[Gunner]

Friends,

I just had a horrible experience, please help:

Friday night at a club I met a girl, as I was horny and really drunk (as drunk as you can get) it was the first girl that I approached and she was really receptive, we made out and I wanted to bang and she did too but she's a doctor so her day started at 7am, we could not bang.

At the club I thought she was a 6, a little bit fat and old (33) but boner passable, and the making out was cool. She promised that if I called her on saturday I was going to be recompensated.

I did not call her on saturday, I was not going to call her ever. But, today, after Mexico's loss on the world cup I was a little bit drunk and horny, so I texted her:

Me: Come to my place
Her: You did not call me yesterday
Her: I'm sad for Mexico's loss
Me: Me too, come to my place and we consolate each other

She arrived to my place and I did not like her. A barely 5, old, more fat and busted face and with a bad tattoo. I thought: I'm horny, she's here, let's do it.

We started making out naked and my dick was DEAD, completely DEAD, she gave me a great BJ, one of the best ever and my dick was 60%. I worried and took a Cialis from my counter.
I had a full erection and then I penetrated her, and in ONE Second I came. JUST ONE SECOND, this had never happened before. My previous premature experiences were 2minutes or something like that. Never one second.

She was comprehensive and we talked a little bit, not a little bit of fun making, really respectful and tried to blow me again but I could not get it up again. 0% erection.

So she just left and I'm worried, It's worth mentioning that I'm going out more or less serious with a really nice girl and she is getting exclusive with me (Mexico is different), I really like her and told her that I could be exclusive. She came to my mind while I was making out with the other and felt a little bit bad.

1) Is this a normal reaction? Was it because psychologically I did not wanted to do it?
2) Or my penis does not work?
3) Should I call her again and try to ammend my ego or try to forget it? (I am a obsessive person with a little bit of damaged ego, so I always try to stand out)

Thanks

[Cr33pin]

You are better off just writing this one off as water under the bridge. It happened, it wasn't great, learn from it and move on. I certainly would not recommend giving this older 5 another shot for any ones sake. Imagine how bad your gonna feel if the same thing happens the next time you two hang out, then you might start to develop more of a mental complex thats only gonna make matters worse.

I wouldn't be to worried about your alleged penis. If you were really into the girl and really wanted to bang her it would have worked just fine. These types of things happen to all guys.... for one reason or the other they start to second guess if they wanna be doing this or not and BOOM... bye bye boner. Its nothing to lose sleep over.

As long as your penis works like it should when you are with the girl you really like and are going out with you are fine.

[Basil Ransom]

1. Belongs in newbie forum.
2. Bad thread title.

[Lizard King]

Your dick has a way of telling you that you shouldn't be doing something.

[Constitution45]

I wouldn't beat yourself up about it, two things it probably is.

1) Nofap, internet pornography, masturbation, I know many men who have had the same problem, perfectly healthy men. When they packed it all in, they were able to have a healthy sex life and overall existence.

2) Personally I think getting quantity notches for the sake of it, is genuinely mentally damaging. As men we are taught to worship pussy and add this on to our already biological urge to procreate, it leaves us engaging in intimacy with women that are very low quality. Maybe I am over thinking it too much, but sometimes the social reward for getting some sex is better than the actual physical act itself, which it shouldn't be, from a humanist perspective.


TDLR; Internet pornography is the greatest sexual disease man have ever known and don't lower your self esteem by getting intimate with low value women.

[Foolsgo1d]

Your dick was like that cleaning lady from Family Guy.

"no, no, no no"



Looks like it bailed you out and not the other way round this time.

[Saweeep]

I trust my cock more than my brain.

[Bacchus]

You got what you wanted. You got off. The busted girl is out of your life. How is this a bad experience?

You were never enthusiastic about this girl, and it showed. But you shouldn't care about how you perform for some marginal girl.