I think it's the right thing to do in this situation, unless you fuck her, and avoid all drama (which implies you directly telling her your intentions)

It remains a dangerous game.

[Flavius Aetius]

Married women are great if you want FWB--they have 0 interest in telling their husbands they are cheating, don't want a relationship, have a very strong incentive to use proper birth control, and usually have a sexy wild side they want to explore with someone new.

Co-worker of mine met a married woman. She stayed home while hubby worked long hours each day. Coworker would stop buy her place 1-2 times a week and did the whole bondage thing with her. Her husband was not into doing this with her. The situation did not last long--I think about a month, but not bad at all.

[Sourcecode]

So random question.
Do you bring up a woman being married?

I've got a milf I met...Up till now I thought she was single..listed herself as single online.

Days later...now I finally figure out that she's married.
I haven't banged yet.

Do I bring up the fact that she's married and has 2 kids?
Do I say something like.. "So...you're married?..how is this suppose to work?"

[Blue Streak]

(02-11-2014 12:05 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:  

So random question.
Do you bring up a woman being married?

I've got a milf I met...Up till now I thought she was single..listed herself as single online.

Days later...now I finally figure out that she's married.
I haven't banged yet.

Do I bring up the fact that she's married and has 2 kids?
Do I say something like.. "So...you're married?..how is this suppose to work?"

She hasn't made it an issue, why should you? It's not your problem if she wants to cheat on her husband.

[CJ_W]

(11-24-2013 09:30 PM)Shadowarrior Wrote:  

Went to a bar with some people that I TA with. I started talking to a girl that I've seen but never really talked to. Right away I noticed the ring because she had her hand next to her face. I lightly used some game and we both seemed to get turned on. When her husband came and left, that seemed to dampen the mood for me. But she continued to give me light touches on the arm and sat next to me at least half of the night. I didn't get her number but she gave me a hug at the end of the night saying she was glad to finally talk to me. I am still conflicted because she says she also has a baby. I am not going to actively pursue it, but if she continues to be friendly with me, I might try to bang her. What should I do? Also was she just being friendly? Haha

Too bad you got banned, but yeah for all the other newbie guys who may see this, and get ideas.

The only idea you should have is NOT messing with women like this

Married +Kids arleady?

nope nope nope nope nope get away fast, run away fast, run run run faaar away.

(Now if she doesn't mention she's married i.e. hides her ring etc but you find out. . . still run. You need to be looking for younger women anyway i.e. 18-24)



Also, I just noticed this but

DO NOT BANG WOMEN WHERE YOU WORK, EVER! PERIOD! DO NOT FLIRT WITH WOMEN WHERE YOU WORK!*




* = unless you work in the club scene as a promoter, DJ, Producer/DJ etc and you get groupies, or its you job to meet women a lot. . .that's the only exception to the rule. Otherwise, don't do it, your job, your money, and your women should be seperate.

[ObnoxiousStoner]

For one I dont recommend you to shit where you eat,and two think of whats the best thing that can happen and the worst thing that could happen. On one end you can get the pussy and bust a nut off on this cheating wifes face, or on the other end the husband could find out and end up doing some crazy shit like going to your job to find you to whoop your ass or worse. You could get fired or lose your life. I know that pussy isnt worth all that now.

[michelin]

It's possible, but things could get complicated. Keep it casual. I screwed it up once when I gave to much information about common friends etc. Keep it light and test the waters. If she's DTF she will show you or even take the lead.