Quote: (01-02-2014 11:44 AM)LeightonBlackstock Wrote:
Quote: (01-02-2014 10:27 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:
She was traveling with a Chinese girl. They were both really friendly and open to my approach. After I first went and talked with them and started dancing, we separated on the floor and they came and sought me out where I was standing afterward. A few Asian guys were following them around the dance floor but getting no love.
Beyond Borders, interesting, so there is a prominent dance-floor culture in Cambodia? In Thailand it seems rare, in my experience. I miss dance-floor game :'(, it's fun and usually leads to easy make-outs/some one-night-stands. May have to take a trip to Siem Reap at some point.
Yes, surprisingly, dancing is huge in Cambodia (at least according to my experiences in SR). Not just at tourist spots either - at the local discos. It's kind of cool after spending a lot of time in Thailand and Laos. The local youngsters even go out sober because they don't have the loot and spend all night dancing it up with friends, though plenty of drinking goes down too. Pretty common for local friends to invite you to go out dancing with them.
You don't see as much grinding and making out as you would back home - it's more social fun than seduction - and some girls will back you up if you try to get too close, even if they like you. But it does happen.
The teenagers and 20-somethings seem to emulate American culture in a lot of ways (the way they dress, hip hop music, etc), so I think that's where it comes from. On NYE I joined the family that owns the hotel I rent an apartment at for a big dinner and the teenager was blasting some gangster rap right in Grandma and grandpa's ear all through dinner, but the old-timers didn't speak any English so they had no idea what they were listening to anyways. Funny.
Anyways, the Chinese and Korean girl were in a spot frequented by tourists, but for New Years the place was flooded with locals.
All that said I can't promise you'll like it here. LOL It's still not Thailand. I'm probably an oddball in that I could be comfortable here for long periods.
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Never understood how you can live there long-term :-P.
I'm pretty ready to move on. But for the most part I've been tucked into my room and getting used to the not drinking and getting my shit together thing. I'm not so much here because I love it as I'm here because it's convenient. I feel like I have nowhere in the world to be at the moment and am trying to teach myself not to rush through life so much. And as I mentioned before, I can sort of get used to anywhere.
The way I see it is that in any given place, you end up falling into a basic routine and only do so much stuff on a regular basis. So I figure that as long as I have the basics and then the novelty of a foreign place to keep me entertained I stay pretty satisfied.
My feet are getting restless though and the dating options could definitely be better. I've got a few things going but nothing I'm very stoked on. And Siem Reap is a rather small city, which can be problematic....
That said, I don't think it would take very long to lock in a decent-looking girlfriend for a while if I knew I was staying, which I have never made a decision about this whole time. The place is most certainly not crawling with datable women but they are here. Just not the best place for a playboy.
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The tuk-tuk drivers fucking pissed me off in my short trip to Phnom Penh. Usually only thirty seconds of peace before "HEY. YOU. TUK-TUK?". Damn annoying.
Yeah, they're fucked. I've come to realize they hassle the locals just as much though. You'd be lucky to get 30 seconds of peace in Siem Reap. ha
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"Do you want to know about the Hairy mother?"
Hilarious.
Beyond All Seas
"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling