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“Beauty is unbearable, drives us to despair, offering us for a minute the glimpse of an eternity that we should like to stretch out over the whole of time.”
― Albert Camus
In his brilliant book 'Millions of Women are Waiting to Meet You', the writer Sean Thomas has the best description of the effects female beauty has over a male. Below is an excerpt from the book. I was astonished when I read this since it perfectly captured something I thought could never be described in words.
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When I was on a trip to Iceland about ten years ago, I remember standing on the harbourfront in Reykjavik, and looking at the blue fjord north of the city. Across the choppy blue waves was a glacier, maybe twelve or twenty miles away - a big, dirty white tongue of ice crashing down from the bald black mountains with infinite slowness. Intrigued, I asked some hungover local about the glacier, its name and whereabouts. He told me the name of the glacier. The he told me the name of the sea-channel: Faxafloi. But then he addded that the glacier wasn't twenty miles away, it was two hundred miles away. The air in Iceland, he explained, is so clear and unpolluted, things look nearer than they are.
I turned and looked again at the glacier, framed by the imperial blue waters of the fjord. I felt a bloodrush in my heart. The scenary was so breathtaking, and so majestic - I was moved and gratified - and yet I was obscurely troubled at the same time. The sense of unexpected distance was dizzying and confusing as well as exhillarating.
This may seem far-fetched as an analogy, but it's the best I can do. The feeling I had by that fjord is, somehow, the same weak and head-spinning feeling I get when I look at a truly beautiful woman.
He continues by discussing an incident involving the lesbian writer, Camille Paglia. I will take the account of this from a blog that discusses it since I don't have the book to hand (indeed the excerpt above was taken from GOOGLE books).
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In his brutally honest and fascinating book Millions Of Women Are Waiting To Meet You, Sean Thomas does his best to describe how he feels. He refers to it as
"that eerie sensation when you witness someone truly beautiful: that strange and sad feeling; that doomy vertigo."
He also recounts the experience of Camille Paglia, a lesbian writer, who once had an injection of testosterone for a medical complaint and on walking out into the streets of Manhattan looked at a pretty young girl and
"felt this sudden crippling urge, this desperate sad lungingness, this feebleness. Then, and only then, did she understand the power of male desire, which is of course a function of the power of female beauty."
It is interesting to consider that women will never truly understand the affect that their beauty has on men. The blogger above suggests it is similar to the affect a baby has on a woman. Something which men will never truly understand.
As for the Sean Thomas book. It is well worth reading. It is a recount of his experiences in dating - after being set the challenge of trying out online dating for the first time (by the newspaper he was employed by). And along the way he shares observations and advice which are really insightful when it comes to scoring with women.