Quote: (07-07-2013 10:57 PM)A War You Cannot Win Wrote:
I find this fascinating. I don't know whether it is better to be the King of your bedroom and anime world, or to be just another crab in the bucket trying to claw it's way to freedom, getting pulled down by the other crabs.
I dunno, society over there is pretty fucked up for young Japanese dudes. . .Once they get older and have seniority at companies etc THEN they get to enjoy a better status. . .(a lot of times they'll go to prostitution parlors on their companies' dime, and the companies are cool with it. . .)
but they have to go through TONS of B.S. just to get there. . .and with the economy there being really really bad (20 year recession bad)a lot of guys just "give up" I mean they go through school basically having the idea beat into their heads of following all the rules of their society (and there's a lot of BS with that as well) and then when they FINALLY make it out of school, and can't find a job, or have to work at a convenience store. . .basically being unable to even get into the B.S. riddle workforce "working" 12-13 hour days. THEN having to deal with Japanese girls that are just as bad as American girls(to Japanese guys) except not fat then yeah, the guys just. . .well they just give up.
OR
They leave the country! I knew one dude who just had tons of girl probs. . .he was beta-ized, and worked as a butcher (which isn't a highly looked upon profession) Basically he just got fed up and left, going to Australia then suddenly ending up in the Philippines, found a girlfriend to go all beta over without having to worry about her getting "bored" etc because well it's the Philippines, and women are usually very loyal to their husbands.
He's been with her for like two years already lol.
But, some guys DO do some cool shit, so it's not all lost but. A lot of people don't realize that for the Average young Japanese dude, the chips are stacked against them hard.
But for the Older Japanese dudes, if they can push through it, not lose their job etc etc(a lot of businessmen commit the train suicide around the ends of the fiscal year when they find out they've gotten fired etc), they can live a pretty good life. . .
There's a lot of weird, crazy shit over there that they've got to deal with. Fortunately for the guys like you guys here, you don't really have to deal with nearly as much, and those that get there with a western company. . .AND are red pill, it's pretty much heaven. I know a guy who was high up in a certain company. . .that for some reason got an American girlfriend... He was not red pill. Such a waste.