[AxxM]

Ok, not sure where I went wrong here, been readin a lot and nothin pertained to my situation. I got this chick, met her a few times, fucked her a few. Now she'll text me in the mornin but will only reply a few times in the mornin. In the afternoon to night she will text off and on. When I ask her somethin she won't reply and leave me hanging. Then she'll tell me to go over immediately, I get there no sex, only kiss and she asks me to leave. She only text and I think I'm fuckin up on the textin game... Any advice would be appreciated...

[Dash Global]

she likes to play games. u need to let her know what the deal is aka that she is a fuckbuddy and to not be wasting ur time asking u over then not putting out. if you like her and want a LTR than disregard that advise.

[AxxM]

(10-08-2010 03:08 PM)Dash Global Wrote:  

she likes to play games. u need to let her know what the deal is aka that she is a fuckbuddy and to not be wasting ur time asking u over then not putting out. if you like her and want a LTR than disregard that advise.

That's what I'm thinkin or she tryin game on me or some shit. I just wanna keep this one around, one hell of a fuck.

[MiXX]

(10-08-2010 02:42 PM)cloud7en Wrote:  

Ok, not sure where I went wrong here, been readin a lot and nothin pertained to my situation. I got this chick, met her a few times, fucked her a few. Now she'll text me in the mornin but will only reply a few times in the mornin. In the afternoon to night she will text off and on. When I ask her somethin she won't reply and leave me hanging. Then she'll tell me to go over immediately, I get there no sex, only kiss and she asks me to leave. She only text and I think I'm fuckin up on the textin game... Any advice would be appreciated...

Sit fido boy, sit - good doggie!!! Get what I mean?

The problem is she sees you as her pet, not a dominant man who fucks the shit ouf of her.

Next time she tells you to come over, don't go. Tell her you have other plans with a girlfriend coming to cook for you, or asking you to teach her how to dance, or cook or whatever. Point being, another woman is taking advantage of HER time that she is pissing away and having fun with you.

You'll be bangin away in no time.

Mixx

[AxxM]

UpDate!!!!

Ok, she called, wanted to come over, brought I male friend over, didn't want to fuck, drank for a few hours then left, she sent me a text sayin she's home... what the fuck... one of the freakest chicks I've met and I'm lost cause I love her fuckin!!! Been 3 days since I fucked her!!

[HD668B]

ahah you ask for some advice but you end up doing the opposite and even worse, good job my friend

[AxxM]

(10-10-2010 01:50 PM)LÉtranger Wrote:  

ahah you ask for some advice but you end up doing the opposite and even worse, good job my friend

But see this is after the fact that I didn't go over the other night when she asked, told her at the bar with a female friend singing Karaoke, ignored her throughout the days and then this shit.

[iknowexactly]

she brought a guy over without telling/asking you if it's ok? Fail.

She's running disrespectful game on you.

[AxxM]

(10-10-2010 10:23 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

she brought a guy over without telling/asking you if it's ok? Fail.

She's running disrespectful game on you.

Ok... so just drop her ass??? Or can their be a way to change the shit up on her???

[rumguzzler]

Nah.

For a start, she really has no respect for you, and for women, respect is synonymous with attraction.

Thus, the only way to turn this around is to ignore her and drop all contact, leaving the initiative to her. When she comes back for attention, reply only to every other text, and then only with "one-word" game. "Ok", "Maybe" being the full extent of your vocabulary. Don't be bitter. Bitter is beta.

[iknowexactly]

(10-11-2010 05:39 AM)rumguzzler Wrote:  

Nah.

For a start, she really has no respect for you, and for women, respect is synonymous with attraction.

Even an RAFC like me can see:

Drop immediately. Important to have standards for how people deal with you, and to eliminate people who don't live up to them. The only exception I see is apparently all young chicks flake a ton nowadays so you can't get them unless you somehow learn to deal with that.

BUT, that doesn't excuse the crude push-pull crap she's dumping on you.
"Come over right away." Then she refuses to answer texts?

It would be different if her communication was sporadic, because she's sort of ditzy, but when she did contact you, she was respectful and courteous- and NEVER "ordering" you like that "come right away" shit.

She is not respectful of you.

She's either hopelessly flaky and distractible, or deliberately and calculatedly disrespectful. Both lead to same result:
damage to your self-image the longer you deal with her.

Each time she hurts/disappoints you, and you still go back
you may tend to look at yourself as having less value.

[AxxM]

Well, since then, I dropped the bitch add picked up another. I think she was mental anyways, she kept worryin about bein prego and shit.Think she got pissed cause I had an " I don't give a fuck attitude", pretty funny if you ask me, although I will miss the fuck, another one is around the corner...

[iknowexactly]

(10-16-2010 12:52 PM)cloud7en Wrote:  

I think she was mental anyways, she kept worryin about bein prego and shit.

I work in the mental health field, and one fact is that psychosis ( what people think of as really "crazy"-- disorganized thinking, bizarre beliefs) has an onset later in women than in men.

In most people who "go crazy" with schizophrenia, onset is about between 18 and 30, maybe around 20 for men and 23 or so for women.

"Insidious onset" is when gradual breaks with reality happen, and the person becomes more and more "strange" appearing and acting. This type of illness is less likely to reverse than one comprised of a sudden bizarre delusion.

Severe mental illness tends to be a huge tragedy for a person, and there is often a deep depression as they realize they will never be normal or have a normal life.

One the most common, if not the MOST common delusion among mentally ill women is that they are pregnant when they are not.

But it also can be, as I said, a way of consciously or unconsciously testing a guy she wants to have a kid with to see his reaction so she can gauge the chances of having a kid with him.

The more strange and erratic the woman is, the more her belief she is pregnant is likely to be from mental illness rather than a conscious or unconscious strategy. The woman I personally knew who was always creating pregnancy scares was very controlled and methodical and not mentally ill, she just wanted to get married and have kids and was checking out the prospects with her hipster boyfriend.

Many of the female patients with severe mental illness I read reports on or have seen believe they are pregnant.