So I used to date a girl with a really cute sister. Long story short, we hooked up behind my gfs back.
Well my gf and I broke up back in may. And her sister started dating some older dude who she apparently fel in love with. But after a few months he left her for some other girl. Well for some reason she came running back to me despite us not having much contact since.
After texting and talking back and forth over the course of a few weeks, she told me she was going to boot camp for the Air Force and offered to fly me up to visit her a few weeks before she leaves if I was cool for paying for a hotel (she still lives with her parents at the moment).
I went up to visit. We had a fun time and she's a cool girl. But I always assumed that sex was implied because she even said she wanted to have sex with me when we were talking awhile back.
We got to the hotel and were watching a movie in bed and cuddling. I told her I wanted her and she said she feels weird about it...I asked her why. She says "because this is the first time we have hung out one on one and I don't wanna do that right off the bat. I also feel weird cuz you had sex with my sister. But I like you and wanna see you some more before it gets that far"
I told her that it was kind of ridiculous because she's gonna be leaving for the military and who knows what will happen. I also said that will me and her sisters past prevent it from ever getting that far.
She told me she's going to see me within the next year and the sister thing won't bug her once we hang out more. I was disappointed but I saw no need to make a fit about it. It is what it is and I did my best to convince her.
Well she starts feeling her pussy and says "I need to trim it a little lol" I replied with "why are you teasing me..." She says "if I was teasing you I'd ask you to feel!"
Well she eventually let me feel and I started fingering her and kissing on her neck. She was saying how much she loved it but stopped me after a minute or two and said she couldn't. I tried some more convincing but her mind was set.
So yeah..idk how to feel or what to think. This isn't the first time this has happened to me. I have ran into other situations where I am almost certain sex is in the bag, but it's stopped for a bullshit reason. So wtf man? Why am I getting so close to the pussy but coming up short? Is this shit common for most dudes? It's happened to me more than once and it really makes me question even trying because it seems like a waste on time.
When shit like this happens it really fucks with me mentally. I often wonder if there's something I'm lacking that makes me come up short. How the fuck can I be in a bed with a girl who clearly has an attraction to me and not gt the pussy?
Well my gf and I broke up back in may. And her sister started dating some older dude who she apparently fel in love with. But after a few months he left her for some other girl. Well for some reason she came running back to me despite us not having much contact since.
After texting and talking back and forth over the course of a few weeks, she told me she was going to boot camp for the Air Force and offered to fly me up to visit her a few weeks before she leaves if I was cool for paying for a hotel (she still lives with her parents at the moment).
I went up to visit. We had a fun time and she's a cool girl. But I always assumed that sex was implied because she even said she wanted to have sex with me when we were talking awhile back.
We got to the hotel and were watching a movie in bed and cuddling. I told her I wanted her and she said she feels weird about it...I asked her why. She says "because this is the first time we have hung out one on one and I don't wanna do that right off the bat. I also feel weird cuz you had sex with my sister. But I like you and wanna see you some more before it gets that far"
I told her that it was kind of ridiculous because she's gonna be leaving for the military and who knows what will happen. I also said that will me and her sisters past prevent it from ever getting that far.
She told me she's going to see me within the next year and the sister thing won't bug her once we hang out more. I was disappointed but I saw no need to make a fit about it. It is what it is and I did my best to convince her.
Well she starts feeling her pussy and says "I need to trim it a little lol" I replied with "why are you teasing me..." She says "if I was teasing you I'd ask you to feel!"
Well she eventually let me feel and I started fingering her and kissing on her neck. She was saying how much she loved it but stopped me after a minute or two and said she couldn't. I tried some more convincing but her mind was set.
So yeah..idk how to feel or what to think. This isn't the first time this has happened to me. I have ran into other situations where I am almost certain sex is in the bag, but it's stopped for a bullshit reason. So wtf man? Why am I getting so close to the pussy but coming up short? Is this shit common for most dudes? It's happened to me more than once and it really makes me question even trying because it seems like a waste on time.
When shit like this happens it really fucks with me mentally. I often wonder if there's something I'm lacking that makes me come up short. How the fuck can I be in a bed with a girl who clearly has an attraction to me and not gt the pussy?