[orko]

Hey guys i just want your opinion on something that happened to me last saturday night.
I'm 6'4, normal looks, slender body and i went to a disco with a girl i have been dating for 2 weeks and her friends.We were having a good time together and suddenly a group of girls celebrating that one of them was getting married entered the disco. It was fun to see them, and suddenly something unexpected happened. One of those girls started to dance with me, it was something quick, and then she and 2 other of her friends started to shoot photos with me. It was a fun moment for me and them. (heh i felt like a rockstar or something)
After that i noticed my girl was kinda cold with me, but i didnt give it importance. Yesterday she sent me a message telling me that she enjoyed very much to hang out with me and her friends at the disco but that she didnt like that i gave attention to that girl with the dance and the photos. I told her if she was jealous but she evaded my question... What do you guys think? was her hamster on overdrive that night when the girls started to give me attention? I'm interested in this girl for an LTR so i want to know what you guys think if i did something wrong or not...
thanks!

[WestIndianArchie]

she's jealous.
You did everything "right"

But it looks you've already started down the road of "don't fuck it up" and "happy wife, happy life". You want us to tell you something that will calm your "girlfriend" down so that you can live drama free.

One red pill truth is that there is not drama free relationship.

....

Dating advice says you need to appease your "2 week old girlfriend"

We tend to say that you need to keep many irons in the fire, if you want the upper hand on any particular girl.

WIA

[CarCrashKid]

Simple answer ? You did nothing wrong.

If I had to make any critique it would have been telling her that she's jealous? Maybe you mean asking her?
I would have slyly suggested that she was jealous and laughed it off.

Don't apologise for being fun or for your vibe. So what if she's jealous? She has no right to be.

[bike0369]

You did nothing wrong, but should not have made the comment/asked that she was jealous. Just ignored or made fun of her.

[bike0369]

^ CCK: you beat me to it!

[CarCrashKid]

And WIA beat me to it!

[vinman]

"Make her jealous" from The 16 Commandments of Poon.

"Never be afraid to start a bidding war". Dante Nero.

Her being jealous shows you your worth to her. A woman should always be worried about losing you to competitors.

[AneroidOcean]

(01-20-2014 09:35 AM)orko Wrote:  

(heh i felt like a rockstar or something)
After that i noticed my girl was kinda cold with me, but i didnt give it importance. Yesterday she sent me a message telling me that she enjoyed very much to hang out with me and her friends at the disco but that she didnt like that i gave attention to that girl with the dance and the photos. I told her if she was jealous but she evaded my question... What do you guys think? was her hamster on overdrive that night when the girls started to give me attention? I'm interested in this girl for an LTR so i want to know what you guys think if i did something wrong or not...
thanks!

You should've ignored the comment about the attention to the other girls ENTIRELY and just told her you had a good time too or just set up your next date. By addressing her comment in text you're giving it more importance than it has.

Unfortunately you not only addressed it, but you also asked her a question. Girls want to be LEAD, they don't want you to ask them questions. If this is even to be addressed, it would be in person, not over a message.

[Sombro]

Just tell her that you have no doubt that she doesn't have to compete with insecure, about-to-be-married chicks who are looking for their last hurrah, and you were just entertaining shallow, flighty girls out of not wanting to embarrass them.