[mcr]

Just wondering how you more 'experienced' guys deal with women who get 'pissy' over something and give you the "nothing" is wrong when asked.

Brush it off, or try to care and find out what is wrong. I have enough b.s. in my personal life at the moment to put effort into wondering what is bugging her though.

And I had a great weekend working on my 'game' and have a cute blonde very 'eager' to spend some time with me now, lol.

[Sarryn]

(10-20-2008 12:00 PM)mcr Wrote:  

Just wondering how you more 'experienced' guys deal with women who get 'pissy' over something and give you the "nothing" is wrong when asked.

Brush it off, or try to care and find out what is wrong. I have enough b.s. in my personal life at the moment to put effort into wondering what is bugging her though.

And I had a great weekend working on my 'game' and have a cute blonde very 'eager' to spend some time with me now, lol.

Good, you're in a perfect place and you also answered your own question!

You don't wonder what is bothering her... If your girl is giving you drama (shit-tests) without actually providing a reason you freeze-out.

A good way to not be needy is have other pussy on the side, I'm glad you have that blonde for yourself.

Just remember this... A girl that is pissy or giving drama is ALWAYS horny. Just accept this as fact. Therefore, if she gets pissy without reason, keep in mind she may just be horny and need you to fuck her.

In a situation like this, I would sexually escalate. She'll usually give you shit-tests as you do this, blow through them and continue sexually escalating. If she continues rejecting, do not get mad, just eject. Its not worth your effort. Getting mad in a situation like this is beta.

Also, never ask a girl "whats wrong?" Or "baby whats wrong?" You lower your own value by wondering what is bothering her. Think of it this way: Does a lion wonder what is bothering one of his bitches? No, he goes and fucks the other one.

[mcr]

(10-20-2008 12:06 PM)Sarryn Wrote:  

Just remember this... A girl that is pissy or giving drama is ALWAYS horny. Just accept this as fact. Therefore, if she gets pissy without reason, keep in mind she may just be horny and need you to fuck her.

I am thinking she's maybe a bit jealous since I was out without her the other night (pickup wasn't my intention, but hey I'm recovering my game after a lot time out -- originally it was a guys night out only)...

And she is horny... I can always take it into sex -- _but_ (what turns me off) is she rarely reciprocates foreplay. I have a hard time feeling the mood when I have to do all the work. Hmf.

[Sarryn]

(10-20-2008 12:13 PM)mcr Wrote:  

(10-20-2008 12:06 PM)Sarryn Wrote:  

Just remember this... A girl that is pissy or giving drama is ALWAYS horny. Just accept this as fact. Therefore, if she gets pissy without reason, keep in mind she may just be horny and need you to fuck her.

I am thinking she's maybe a bit jealous since I was out without her the other night (pickup wasn't my intention, but hey I'm recovering my game after a lot time out -- originally it was a guys night out only)...

And she is horny... I can always take it into sex -- _but_ (what turns me off) is she rarely reciprocates foreplay. I have a hard time feeling the mood when I have to do all the work. Hmf.

She's angry you were out with the guys? This sounds like an LSE (low self esteem) trait and a girl like that is not suitable for a LTR. (long term relationship) Girls like this need validation from you being around them. And unless you yourself are low self esteem, you don't need this in your life.

For example, I'm sure to a new guy its an awesome feeling that his girlfriend likes him so much that she gets angry and needy whenever he goes out without her... You don't want to be in that sort of place. Atleast, you know you're succeeding if to you that sort of behavior from a LTR is a turn-off.

[duncanidaho]

(10-20-2008 12:00 PM)mcr Wrote:  

Just wondering how you more 'experienced' guys deal with women who get 'pissy' over something and give you the "nothing" is wrong when asked.

I don't put up with. They start acting pissy then I don't return phone calls and I quit seeing them. The way I see it, if there's something I'm doing or done that's upset a woman, or someone or something else has pissed her off, she needs to be able to express it. Acting pissy in my book is a negative behavior that only breeds the same, and a poor mark of social skills, and since I have standards I walk away.

[Trotter]

Very simple. If you're not wanting anything long term with this girl then let it go and ask nothing about it. If anything her frustration will build up to some decent sex and then eventually an easy out later.

[broken]

(10-20-2008 12:00 PM)mcr Wrote:  

Just wondering how you more 'experienced' guys deal with women who get 'pissy' over something and give you the "nothing" is wrong when asked.

Brush it off, or try to care and find out what is wrong. I have enough b.s. in my personal life at the moment to put effort into wondering what is bugging her though.

And I had a great weekend working on my 'game' and have a cute blonde very 'eager' to spend some time with me now, lol.

It's the price of admission.

You can
- talk to her and try to "communicate" - which means cave
- switch the subject - she sees the gambit after a while
- jump on her (affection) - rewards bad behavior
- silent treatment/withdrawal - creates a new problem
- walk out - can totally break her spirit.

It doesn't end.

If you react to her emotional state, you'll constantly be at her mercy.

With time, you'll recognize when she's being pissy, or she's real serious.

But it never ends.

Never.

[Roosh]

I don't remember the last time I asked a girl what's wrong.

It's kind of like when a toddler cries. If you ask him what's wrong he'll cry louder. When my little brother cries i just ignore him until he either tells me what's wrong or forgets about why he cried in the first place.

[mcr]

(10-26-2008 08:18 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

It's kind of like when a toddler cries. If you ask him what's wrong he'll cry louder. When my little brother cries i just ignore him until he either tells me what's wrong or forgets about why he cried in the first place.

I like that idea, lol.

I did ask this girl what was wrong though - I figure that, at the least, it shows I care (a little bit). When I got the 'nothing', I left it at that and carried on my night and the next day just as if "nothing" was wrong.

She told me I am 'insensitive', but for some reason, that didn't seem to trouble her in the least.

lots of fun!

[Chick]

Sounds like she's unhappy and thinks a relationship will make her happy.
Ditch her.
You don't need to be her source of happiness you should just be a small part of it.