Hey gents...
Relation to earlier post: "where do I proceed from here".
This girl threw a bomb in my face the other day confessing she had had SERIOUS feelings for me all along. I had a hunch, but figured I was flattering myself.
After some hassle, we set up a date where I gave her her birthday present. I actually thought she had gotten me a present for my birthday too (see earlier thread). We had a good time, nice vibe, very comfortable talking and, I think, real connection. I got some good kissing going with her. But she refused to come back to my place for "chow"... she knew it would lead to a bang, said as much, and expressed fear of regrets on her part. She told me she was finally getting over me (she deleted me on FB and everything), so she just didn't want to start over.
Later that night, I got a text from her:
Her: "Heysasasa. Thanks for a great afternoon and the nice gift It was really wonderful to see you again! Lo digo de verdad."
I was like nice, so I replied "Me alegro. Vamos hablar manana"
I text her a link for a job I thought she ought to apply for next afternoon, as we had been talking about how she had applied for a job in Barcelona she really wanted. Of course I'd like her to stick around so she can go with me to Argentina with me next fall instead, I didn't say that, but I sent her the link:
Me: "Check your mail "
Her: "Thanks Will you be in Buenos Aires at that time? The job fits my schedule well since it's in the fall."
Me: "That's my plan. I'll help you write a killer application and you can give me free spanish lessons in exchange"
Her: "Es un trato! Pero no tengo tiempo para ayudarte ahora. Tiene que ser despues los examenes"
And I was like, "dumb bitch" going off and ruining it the convo.
So I waited till today, then I threw her a new one:
Me: "Espero que seas una buena maestra. Tienes que venir a mi piso con mi regalo, para que pueda practicar mi chamuyo contigo: "conoces una playa buena por aqui?" Como fue el té?"
Five hours later (midnight):
Her: "El té esta buenisimo. Tienes q probarlo Sabes q soy la mejor profesora del mundo...jeje. Buenas noches Loco! Qué duermas con los angeles"
Is she avoiding me? Is she discouraging or encouraging me? I'm baffled. She checks her phone often.
Any tips advice to build comfort and advance the seduction process here?
Relation to earlier post: "where do I proceed from here".
This girl threw a bomb in my face the other day confessing she had had SERIOUS feelings for me all along. I had a hunch, but figured I was flattering myself.
After some hassle, we set up a date where I gave her her birthday present. I actually thought she had gotten me a present for my birthday too (see earlier thread). We had a good time, nice vibe, very comfortable talking and, I think, real connection. I got some good kissing going with her. But she refused to come back to my place for "chow"... she knew it would lead to a bang, said as much, and expressed fear of regrets on her part. She told me she was finally getting over me (she deleted me on FB and everything), so she just didn't want to start over.
Later that night, I got a text from her:
Her: "Heysasasa. Thanks for a great afternoon and the nice gift It was really wonderful to see you again! Lo digo de verdad."
I was like nice, so I replied "Me alegro. Vamos hablar manana"
I text her a link for a job I thought she ought to apply for next afternoon, as we had been talking about how she had applied for a job in Barcelona she really wanted. Of course I'd like her to stick around so she can go with me to Argentina with me next fall instead, I didn't say that, but I sent her the link:
Me: "Check your mail "
Her: "Thanks Will you be in Buenos Aires at that time? The job fits my schedule well since it's in the fall."
Me: "That's my plan. I'll help you write a killer application and you can give me free spanish lessons in exchange"
Her: "Es un trato! Pero no tengo tiempo para ayudarte ahora. Tiene que ser despues los examenes"
And I was like, "dumb bitch" going off and ruining it the convo.
So I waited till today, then I threw her a new one:
Me: "Espero que seas una buena maestra. Tienes que venir a mi piso con mi regalo, para que pueda practicar mi chamuyo contigo: "conoces una playa buena por aqui?" Como fue el té?"
Five hours later (midnight):
Her: "El té esta buenisimo. Tienes q probarlo Sabes q soy la mejor profesora del mundo...jeje. Buenas noches Loco! Qué duermas con los angeles"
Is she avoiding me? Is she discouraging or encouraging me? I'm baffled. She checks her phone often.
Any tips advice to build comfort and advance the seduction process here?