[AntiTrace]

nothing special here, just another confirmation of what we already know:

Laying in bed with a new girl, she has a man, she brings up how much she can't stand him. I simply ask why, already knowing it most likely falls into a couple obvious categories.

"He's just too nice. I like bad boys and hes just too damn nice"

another gem followed:

"I can't stand his friends. Always trying to make sure everything is OK and catering to my every need. Bunch of pussies"

Its a shame females treat men this way. They complain about the good guys, then complain about being hurt by the bad boys. And the cycle continues.

[Vacancier Permanent]

You should tell her how she's very likely to regret and miss that boring and nice man by the time she reaches her mid 30's and beyond...

[CJ_W]

(01-18-2014 10:44 PM)Vacancier Permanent Wrote:  

You should tell her how she's very likely to regret and miss that boring and nice man by the time she reaches her mid 30's and beyond...

no point. Don't need to mess up a good situation (fuck buddy with a young 20 something - most likely in a rotation with other 20 somethings) just to prove a point. Its a lot less work to just enjoy the game. . .now that you've figured out the rules.

One thing about situations like these: No drama, easy sex, and a woman who isn't going to cling on to you. . .at least for about 3 months.

[AntiTrace]

(01-18-2014 10:44 PM)Vacancier Permanent Wrote:  

You should tell her how she's very likely to regret and miss that boring and nice man by the time she reaches her mid 30's and beyond...

I hear ya brother.

I've tried to help the dude out as much as I could (minus banging his girl on the side)

I've gave her a rundown on how the game works, how she needs to appreciate a guy that will do anything for her, how she is young a cute but will grow old and saggy and how that guy will be there for her when that happens and I wont.

But you cant change the wheel. It's just gonna keep on rolling.

[Glock]

(01-18-2014 11:41 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  

(01-18-2014 10:44 PM)Vacancier Permanent Wrote:  

You should tell her how she's very likely to regret and miss that boring and nice man by the time she reaches her mid 30's and beyond...

I hear ya brother.

I've tried to help the dude out as much as I could (minus banging his girl on the side)

I've gave her a rundown on how the game works, how she needs to appreciate a guy that will do anything for her, how she is young a cute but will grow old and saggy and how that guy will be there for her when that happens and I wont.

But you cant change the wheel. It's just gonna keep on rolling.

I hate to say it, but I think most of these women will succeed in the end. There are so many beta-ized men out there that they won't have a problem finding a perfectly nice guy to provide for them when they hit 30. I see it all the time in my social circle, which consists mostly of young professionals. The average marrying age is right around 30. Many of the men have accepted carousel-riding from women and are willing to marry them when they get bored of it.

It's true that these women will carry the baggage of their carousel years for many years into the future, and that is a cost of what they are doing. But by and large I don't seen them ending up as spinsters, like they deserve.

[nek]

(01-19-2014 12:26 AM)Consul Wrote:  

(01-18-2014 11:41 PM)AntiTrace Wrote:  

(01-18-2014 10:44 PM)Vacancier Permanent Wrote:  

You should tell her how she's very likely to regret and miss that boring and nice man by the time she reaches her mid 30's and beyond...

I hear ya brother.

I've tried to help the dude out as much as I could (minus banging his girl on the side)

I've gave her a rundown on how the game works, how she needs to appreciate a guy that will do anything for her, how she is young a cute but will grow old and saggy and how that guy will be there for her when that happens and I wont.

But you cant change the wheel. It's just gonna keep on rolling.

I hate to say it, but I think most of these women will succeed in the end. There are so many beta-ized men out there that they won't have a problem finding a perfectly nice guy to provide for them when they hit 30. I see it all the time in my social circle, which consists mostly of young professionals. The average marrying age is right around 30. Many of the men have accepted carousel-riding from women and are willing to marry them when they get bored of it.

It's true that these women will carry the baggage of their carousel years for many years into the future, and that is a cost of what they are doing. But by and large I don't seen them ending up as spinsters, like they deserve.

Hate to agree, but I do. But that's life. They're trying to succeed at their game, us at ours. What I think is really hard for a lot of guys to grasp is that life is pretty much meant for women, and as a result, it's tilted in their favor, "fairness" be damned. This is hard b/c people like the idea of 'Karma', but that's not always the case. To a large degree, they control the direction of the life of the species (see Briffault's law). Guys by and large are expendable, and therefore, aren't as privy to things going their way for them in life.


So what to do? Just define what success is to you and focus on that. To me, in the realm of women, it's max. sex with minimal investment. Don't get financially or legally entangled with some woman. It may not sound like much, but sometimes this is all you can ask. Especially this day and age.

[WestIndianArchie]

(01-19-2014 12:26 AM)Consul Wrote:  

I hate to say it, but I think most of these women will succeed in the end.

Depends on what you mean by success.

She'll
- get her ring, dress, and special day
- pop out some kids
- then get bored
- get divorced

Now she's back on the prowl, getting her cougar on, pumped and dumped by alphas and players, but now unable to get that long term safety and security from a strong man in her life.

And a good portion of men in her demographic will go w/out heirs.

It's a bad scene for most folks, imo. Dare I say it's the reason that populations are falling throughout the developed world.

WIA

[Valhalla]

Where do you meet all these married women?

[bike0369]

(01-19-2014 03:38 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

It's a bad scene for most folks, imo. Dare I say it's the reason that populations are falling throughout the developed world.

WIA

^This.

WIA- don't know where you learnt these things man, but each one of your post is a gem by itself. Thanks!

[TheFunto]

(01-19-2014 03:38 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

(01-19-2014 12:26 AM)Consul Wrote:  

I hate to say it, but I think most of these women will succeed in the end.

Depends on what you mean by success.

She'll
- get her ring, dress, and special day
- pop out some kids
- then get bored
- get divorced

Now she's back on the prowl, getting her cougar on, pumped and dumped by alphas and players, but now unable to get that long term safety and security from a strong man in her life.

And a good portion of men in her demographic will go w/out heirs.

It's a bad scene for most folks, imo. Dare I say it's the reason that populations are falling throughout the developed world.

WIA

Thoughts of the day for me. This post made me think for 1 hour. thanks bro