Hi,
I'd like to start by saying I would not consider myself a pickup artist, by any means, but I respect the writings Roosh has provided, agree with 80% of what he says, and I definitely fit the "neomasculine" model.
I tend to date intelligent attractive women. I strike out with anything else. I can only date smart 8's, 9's and 10's. I have had sex with women more beautiful than any movie star, and extremely intelligent. If I aim low I strike out. I wouldn't say I am a player, but I am the guy that gets the super hot smart chick everyone else fails with. I've never done heroine, but I can tell you there is no drug on earth that compares to the adoration of a truly gorgeous woman of substance. Nothing else on earth makes me want to be a better man like that does.
The lows are as bad as the highs are good. Today I find myself 35, single, and in the throes of the worst breakup of my life. I'm in an incredible amount of pain right now. If I get any worse I am checking myself into a mental hospital, it's that bad.
I live in northern California, which I suspect is part of my problem. I have traveled to Austin and Houston, and was not impressed at all, although in Austin a 20 year old girl did walk up to me and ask to suck my dick. That in and of itself is not a good thing, but it is an indicator of how the society is weighted.![[Image: dodgy.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/dodgy.gif)
I traveled to Chicago and found a much better situation for a guy like me. I actually opened on about 6-7 girls without trying much, didn't really push anything, but they responded strongly. I've never had a reception like that in California. I can definitely see how things would be easier there by an order of magnitude. I asked one girl (an 8) for directions and she leaned her tit against my arm while looking at my phone. Never seen anything like that before. If I lived there, I am sure my day-to-day life would be incredibly easy. The fact that Chicagoans are very easy to talk to just makes it that much easier. I walk up to any girls who's my type, ask her how her day is going, and she opens right up. It was incredible.
I really just want one women I can build a life with, but I realize the best way to get one good one to stick with you is to be able fuck whoever you want. I indirectly offered to buy my ex a house with cash in the nice part of town if she would have my children, but she had someone better from her past. I can tell you for a fact that woman did not care about money. I hated her at one point, but she's just doing the best she can in the market we're in. She's chasing the same high I am. It was then that I realized it did not matter if I met someone who was a perfect match with me, she would always have a better option here in California, and I would always be dating down. It's just economics.
I've only lived in areas that are known to be horrible for single men. In spite of that, I do pretty well, from time to time. I can live wherever I want. Most of the advice here centers around one night stands. What is my best bet to find an intelligent, gorgeous woman who isn't religious but will actually stick with me? I hate feminism but have to admit I like smart women with good work ethics. (Which usually is contrary to feminism.) Late 20's even to early 30's, if she ages well, is my target age range.
I'm in a lot of pain right now. I may be the 1% of guys, (for a certain type of girl that appreciates what I am), but that does not guarantee success unless you want to date down substantially. I only date smart skinny blond girls, because they're basically the female analogy to me, and they are the only type that likes me.
Physically, I am tall, blond, good-looking, and have a swimmer's build. German / Swedish / Norwegian here. I also am a self-made semi-rich person, but like to hide that. The game that works for me is super low-key conversation with subtle deadpan humor. When I do that, women tell me I am "confident". I actually do the best when I am depressed. Women have told me they thought I was "confident" when I was really just depressed out of my mind, haha. My pickup line is "how's it going?" It works.
I love California (but hate the government). It's my home. If I leave, I want to make sure I am going to the most optimum location. Where should I go? At this point I am thinking Chi-town. Other options I am considering are Dallas, Charleston, and Austin. I have a lot of money and enjoy making more, but hate materialistic women.
I know my chances are good in the right place, but I am going to start aging soon and I only have a few years left at my peak. Please help, thank you. For me, this really is a matter of life and death. That's just how I am.
And thanks to Roosh for daring to have a fucking original thought in his head, and putting it out there with his name on it.
I'd like to start by saying I would not consider myself a pickup artist, by any means, but I respect the writings Roosh has provided, agree with 80% of what he says, and I definitely fit the "neomasculine" model.
I tend to date intelligent attractive women. I strike out with anything else. I can only date smart 8's, 9's and 10's. I have had sex with women more beautiful than any movie star, and extremely intelligent. If I aim low I strike out. I wouldn't say I am a player, but I am the guy that gets the super hot smart chick everyone else fails with. I've never done heroine, but I can tell you there is no drug on earth that compares to the adoration of a truly gorgeous woman of substance. Nothing else on earth makes me want to be a better man like that does.
The lows are as bad as the highs are good. Today I find myself 35, single, and in the throes of the worst breakup of my life. I'm in an incredible amount of pain right now. If I get any worse I am checking myself into a mental hospital, it's that bad.
I live in northern California, which I suspect is part of my problem. I have traveled to Austin and Houston, and was not impressed at all, although in Austin a 20 year old girl did walk up to me and ask to suck my dick. That in and of itself is not a good thing, but it is an indicator of how the society is weighted.
I traveled to Chicago and found a much better situation for a guy like me. I actually opened on about 6-7 girls without trying much, didn't really push anything, but they responded strongly. I've never had a reception like that in California. I can definitely see how things would be easier there by an order of magnitude. I asked one girl (an 8) for directions and she leaned her tit against my arm while looking at my phone. Never seen anything like that before. If I lived there, I am sure my day-to-day life would be incredibly easy. The fact that Chicagoans are very easy to talk to just makes it that much easier. I walk up to any girls who's my type, ask her how her day is going, and she opens right up. It was incredible.
I really just want one women I can build a life with, but I realize the best way to get one good one to stick with you is to be able fuck whoever you want. I indirectly offered to buy my ex a house with cash in the nice part of town if she would have my children, but she had someone better from her past. I can tell you for a fact that woman did not care about money. I hated her at one point, but she's just doing the best she can in the market we're in. She's chasing the same high I am. It was then that I realized it did not matter if I met someone who was a perfect match with me, she would always have a better option here in California, and I would always be dating down. It's just economics.
I've only lived in areas that are known to be horrible for single men. In spite of that, I do pretty well, from time to time. I can live wherever I want. Most of the advice here centers around one night stands. What is my best bet to find an intelligent, gorgeous woman who isn't religious but will actually stick with me? I hate feminism but have to admit I like smart women with good work ethics. (Which usually is contrary to feminism.) Late 20's even to early 30's, if she ages well, is my target age range.
I'm in a lot of pain right now. I may be the 1% of guys, (for a certain type of girl that appreciates what I am), but that does not guarantee success unless you want to date down substantially. I only date smart skinny blond girls, because they're basically the female analogy to me, and they are the only type that likes me.
Physically, I am tall, blond, good-looking, and have a swimmer's build. German / Swedish / Norwegian here. I also am a self-made semi-rich person, but like to hide that. The game that works for me is super low-key conversation with subtle deadpan humor. When I do that, women tell me I am "confident". I actually do the best when I am depressed. Women have told me they thought I was "confident" when I was really just depressed out of my mind, haha. My pickup line is "how's it going?" It works.
I love California (but hate the government). It's my home. If I leave, I want to make sure I am going to the most optimum location. Where should I go? At this point I am thinking Chi-town. Other options I am considering are Dallas, Charleston, and Austin. I have a lot of money and enjoy making more, but hate materialistic women.
I know my chances are good in the right place, but I am going to start aging soon and I only have a few years left at my peak. Please help, thank you. For me, this really is a matter of life and death. That's just how I am.
And thanks to Roosh for daring to have a fucking original thought in his head, and putting it out there with his name on it.
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