Quote: (06-30-2013 02:23 PM)nek Wrote:
I'm starting to really get the impression that, here in the states, the margin for error when dating (note, not just hooking-up) is so small that taking any girl seriously has huge risks. I make my share of mistakes and have my awkward/embarrassing moments, so it concerns me to think that just one slip up can get a girl I'm dating to go jump on some other guys cock. The issue isn't that fucking up can drive a girl away, it's always been that way, but it seems like it's more delicate now than ever. Smaller fuck-ups are being punished more severely now more than ever. I've been doing some introspection lately as to why I avoid getting close to women, and I think this is the crux of it. I'm not sure if this is just my area (I live in a guy-heavy area), but does anyone else sense this same issue? Just trying to verify my sanity (or lack thereof).
It's like buying a house.
Lots of upfront costs.
Lots of maintenance costs.
And very difficult to get out of if you need to.
Do you really want to live here?
Do you really want to live anywhere?
Do you really want to put down roots?
Ain't got a thing to do with the game or American women. I could run across my perfect little Colombiana tomorrow, and the same questions will come to mind.
Do I want that domestic life or not?
Even if you manage to find your personal trainer, bi-sexual/okay with 3somes, location independent, red pill woman - do you want the responsibility and routine that comes with a relationship? Do you want to deal with the uncertainty of an unhappy ending, of things going south in ways you can't anticipate?
A long term relationship with a good woman is its own special hell, especially after you have game, especially after you've built up your long term assets.
This has nothing to do with the nationality of women you deal with, and everything with how you deal with an uncertain future.
WIA