When I was 17, I had a serious girlfriend for about a year. Parents adored her. Like many of you here, I wound up being cheated on, got my ass kicked to the curb, and remained a pathetic emotional wreck for several months after.
I swore to never let that happen again, to not let girls push me around, and to become better at meeting and hooking up with girls…think I discovered Roosh V by typing into google something like this: "How do I get over my ex-girlfriend?" - lol
Fast forward a few years, and I'm at a very happy point in my life. I'm enjoying college, and slaying girls with ease. Whether it be 18 year old freshman from school, or 25-30 year old women back home in New York City, my game has come a very long way…I do not get emotionally attached to girls, save a few rotation pieces I keep around at home or at school, who I try to see at max once or twice a week.
Anyway…this past winter break, I had to deal with a lot of interrogation from my parents. My mom keeps telling me I'm a massogonist, and my father continually tells me that he raised a 'gentleman', not someone who only uses girls for sex…Over the course of my 4 week christmas break, I brought 7 girls back to my place to have sex. Several of them were girls from high-school etc. that I had already slept with, while a few were new notches. I walk them to a cab outside when I am ready to send them home, rather than let them sleepover. My dad just sent me this email:
"Have a safe trip back to ______. Feel better and take care of yourself. Sounds like you need a little more rest. As you continue on this journey to find your soul mate, have fun but always remember that everyone you meet, everyone you encounter deserves to be treated with respect and decency. No if ands or buts. With respect and decency. As we discussed briefly, for you, convincing a beautiful young woman to sleep with you is the easy and fun part but for what it is worth, what I came to realize and it took me a long time to come to this realization, is that I wanted to be with someone who was not only beautiful and smart like Mom, but equally important someone who really shared my values. Someone who was ambitious, independent and had her own thoughts and ideas. But maybe most importantly, what I came to realize is that I wanted to be with someone who would be a real partner in all aspects of my life--financially, emotionally, spiritually etc. A relationship takes a lot of work, there are plenty of ups and downs and lots of sacrifices to make but having a real partner in life makes it a whole lot easier. Enough of my philosophizing. Dad"
Aside from this email, they constantly ask me why I don't have a girlfriend, and why I feel the need to see multiple girls. They warn me that this is not the path to a happy relationship etc.
I usually respond my telling them it takes time to find the right girl, and that it's important for me to see different people now so that I ultimately know what I am looking for.
Do you guys get questioned or critiqued by your family/friends?
If so, how do you respond?
I swore to never let that happen again, to not let girls push me around, and to become better at meeting and hooking up with girls…think I discovered Roosh V by typing into google something like this: "How do I get over my ex-girlfriend?" - lol
Fast forward a few years, and I'm at a very happy point in my life. I'm enjoying college, and slaying girls with ease. Whether it be 18 year old freshman from school, or 25-30 year old women back home in New York City, my game has come a very long way…I do not get emotionally attached to girls, save a few rotation pieces I keep around at home or at school, who I try to see at max once or twice a week.
Anyway…this past winter break, I had to deal with a lot of interrogation from my parents. My mom keeps telling me I'm a massogonist, and my father continually tells me that he raised a 'gentleman', not someone who only uses girls for sex…Over the course of my 4 week christmas break, I brought 7 girls back to my place to have sex. Several of them were girls from high-school etc. that I had already slept with, while a few were new notches. I walk them to a cab outside when I am ready to send them home, rather than let them sleepover. My dad just sent me this email:
"Have a safe trip back to ______. Feel better and take care of yourself. Sounds like you need a little more rest. As you continue on this journey to find your soul mate, have fun but always remember that everyone you meet, everyone you encounter deserves to be treated with respect and decency. No if ands or buts. With respect and decency. As we discussed briefly, for you, convincing a beautiful young woman to sleep with you is the easy and fun part but for what it is worth, what I came to realize and it took me a long time to come to this realization, is that I wanted to be with someone who was not only beautiful and smart like Mom, but equally important someone who really shared my values. Someone who was ambitious, independent and had her own thoughts and ideas. But maybe most importantly, what I came to realize is that I wanted to be with someone who would be a real partner in all aspects of my life--financially, emotionally, spiritually etc. A relationship takes a lot of work, there are plenty of ups and downs and lots of sacrifices to make but having a real partner in life makes it a whole lot easier. Enough of my philosophizing. Dad"
Aside from this email, they constantly ask me why I don't have a girlfriend, and why I feel the need to see multiple girls. They warn me that this is not the path to a happy relationship etc.
I usually respond my telling them it takes time to find the right girl, and that it's important for me to see different people now so that I ultimately know what I am looking for.
Do you guys get questioned or critiqued by your family/friends?
If so, how do you respond?