[Spike]

(08-11-2013 01:44 AM)RioNomad Wrote:  

I almost never lie. I don't need to lie to get laid.

It cracks me up when guys lie about how much money they have, their jobs, being a professional "cage fighter", etc.

If I was older, I would lie about my age though.

Strongly agree with this.

I also almost never lie. It just doesn't sit right with me. For me it feels like anti-game. The girl doesn't like you, she likes the lies. This says something about her of course but it says more about you as a person who needs to lie to get laid.

The only times I lied a bit was about my age. Sometimes I kept it under 30 when was 32/33. I could easily get away with it because I do look quite young for my age. This happened sporadically though.

I never lie about materialistic stuff nor did I make any empty promises.

Maybe it has to do with the fact that i'm not a cold-hearted pump and dumper. I have done it, there's no denying that but in general I like to spend a little time with a girl.

I'm a very skeptical and realistic person and sniff out a boaster/liar easily. Sometimes I let them go on with it because I don't want to hurt their "feelings" or want keep the peace.

BTW. Not telling something isn't the same as lying.

[carouge]

Is there such a thing as "honesty game"? I know everyone is different,but like the last couple of posters I try to be honest always,maybe not spilling my guts about everything,but keeping it less complicated and easier on both parties.Like Neil said about them liking the lies,I get more satisfaction for them diggin me for being me.Many would be surprised where being honest will get you with the ladies.Sure its a risk,but isn't it always?I had a gf and when meeting a new girl and the gf question came up,they still called and wanted to hang out! Surprised me the first couple of times but then I realised how easy it was and how less stressful it made things.This way they know right away you don't plan on keeping them around for much more than a fb.I even noticed some were more into me because of the honesty and didnt care about the gf,maybe liked me more cuz of it,maybe not a good thing.So don't be afraid of considering this strategy.Cheers