The art project thread made me think about something I have been doing with good success lately.
Background: As a man you should have an interesting life. Part of your interesting life should involve ongoing projects to better yourself and add value to your community. You can parlay these projects into smooth opinion openers that demonstrate you are an interesting man of high value. Project game can work during night or day or both depending on your project.
Directions:
1. Brainstorm your projects
I prefer to run multiple projects at once simply because a single project can rarely occupy all of my time. You should have at least two running: a business project and a personal project.
Business project: Whether it be a high-octane startup or minute side hustle, you need something that is interesting and appeals to your niche of females for this to work. I like girls that enjoy having a good time and are also into fitness so as an example I will use starting a local dodgeball/kickball league as my business project.
Personal project: This is very similar to the business project except your not doing it in the hopes of bringing in any income, your doing it simply for fun. I'll use organizing a monthly pub crawl as my personal project.
Notice both projects can be used to make money and build a social circle. That is what a man should be doing.
2. Start your project
This isn't designed to be a lesson in business creation, if you need help with that there is tons of info here and on multiple other forums.
I will offer this advice: Don't get stuck in the endless cycle of research that leads to never taking action. You will find you will learn much fast by going out there and having life punch you in the face a few times. Just go start your projects and learn as you go.
3. Gather your materials
*Business cards in your wallet
*Flyers in your laptop bag
*Folders organized on your laptop for each project
D/K League: I’m going to run this primarily through a website from my laptop so coffee shops are going to be stomping grounds. I am also going to hit restaurants and pubs from time to time during slow hours where I will work from my laptop as I eat and have a couple beers. The slow hours ensure the waitress has enough free time for me to run my project game on her.
In my laptop bag I will have two-three separate flyer designs, a print-out of different logo options, a print out of the league schedule, and a map of the city highlighting the fields and gyms where it will take place. My laptop will have a folder on the desktop so I can easily access all my business documents and digital products so I can easily find items I need when they are brought up in discussion. In my wallet I will have two different biz card designs.
Pub Crawl: This is also going to be ran primarily through a website so I will have everything listed above as well.
4. Prepare your opener
I use two main openers:
A.) Take out your two separate flyer designs (or biz cards) and ask: “which one of these catches your eye the most”
B.) If your on the street and can’t rummage through a folder of flyers you use the two different business card designs or you can open with “you look like you enjoy X (fitness), I’m organizing Y (dodgeball/kickball), you should check out the website (hand card)”
5.Hitting the venues
Coffee shops – I never realized the true potential of coffee shop game until I started incorporating project game into it. Your essentially taking typical coffee shop strategy(read day bang if you don’t know what I’m talking about) and using your projects as opposed to elderly openers. You sit in high traffic flow areas or at tables that ensure some people will sit in your conversational range. Then you pull out the “which one” opener using the flyers.
You can then talk about all sorts of things to keep the conversation going: flyer color scheme, where you are going to put the flyers, how complicated marketing is, how much fun dodgeball/kickball is, how your trying to get the city to allow open containers at the games, etc, etc, etc.
Run out things to talk about? Then pull out your flyers for the other project and do the same thing.
Restaurants – You want to go at the slow times so that waitresses will have plenty of time to chat and there will be room at the bar to open your laptop. Your target will be primarily waitresses and bartenders.
Grocery store – You wont have the luxury of time being on your side here. You have to be quick and surgical. You also need to practice top notch target selection. For the D/K league I am looking for girls wearing something that signals fitness such as yoga pants or running shoes. For the Pub Crawl I am looking for girls in the beer section or with beer in their carts.
Here when I see a chick that I like I will go with opener B. I love using the fitness opener because it is rare to find a cute girl who will say she is not interested in fitness. She essentially has to respond to your opener otherwise she is subconsciously calling herself fat or lazy. If she hooks into the league idea I will talk about that, if not I will start running standard grocery store rambling game.
Streets – Stand on a corner handing flyers out. Street game becomes a lot easier when people see that you have a reason to be there and a reason to stop them out of the blue.
Bars/Night Game – Use your projects as a conversational piece and a way to DHV. Your not whipping out flyers or biz cards here. Your being cocky and funny and showing that you have a life that is way more interesting than hers.
Night game is way I chose the Pub Crawl as a project. Your surrounded by potential customers every time you go out at night. In between poking fun at the girl you can ask her which bars are her favorites and why, how much she would pay, what would make it more fun, etc. You can also do some work on the bartenders but I don’t recommend gaming bartenders. Use the bartenders to get the place on lock, especially if you are running a project such as the Pub Crawl.
6. Closing – are going from meet to bang
This is where some people get confused because these projects are legitimate ongoing hustles not just gimmicks used to get in a girls pants. Because of this you need to be a bit more careful on burning bridges, as you need to protect your reputation. You also need to game in such a manner as she is aware you are interested in her as more than just a potential client.
First off – how to get the number
Roosh talks about a 10-15 minute conversation during the day being worth more than a 4 hour conversation during night game, and I completely agree. Project game makes it frighteningly easy to get up to that 10-15 minute barrier during the day.
So getting the number is pretty easy. You’ve engaged her in a friendly non threatening way with valid questions about a subject that is a DHV while being your charming player self. Nine times out of ten all you have to do is ask for the number at that point. You can run GALNUC at the end if that is a more comfortable progression for you.
Setting up the date –
I give the girls nicknames. If they “helped” me with a logo idea, they become “Logo girl” or something of the sort. Girls love nicknames.
While getting the number, you should have told logo girl that you will meet her for drinks sometime. Remember, she is not a client. Treat her as a potential bang, not as a potential client.
Getting the notch -
No need to reinvent the wheel, just run Tuths first date recipe.
7. Handling Fallout AKA Managing Expectations
She will probably try to lock you down as she sees you have more potential to provide for her than the typical skinny pants wearing fool she meets. She your not running a fortune 500 company, but you are doing something that requires ambition, drive, wit, intuition, and balls; and that is extremely attractive to most females.
But do you want to hear my absolute favorite part of project game? Of course you do.
You have already managed expectations!
You’re already a very busy businessman running multiple projects and she knows this. She can try all she wants, but you’re always “busy with work” if you want to blow her off. Or you can keep her around and when she starts getting clingy its back to “busy with work.”
real world example
this just happened to me about twenty minutes ago. I went out to a restaurant to eat and work during the slow time. I got blessed with a super cute waitress. Short, thin, blonde, nice tits, tight little turd cutter,an 8.5 in my book.
1. She goes to sit me, I tell her this wont do I need a table that is big enough to work at and is close to an outlet. She finds one and sits me there.
2. We banter back and forth about my beer order. I tell her to get me her favorite beer, she tells me what it is, I tell her that is a girls beer and to get me something classy, she brings me back a bud light, I tell her "well played".
3. I open the laptop, put in some headphones, and shut her and the world out for the next hour, minus one beer where I just briefly nod yes to tell her I would like another.
4. A bit later she makes another round to me, I pull my headphones out, open up the flyers on my laptop, and use the "which one" opener. She stares intently at both for a bit, I tell her she better choose the one that I chose, she ends up choosing the second one. She asks if I designed the flyers, I say yes and she was impressed.
We talk a bit about why she chose flyer 1 over flyer 2, then she asks what exactly it is for, I break down the project for her and she is even more impressed. She actually tells me that she is in love with the idea, and would use it and recommend it to all her friends.
We talk a bit more. I find out she goes to a rich private college down the road, and she wants me to put flyers up there. I say i'll think about it, and place my food order.
5. I go back to work and ignore her again as I eat.
6. She comes to take away my plate, I give her my card to run.
7. She returns with the bill. I tell her I thought more about putting flyers up at her college and liked the idea, I told her to give me cell phone and she can show the popular spots that she recommends I put them. She writes her name, cell phone, and email on the back of the receipt.
Thats a pretty normal routine for project game on waitresses.
SUMMARY
I'm sure you have noticed that this is nothing groundbreaking. Like I said earlier in the post, there is no need to reinvent the wheel. You simply run Game 101 while pulling girls into your interesting lifestyle.
Background: As a man you should have an interesting life. Part of your interesting life should involve ongoing projects to better yourself and add value to your community. You can parlay these projects into smooth opinion openers that demonstrate you are an interesting man of high value. Project game can work during night or day or both depending on your project.
Directions:
1. Brainstorm your projects
I prefer to run multiple projects at once simply because a single project can rarely occupy all of my time. You should have at least two running: a business project and a personal project.
Business project: Whether it be a high-octane startup or minute side hustle, you need something that is interesting and appeals to your niche of females for this to work. I like girls that enjoy having a good time and are also into fitness so as an example I will use starting a local dodgeball/kickball league as my business project.
Personal project: This is very similar to the business project except your not doing it in the hopes of bringing in any income, your doing it simply for fun. I'll use organizing a monthly pub crawl as my personal project.
Notice both projects can be used to make money and build a social circle. That is what a man should be doing.
2. Start your project
This isn't designed to be a lesson in business creation, if you need help with that there is tons of info here and on multiple other forums.
I will offer this advice: Don't get stuck in the endless cycle of research that leads to never taking action. You will find you will learn much fast by going out there and having life punch you in the face a few times. Just go start your projects and learn as you go.
3. Gather your materials
*Business cards in your wallet
*Flyers in your laptop bag
*Folders organized on your laptop for each project
D/K League: I’m going to run this primarily through a website from my laptop so coffee shops are going to be stomping grounds. I am also going to hit restaurants and pubs from time to time during slow hours where I will work from my laptop as I eat and have a couple beers. The slow hours ensure the waitress has enough free time for me to run my project game on her.
In my laptop bag I will have two-three separate flyer designs, a print-out of different logo options, a print out of the league schedule, and a map of the city highlighting the fields and gyms where it will take place. My laptop will have a folder on the desktop so I can easily access all my business documents and digital products so I can easily find items I need when they are brought up in discussion. In my wallet I will have two different biz card designs.
Pub Crawl: This is also going to be ran primarily through a website so I will have everything listed above as well.
4. Prepare your opener
I use two main openers:
A.) Take out your two separate flyer designs (or biz cards) and ask: “which one of these catches your eye the most”
B.) If your on the street and can’t rummage through a folder of flyers you use the two different business card designs or you can open with “you look like you enjoy X (fitness), I’m organizing Y (dodgeball/kickball), you should check out the website (hand card)”
5.Hitting the venues
Coffee shops – I never realized the true potential of coffee shop game until I started incorporating project game into it. Your essentially taking typical coffee shop strategy(read day bang if you don’t know what I’m talking about) and using your projects as opposed to elderly openers. You sit in high traffic flow areas or at tables that ensure some people will sit in your conversational range. Then you pull out the “which one” opener using the flyers.
You can then talk about all sorts of things to keep the conversation going: flyer color scheme, where you are going to put the flyers, how complicated marketing is, how much fun dodgeball/kickball is, how your trying to get the city to allow open containers at the games, etc, etc, etc.
Run out things to talk about? Then pull out your flyers for the other project and do the same thing.
Restaurants – You want to go at the slow times so that waitresses will have plenty of time to chat and there will be room at the bar to open your laptop. Your target will be primarily waitresses and bartenders.
Grocery store – You wont have the luxury of time being on your side here. You have to be quick and surgical. You also need to practice top notch target selection. For the D/K league I am looking for girls wearing something that signals fitness such as yoga pants or running shoes. For the Pub Crawl I am looking for girls in the beer section or with beer in their carts.
Here when I see a chick that I like I will go with opener B. I love using the fitness opener because it is rare to find a cute girl who will say she is not interested in fitness. She essentially has to respond to your opener otherwise she is subconsciously calling herself fat or lazy. If she hooks into the league idea I will talk about that, if not I will start running standard grocery store rambling game.
Streets – Stand on a corner handing flyers out. Street game becomes a lot easier when people see that you have a reason to be there and a reason to stop them out of the blue.
Bars/Night Game – Use your projects as a conversational piece and a way to DHV. Your not whipping out flyers or biz cards here. Your being cocky and funny and showing that you have a life that is way more interesting than hers.
Night game is way I chose the Pub Crawl as a project. Your surrounded by potential customers every time you go out at night. In between poking fun at the girl you can ask her which bars are her favorites and why, how much she would pay, what would make it more fun, etc. You can also do some work on the bartenders but I don’t recommend gaming bartenders. Use the bartenders to get the place on lock, especially if you are running a project such as the Pub Crawl.
6. Closing – are going from meet to bang
This is where some people get confused because these projects are legitimate ongoing hustles not just gimmicks used to get in a girls pants. Because of this you need to be a bit more careful on burning bridges, as you need to protect your reputation. You also need to game in such a manner as she is aware you are interested in her as more than just a potential client.
First off – how to get the number
Roosh talks about a 10-15 minute conversation during the day being worth more than a 4 hour conversation during night game, and I completely agree. Project game makes it frighteningly easy to get up to that 10-15 minute barrier during the day.
So getting the number is pretty easy. You’ve engaged her in a friendly non threatening way with valid questions about a subject that is a DHV while being your charming player self. Nine times out of ten all you have to do is ask for the number at that point. You can run GALNUC at the end if that is a more comfortable progression for you.
Setting up the date –
I give the girls nicknames. If they “helped” me with a logo idea, they become “Logo girl” or something of the sort. Girls love nicknames.
While getting the number, you should have told logo girl that you will meet her for drinks sometime. Remember, she is not a client. Treat her as a potential bang, not as a potential client.
Getting the notch -
No need to reinvent the wheel, just run Tuths first date recipe.
7. Handling Fallout AKA Managing Expectations
She will probably try to lock you down as she sees you have more potential to provide for her than the typical skinny pants wearing fool she meets. She your not running a fortune 500 company, but you are doing something that requires ambition, drive, wit, intuition, and balls; and that is extremely attractive to most females.
But do you want to hear my absolute favorite part of project game? Of course you do.
You have already managed expectations!
You’re already a very busy businessman running multiple projects and she knows this. She can try all she wants, but you’re always “busy with work” if you want to blow her off. Or you can keep her around and when she starts getting clingy its back to “busy with work.”
real world example
this just happened to me about twenty minutes ago. I went out to a restaurant to eat and work during the slow time. I got blessed with a super cute waitress. Short, thin, blonde, nice tits, tight little turd cutter,an 8.5 in my book.
1. She goes to sit me, I tell her this wont do I need a table that is big enough to work at and is close to an outlet. She finds one and sits me there.
2. We banter back and forth about my beer order. I tell her to get me her favorite beer, she tells me what it is, I tell her that is a girls beer and to get me something classy, she brings me back a bud light, I tell her "well played".
3. I open the laptop, put in some headphones, and shut her and the world out for the next hour, minus one beer where I just briefly nod yes to tell her I would like another.
4. A bit later she makes another round to me, I pull my headphones out, open up the flyers on my laptop, and use the "which one" opener. She stares intently at both for a bit, I tell her she better choose the one that I chose, she ends up choosing the second one. She asks if I designed the flyers, I say yes and she was impressed.
We talk a bit about why she chose flyer 1 over flyer 2, then she asks what exactly it is for, I break down the project for her and she is even more impressed. She actually tells me that she is in love with the idea, and would use it and recommend it to all her friends.
We talk a bit more. I find out she goes to a rich private college down the road, and she wants me to put flyers up there. I say i'll think about it, and place my food order.
5. I go back to work and ignore her again as I eat.
6. She comes to take away my plate, I give her my card to run.
7. She returns with the bill. I tell her I thought more about putting flyers up at her college and liked the idea, I told her to give me cell phone and she can show the popular spots that she recommends I put them. She writes her name, cell phone, and email on the back of the receipt.
Thats a pretty normal routine for project game on waitresses.
SUMMARY
I'm sure you have noticed that this is nothing groundbreaking. Like I said earlier in the post, there is no need to reinvent the wheel. You simply run Game 101 while pulling girls into your interesting lifestyle.
God'll prolly have me on some real strict shit
No sleeping all day, no getting my dick licked
The Original Emotional Alpha