[pjwolts]

I have some questions (very unrelated to one another) about game for some time that I do not seem to find answers... So, if someone could give me a hint I would appreciate!!

1. It is very common to see people saying that two important characteristics of a male are to be non-reative as well as dominant. Yet, my confusion arises from the fact that there seem to be situations where these two traits seem to conflict with one another. Example: If a girl cancel a date with you or do not want to accept a request you make to her... It seems like the non-reative thing to be done in such cases is to accept and "not care about it", yet the dominant thing to be done is to insist or even point out limits for the girl's actions. Thus, my question is to which extend do you guys think it is important to be non-reative and to which extend do you guys think it is important to be dominant?

2. After how long going out with a girl a guy can stop to have the "gaming mindset"? What I mean here by stopping the "game mindset" is not completely changing the way a guy behaves with a girl from day to night, which would simply kill all the relationship. Rather, what I mean here by the "game mindset" is the mindset where we keep thinking about the best moves to make with a girl (such as: when is a good time to text her, how much interest a guy can show, etc) and just act more spontaneously.

3. If you are in a social circle and a girl start pushing another girl (which lets assume you are interested in) to you by saying thing like: "She is beautiful, do you like her?", "Look how my friend is cute", "You guys should date", etc. then what is the best response that a guy can give?

4. What is the best way to keep the interest of a girl that you met traveling in order to see her the next time that you go to the place?

5. How can I make a girl be interested in me as a boyfriend, rather then only as a "lover". I had countless situations where I started seeing a girl, yet I could notice that the girl only saw me as a non-serious thing. Is there anything I could do in order to make a girl see me more as a boyfriend, rather then as a non-serious thing? My own guess is that sometimes I create too much "attraction", yet no "comfort" with a girl... Does this affect the way the girl sees me?

6. Could you guys list down all the conversational "tools" that you find useful in order to create attraction with a girl. Things such as: teasing, role playing, challenging, etc.

Cheers

[Tactician]

1. You can do both, here's an example: http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-34944-...#pid698484:

(04-09-2014 03:52 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(04-09-2014 03:33 PM)Aziz Nuts Wrote:  

Does anyone have an example of how they banged a stupid girl? Conversation topics/tactics/etc?

Most of the girls I bang are "stupid".

Here is an example..

I was walking through to dorms at a local University, pretending to be a grad student of course. I see a cute young Latina wearing a shirt that says "Newport Beach", she is walking just ahead of me. I speed up in front of her, turn and say..

me: are you from newport beach?
her: yes i am
me: i just got back from there (lie)
her: really i miss it
me: ya it so cool down there..how long have yo been up here?
her: just since the start of the semester
me" oh welcome to san francisco
her: thanks
me: are you freezing up here?
her: no i like it
me: you like this natural air conditioning huh?
her: ya
me: so your enjoying sf so far?
her: ya living in the dorms is an adjustment, i always had my own room.
me: haha ya thats kind of weird, hows your roommate?
her: shes ok i guess
me: oh shit, dorm life! i don't miss it.
her: what do you study?
me: pe
her: oh
me: ya im a health and fitness guy, hows the dorm food?
her: terrible
me: ha i know, are you latina?
her: ya mexican
me: me too im half. any good mexican food around here?
her: no its terrible, thats why i miss home.
me: we should hang out, i make tortillas, beans, and everything
her: tortillas from scratch?
me: of course
her: omg! seriously?

This is where I knew I had a chance with her. We made a connection. A connection based on mexican food. Food is a great connector!

me: yes, corn, flour, half and half, i do it all. Give me your number I'll call you soon and we can eat right.
her: sure

I texted her a few days later..

"hey its gio, nice meeting you, let me know when you down for some homemade tacos"

her: "sounds good. later this week"

I didn't hear from her for a week. But, I saw hear around school a week later, luckily I was dressed nice. We chatted, it went well. She said she is down to hang out.

A few days go by, I text her.

"I can't believe you are not calling me? What the hell are you eating over there?"

her: "I know! I've been super busy. Are you free next week?"

I waited a few days to reply back to her.

"ya, wed or thurs. after 6pm"

A few days later, I saw her on campus again. We just waved at each other but I could tell it was good because she had a nice little seductive look in her eye.

Last week, I texted her again..

"you going home for thanksgiving or you staying up here? I'm making tortillas, beans, and chile if you wanna hang out"

her: i'm down, what day?

me: "wednesday"

her: "cool"

Wednesday comes, I pick her up at 8, she looks great. 18, right out of high school, tight dress, very pretty.

I say "lets go by the store and get something to drink"

She says: "i feel like white wine"

Me: Dancingman

When an 18yo suggests alcohol, she is dtf!

We go to my place, we eat, we drink, we smoke weed, she starts touching my arm and leg, I know its on, I don't rush it, I let her finish her wine and keep touching me. When she is nice a tipsy and laughing I make my move, I start gently rubbiong her leg, I go in for the kiss, at forst she pulls away so I kiss her neck instead, now she is into it, we start making out, i start rubbing her pussy. She gives me no more resistance.

Barely legal Bang!

Her pussy looked and smelled and tasted like it had never been used. I swear to god it looked like a brand new pussy and smelled like a fresh mango!

18yo pussy is incredible. She was tight, inexperienced, and just laid there quietly, but looking down and seeing her young body kept my boner at full attention!

*****

Notice how I didn't get into any in-depth, intelligent conversation with her.

I just offered her food, got her in my couch, got her drunk, and got physical.

(04-09-2014 03:45 PM)tylerdurden1993 Wrote:  

I prefer stupid girls

Me too. They are easier.

(04-10-2014 03:08 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

What I admire the most about Gio's approach is how relentless and unaffected by her unreliability he is. She doesn't respond to a text? LOL whatever, just text her again after a few days until she gives in. No butthurt or reaction at all. Salut, Gio.

2. It'll come with practice, but it's different for everybody. Often, when a skinny person gets jacked, or an overweight person becomes fit, they still see their old selves in the mirror. Here's a passage from The Art of Learning, by Josh Waitzkin:

Quote:

Let's say that I spend fifteen years studying chess. During these thousands of hours, my mind is definitely cutting paths through the dense jungle of chess. The jungle analogy ts a good one. Imagine how time-consuming it would be to use a machete to cut your way through thick foliage. A few miles could take days. Once the path is cleared, however, you could move quickly through the clearing.

Try to just get one or two things down pat, and then build up more good habits. For example, a total newbie might start by working on walking around with good posture, then start making eye contact with everyone, then start small talk with cashiers, etc. etc., until finally he's working on when to escalate at a club, or how to manage a rotation.

3,4,5,6 - I'm too tired right now.

[Comfort_Eagle]

(11-26-2014 08:38 PM)pjwolts Wrote:  

After how long going out with a girl a guy can stop to have the "gaming mindset"? What I mean here by stopping the "game mindset" is not completely changing the way a guy behaves with a girl from day to night, which would simply kill all the relationship. Rather, what I mean here by the "game mindset" is the mindset where we keep thinking about the best moves to make with a girl (such as: when is a good time to text her, how much interest a guy can show, etc) and just act more spontaneously.

The point of game is not only to git gud with girls (The 3 G's™, trademark mine) but to improve yourself as a man. It entails long-term change.

Whether you need to "stop" gaming a girl by some point in a relationship is dependent on the girl. You may never have/be able to stop. With enough time and practice in honing your game, however, you won't need to "stop" doing anything, as it eventually comes naturally, in the way of being quicker on your feet, more able to pick up subtle cues, and "get" her. In any medium- to long-term relationship, though, your "game" may certainly need to be toned down as she grows more comfortable with what you expect from her.