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Just doing approaches and making conversation really starts hammering in and helping to remember fundamentals. Forgot that I shouldn't ramble too much when there's a lot to talk about and let the girl invest into the conversation, but then talk extensively when there's a lull. Drawing a chick into your world takes initiative from both parties. Best to remember that rather than simply dominate the discussion(always for the dynamic) at every chance I get.

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Smashing strange for a long time then coasting on a few regular girls for a long period of time is weird...

So I didn't bang that girl tonight but had a great time. Night ended with her straddling me and some spirited making out but she had to go. Didn't want to make herself out to be a slut whatever. I generally don't put too much pressure on girls in that situation. Says she wants to continue it later and see me again soon yadda yadda. I'll oblige.

Here's where the first statement of this post comes into play. This girl was not that great looking. I'll give her a six but per my taste/standards I feel like that is generous. Pretty face, big soft juicy lips, wavy hair. She is mixed race German and Spanish but a flat ass and a thick boxy torso (had kids). Despite all that, since she was the first *new* girl I've been with in a couple months, I was all excited. Right after she left I ran in the bathroom and jerked off thinking about those big soft wet lips around my cock. It was a solid orgasm too. A real shooter, despite the fact that I fucked my main plate silly all weekend already, including this morning before I went to work.

Just the fact that it was new pussy got me all jacked up.
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I need to get better at letting these girls go. I get bored of them and don't really want to see them but I let them keep suckering me into seeing them again.
There is nothing wrong with them, they're all nice girls who have been nothing but nice to me but I'm bored of banging them and don't see anything with them beyond that.
I stop opening them via text but they open me and I feel bad completely blanking them, they deserve better than that. However simply saying "I'm sorry but I'm bored of hanging out with you" also seems too harsh, even though it's the truth.
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Leaving a music show I stop by whole foods and while in the checkout line theres this cute little red head. I crack a joke about how this asian lady just spent 2 bills on shit--she laughs and its time to return serve..
Ask her about what she's cooking, blah-blah-blah, and she drops the number.

That was my first ever day-game approach. Shit was a lot smoother than I expected almost to the point where I'm skeptical lol.
Shout out to Issac Jordan for the whole foods game suggestion.

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Quote: (11-19-2016 11:55 AM)Caractacus Potts Wrote:  

My condolences and sympathies to my Indian/Pakistani RVF bretheren.

I just finished chatting with a hot Indian chick on OKC. Bollywood hot.

In her bio she states:

"I'm not really into Indian guys. Sorry. Not sorry. I love tall guys with blue or green eyes."

I'm tall with bluish-green eyes. I may just have to start focusing on Indian girls. Maybe that can be my niche here in the States. [Image: idea.gif]

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I've seen it before and I'll see it again - we all got preferences but also typically our dicks don't discriminate if they pass the boner test. Women are definitely more discriminatory (regardless of preferences).

Then again I've heard, "I've never hooked up/dated/went on a date - with an Indian guy before" [Image: angel.gif]

The reason Indian girls put that kind of stuff is because:

1. Their community can be small.
2. They don't want to feel like a slut within said community.
3. They despise the weak betas IRT's they see in said community.

It's just like Asians who dig tall white dudes - those dudes should be slaying ALL that pussy man.

And props to those dudes who do so and exploit that niche.

It's like Black girls who dig Indian dudes, and believe me, that shit's real. (Took an 18 year olds virginity this year)

Also those racial preference lines can be shit tests like "no hook ups" lines.

I've beaten down that shit before and pulled those bitches.



@Stalin

It's that chase man, the thrill of the hunt of new pussy.

I'm basically seeing biker girl on the regular but going on dates and banging new girls doesn't get old (yet).

Your performance in bed is also better, at least in my case - the asian girl and the latin girl from 2 weeks, I smashed 3 times in our initial ONS.

With biker girl I've noticed we fuck more in the morning than at night - with my last ex we fucked at night alot more than in the morning.
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Absolutely. The main girl I've been seeing for a couple months now, the first time we hooked up we banged seven times we definitely have not had that spirited of a fuckfest since then.
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And just like that my winter time plate count goes from 5 to 0. Hahaha. What a weekend.

-CD
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Quote: (11-21-2016 04:29 PM)coverdoc Wrote:  

And just like that my winter time plate count goes from 5 to 0. Hahaha. What a weekend.

-CD

Damn brutal weekend, I've had a harem collapse but 5 all at once? Shit, were they co-conspiring or what?

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1.One found out about my LTR and of course she was pissed my girl was an 8. Kept making subtle comments about it and finally grew resentful and started to talk out of place. Corrected her once, it happened again I realize this would be a pattern so dropped her ass.

2. Another shit tested me at a restuarant Friday. She wanted to sit in the corner, I said no we're sitting here. She went to the corner anyway and when they brought out the food she didn't come to my table. A smaller venue so everyone looking at me like I beat her or something lol. so I took her immediately home and blocked her number. She gambled that my frame would fold, but i had just fucked her 30 mintues ago so i was satisfied.

3. This one I was tired of fucking. She kept annoying me all weekend, with her hipster feminism bull shit. Hillary this, men can't do this, i'm not cleaning your place blah blah blah. Finally I had enough and just blocked her.

4. This one, colombian, couldn't think for herselves. Her queer ass roommate and friend were talking shit about her bringing me over. I realized that eventually i would have to knock out the gay guy and I didn't like how this chick couldn't think for herself. My tolerance for brainless women is very low right now. Did away with her. Sent me a message on IG later like "you made the biggest mistake of your fucking life" Yeah yeah bitch that's what they all say [Image: tard.gif]

5. Told me I was an asshole for not coming down to her shitty side of town to eat and went ghost when I told her i'd rather eat korean food then get robbed after some fast food. Petty, but I said if I come down there we chilling after she said no let's just eat. Fuck that! It's funny, as I was writing this she called me and asked for her "earrings" she "mistakenly" left at my place. Told her to get them next week, she just doesn't know they'll be in the local junk yard.

-CD
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Quote: (11-21-2016 12:35 PM)Mufasa Wrote:  

I stop by whole foods and while in the checkout line

The "checkout line" is one of the most underrated and unappreciated places to practice game.

- most people are afraid to talk
- there is lots to talk about (food, people, magazines, etc)
- it's a social situation where most people are not social
- take advantage of these trends


As you enter a checkout line, I recommend being the First to Speak!


Game Development Tip: Be the First to Speak!


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As you enter any social setting..

In line at the store, on the subway, at the deli, at the market, at the bar, at the bus stop, in class, as you enter a restaurant, in the hotel lobby, at the airport, as you exit your car, as you step off the plane, at a party, getting lunch, waiting for your table, walking thru the mall, etc. Speak Up!

Be in a chatty mood. AGGRESSIVELY look for opportunities to make comments.

Comment on the surroundings, the situation, clothes, food, other people, etc,. etc.

When you enter a social scene and you speak first..

You:


A) "Break the Ice" -- Not only for others but also for yourself.

B) Establish and demonstrate your Social Competence and Confidence. If you say something quite clever, you can even establish social dominance and get an advantage on other more quiet guys.

C) Get yourself into a conversational flow.

I try do it as soon as I leave my house. I usually talk to the first person I see. When I park my car, I talk to the first person I see.

When I enter a room or a store, I am eager to chat.

Get into this habit.

Your environment is filled with things to talk about.

The more you talk, the faster your game will improve.

The less you talk, the more you are staying trapped in your own mind.

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A couple examples:

I see a gorgeous latina in line next to me..

Another lady was sort of trying to cut in line..

me: hey, no cutting in line (jokingly)

She laughed and rolled her eyes at the other lady.

me: people are crazy sometimes
her: ya seriously
me: whatever, she is obviously bi polar or something
her: I know, I was gonna let her go anyways
me: don't worry about it, she is a weirdo, you did the right thing
her: ha thanks.


I smiled and extended my hand out.

me: hey im gio
her: hi, julia
me: nice to meet you ,that was funny
her: nice meeting you too
me: are you from around here?
her: yes
me: me too, I wanted to ask you for your number, maybe we can get a drink or something sometime..
her: ya sure

We texted but I never got her out on a date.

Next!

--

In line at the store, a pretty, young filapina gets in line behind me, yoga pants, thin, cute, feminine..

She places a large papaya on the conveyor belt.

me: ooh i love papaya
her: ha ya me too
me: how do you cut it?


Blah, blah, blah.

We exit the store together.

me: well, thanks for the tips
her: youre welcome
me: should we go out for a drink sometime?
her: oh well thats ok, but thanks


Next!

--

In line at the store, a pretty, young, asian girl gets in line behind me
.. She puts a pack of gum on the conveyor belt..

me: where is that gum?
her: oh just over there
me: let me study the package here
her: ya its good
me: im looking for a new sugar free gum
her: most gum is sugar free
me: ya they dont use sugar but they use something worse than sugar
her: lol ya seriously right
me: i used to like ginger chews but they arent really very healthy either.
her: ohh ginger haa
me: if i was smart i would just make my own gum
her: make your own haha
me: doesnt gum come from a plant?
her: umm does it? im not sure
me: i used to have a girlfriend that make moisturizer, toothpaste, soap, everything from clean natural ingredients
her: oh wow

She was really smiling and giving me good eye contact.

I pay for my stuff.

I look back at her and she is slim, toned, and radiant, with a nice butt.

I wait near the exit.

1 minute later, she came walking..

me: my name is gio
her: hey im angela
me: i was thinking maybe we should hang out sometime
her: oh umm


She took a good look at me.

me: im 31, if thats what your wondering
her: oh no, i mean, ummm
me: if you want to, if you dont its cool
her: im 18 haha
me: oh my gosh its like when taylor swift was dating john mayer
her: hahaha your funny
me: thanks, ya its sort of a taboo thing maybe in here america but i dont know, it was nice talking to you
her: ya you too umm well
me: if u want just call me so i have ur number. ill text u later
her: well maybe ill just see u around
me: ya maybe
her: ill see u soon


Fuck she was really thinking about it!

Next!
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I want to take a moment to appreciate that gio shares real life relatable scenarios. He just shared three realistic examples. All three were blow outs really, and that is fine and his attitude is unwavering.

It's important to give people realistic expectations. His examples weren't all "I spit some game in the checkout line then she was riding my dick later that night" - these were real life interactions with real life outcomes. He took each lead as far as he could.
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Quote: (11-21-2016 04:52 PM)coverdoc Wrote:  

2. Another shit tested me at a restuarant Friday. She wanted to sit in the corner, I said no we're sitting here. She went to the corner anyway and when they brought out the food she didn't come to my table. A smaller venue so everyone looking at me like I beat her or something lol. so I took her immediately home and blocked her number. She gambled that my frame would fold, but i had just fucked her 30 mintues ago so i was satisfied.

lmao what a fucking cunt!! so glad you dumped that bitch. totally unacceptable and childish. I can't even imagine such a scene
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Quote: (11-21-2016 04:57 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  


In line at the store, a pretty, young, asian girl gets in line behind me
.. She puts a pack of gum on the conveyor belt..

me: where is that gum?
her: oh just over there
me: let me study the package here
her: ya its good
me: im looking for a new sugar free gum
her: most gum is sugar free
me: ya they dont use sugar but they use something worse than sugar
her: lol ya seriously right
me: i used to like ginger chews but they arent really very healthy either.
her: ohh ginger haa
me: if i was smart i would just make my own gum
her: make your own haha
me: doesnt gum come from a plant?
her: umm does it? im not sure
me: i used to have a girlfriend that make moisturizer, toothpaste, soap, everything from clean natural ingredients
her: oh wow

She was really smiling and giving me good eye contact.

I pay for my stuff.

I look back at her and she is slim, toned, and radiant, with a nice butt.

I wait near the exit.

1 minute later, she came walking..

me: my name is gio
her: hey im angela
me: i was thinking maybe we should hang out sometime
her: oh umm


She took a good look at me.

me: im 31, if thats what your wondering
her: oh no, i mean, ummm
me: if you want to, if you dont its cool
her: im 18 haha
me: oh my gosh its like when taylor swift was dating john mayer
her: hahaha your funny
me: thanks, ya its sort of a taboo thing maybe in here america but i dont know, it was nice talking to you
her: ya you too umm well
me: if u want just call me so i have ur number. ill text u later
her: well maybe ill just see u around
me: ya maybe
her: ill see u soon


Fuck she was really thinking about it!

Next!

Gio, don't disqualify yourself. That's the girl's job.

I understand you don't want to be too pushy, but you should avoid disqualifying yourself. I am sure you can strike a better balance.

When she looked you up and down you mentioned age, but she DID NOT specifically say anything about your age. She even SAID no when you mentioned age.

When she said, "hahaha your funny" you may have been better off laughing and saying, "and you're kinda cute" or some flirty compliment and then been persistent by pulling out your phone, expecting her to give you the number. Assume the sale.

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Big party Friday night, I had been drinking heavily. Brought a pair of girls up to the room but blew it:

Two weak type guys came with and they made some big deal out of the Trump hat I had out. Big mistake #1. Bit mistake #2 was paying any attention to them at all because they monopolized my attention with flattery and I ate it up because my life has been tough lately. Girls either got bored or upset about the hat and bailed after 10min.

Moral of the story: eyes on the prize. Also drink less.

Double date tonite, gonna put the hat away just in case. Never had any trouble shitlording after a bang.

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Quote: (11-21-2016 04:57 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

In line at the store, a pretty, young filapina gets in line behind me, yoga pants, thin, cute, feminine..
...
We exit the store together.
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Quote: (11-21-2016 04:57 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

In line at the store, a pretty, young, asian girl gets in line behind me..
...
I wait near the exit.

1 minute later, she came walking..

Great post Gio,

I often have fun chats in line like this (for example, just now) but I never thought to close (or rather... it always seemed like a really far shot).

The simple tip of: 'wait 1min for her and ask for her number' will probably get me laid over the next couple months.

What do you do if she leaves first?

If you're going to try, go all the way. There is no other feeling like that. You will be alone with the gods, and the nights will flame with fire. You will ride life straight to perfect laughter. It's the only good fight there is.

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Quote: (11-21-2016 05:26 PM)Unchained Wrote:  

Quote: (11-21-2016 04:52 PM)coverdoc Wrote:  

She wanted to sit in the corner, I said no we're sitting here. She went to the corner anyway and when they brought out the food she didn't come to my table.

lmao what a fucking cunt!!

Lmao that is a text book definition of a cunt. I hope it ended like this. go to the 1:02 mark...





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Went out with some buddies.

Ended up at a small place without a lot of action going on. Then, a girl rolls in with some rich looking dude with some weak ass game. I sense an opportunity to AMOG.

She's a 7, blonde. She's eyefucking me while he's diddling with his phone.

I grab an opportunity to talk to her, and BAM, she's over by me asking me questions. I start teasing her.

He comes over, acting all buddy buddy like he's not worried.

"It's her night, it's her birthday, blah blah blah I'm paying for everything my daddy is rich". Meanwhile, she's rolling her eyes and sticking her tongue out to me, who she's known for less than a minute.

I lay it on a bit more, she's sticking. He decides to bounce her to another bar. Tries to say something else but I'm just watching her expression of

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She's making that gesture behind his back.

Could've had him. I had a few inches plus about 30lbs of muscle on him. Should I have just told her to come back with me?
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I'm a little buzzed right now but I want to get this thought out while it's fresh in my head.

Just got back from a date with a sexy looking Jewish girl 8/10. I couldn't seem to crack her and there was hardly any chemistry. Kinda pised I drove 30 min and spend like $45 on drinks for a lame ass date. Should have ejected earlier whatever.

Here is my musing: game isn't about being able to get any girl you want. It's about being able to be better at getting the type of girls that would be into you.

This girl I went out with tonight, although I was attracted to her and would loved to have fucked her, was simply not meshing with me. She was dry, boring, too literal, and I honestly could not pinpoint the type of personality that were get her wet. I was just being myself. Casual, fun, carefree, and engaging. We hung out for a couple hours but by the end of the date there was just no chemistry. I didn't even hug close her. I offered to drive her home because she lived close by but she invited on spending money on an Uber. I said nice meeting you and walked to.my car.

You can't win every girl. That is okay. Youre not supposed to. People are different and have different tastes. If you meshed with everyone then you would have no personality of your own. Game helps you get better at getting the kinds of girls that work for you.
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Quote: (11-22-2016 03:07 AM)philosophical_recovery Wrote:  

Went out with some buddies.

Ended up at a small place without a lot of action going on. Then, a girl rolls in with some rich looking dude with some weak ass game. I sense an opportunity to AMOG.

She's a 7, blonde. She's eyefucking me while he's diddling with his phone.

I grab an opportunity to talk to her, and BAM, she's over by me asking me questions. I start teasing her.

He comes over, acting all buddy buddy like he's not worried.

"It's her night, it's her birthday, blah blah blah I'm paying for everything my daddy is rich". Meanwhile, she's rolling her eyes and sticking her tongue out to me, who she's known for less than a minute.

I lay it on a bit more, she's sticking. He decides to bounce her to another bar. Tries to say something else but I'm just watching her expression of

[Image: girl-shows-finger-gun-fingers-out-to-hea...925550.jpg]

She's making that gesture behind his back.

Could've had him. I had a few inches plus about 30lbs of muscle on him. Should I have just told her to come back with me?

Should've easily got her number and told her to call you when she was done babysitting and wanted to have some real fun. Simple. No need for any confrontation with dude that has his dad pay for everything.

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Quote: (11-22-2016 03:19 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  

I'm a little buzzed right now but I want to get this thought out while it's fresh in my head.

Just got back from a date with a sexy looking Jewish girl 8/10. I couldn't seem to crack her and there was hardly any chemistry. Kinda pised I drove 30 min and spend like $45 on drinks for a lame ass date. Should have ejected earlier whatever.

At this point in my life I couldn't validate driving 30 minutes to a girl's hood on a first date.

Almost every girl I've met has met me:

-at a bar less than a mile away from my house
-at the same bar local to my work
-in rare occasions I'll meet them half at a certain bowling alley or a pool hall

I'd be pissed also - your gut even told you to eject.

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Here is my musing: game isn't about being able to get any girl you want. It's about being able to be better at getting the type of girls that would be into you.

I actually agree with this - "find your niche"

I'm good at pulling Mexican and White girls.

Especially if they're rocker punker type ones.

Black girls come to me and dig me, that's easy.

Asian girls have been a huge challenge for me - but I've banged a few asian girls this year (more than I did last year) which is awesome.

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This girl I went out with tonight, although I was attracted to her and would loved to have fucked her, was simply not meshing with me. She was dry, boring, too literal, and I honestly could not pinpoint the type of personality that were get her wet. I was just being myself. Casual, fun, carefree, and engaging. We hung out for a couple hours but by the end of the date there was just no chemistry. I didn't even hug close her. I offered to drive her home because she lived close by but she invited on spending money on an Uber. I said nice meeting you and walked to.my car.

Thing is she sounded like she HAD NO personality.

Always cut your losses short and leave when you aren't vibing.

I wouldn't offered a damn thing to a woman who isn't doing anything for me.

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You can't win every girl. That is okay. Youre not supposed to. People are different and have different tastes. If you meshed with everyone then you would have no personality of your own. Game helps you get better at getting the kinds of girls that work for you.

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Quote: (11-22-2016 03:19 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  

I'm a little buzzed right now but I want to get this thought out while it's fresh in my head.

Just got back from a date with a sexy looking Jewish girl 8/10. I couldn't seem to crack her and there was hardly any chemistry. Kinda pised I drove 30 min and spend like $45 on drinks for a lame ass date. Should have ejected earlier whatever.

Here is my musing: game isn't about being able to get any girl you want. It's about being able to be better at getting the type of girls that would be into you.

This girl I went out with tonight, although I was attracted to her and would loved to have fucked her, was simply not meshing with me. She was dry, boring, too literal, and I honestly could not pinpoint the type of personality that were get her wet. I was just being myself. Casual, fun, carefree, and engaging. We hung out for a couple hours but by the end of the date there was just no chemistry. I didn't even hug close her. I offered to drive her home because she lived close by but she invited on spending money on an Uber. I said nice meeting you and walked to.my car.

You can't win every girl. That is okay. Youre not supposed to. People are different and have different tastes. If you meshed with everyone then you would have no personality of your own. Game helps you get better at getting the kinds of girls that work for you.

I've had numerous frustrating dates like you've described. This is why I strictly adhere to tight logistics (either my place or a venue close by) unless I can screen the girl effectively beforehand. I also keep the time/$ investment low- and if things seem to be tanking, I'll bounce after 1 drink or just tell her to come home with me for the hell of it.

For all the girls I've had come fresh direct and get freaky that night, I just had quite the anomaly last week. Chick came over same day of initial texting with no fuss, but was awkward from the minute she walked through my door. Surprisingly quiet, cold and made no effort to converse. My humor and self amusement also failed to change the interaction. She got up and left on her own volition after ~15 minutes. Should have screened more thoroughly over the phone or video conferencing, but I didn't have to sacrifice much for a potential easy bang with a young attractive broad. Would have been annoyed if I met her at a bar and put down $ for drinks- only to endure the same dismal experience.
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Unusual situation I'm in that I need advice for but don't want to bother making a whole new thread.

Basically, there is this chick that I've always wanted to bang (not a oneitis, but just have spoken in the past and flirted with the idea of banging) and I may get a chance soon. I don't care if that sounds needy or beta, I just want to do it.

Anyway, the situation is that she has an ultra-high anti-slut defense system and I just want some advice. She'll say stuff to the effect of 'I'd feel much more comfortable meeting up if I knew it wasn't just to have sex with you'. She definitely does want to meet up, and this is plausible as I actually know her and would have a catch up chat and a good laugh, it's not like a tinder chick saying it.

What I've said so far is the usual spiel of 'Of course I don't want to meet up just to have sex with you, I want to hang out and chat' which she lapped up. So do I continue along this vein then escalate in person, or do I need to make my intentions clear so that there isn't any awkward confusion when we do meet and I escalate?
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Quote: (11-22-2016 05:23 PM)britchard Wrote:  

Anyway, the situation is that she has an ultra-high anti-slut defense system and I just want some advice. She'll say stuff to the effect of 'I'd feel much more comfortable meeting up if I knew it wasn't just to have sex with you'. She definitely does want to meet up, and this is plausible as I actually know her and would have a catch up chat and a good laugh, it's not like a tinder chick saying it.

What I've said so far is the usual spiel of 'Of course I don't want to meet up just to have sex with you, I want to hang out and chat' which she lapped up. So do I continue along this vein then escalate in person, or do I need to make my intentions clear so that there isn't any awkward confusion when we do meet and I escalate?

I would've gone indirect, talk about sex without actually talking about it.

Girl's aren't stupid - she already knows the score she specifically said to you:

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'I'd feel much more comfortable meeting up if I knew it wasn't just to have sex with you'

Think about that for a second - she obviously already sees your intentions. She knows you're hollering at her to hook up - that's the reason her ASD shot up.

There isn't any awkward confusion at all.

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'Of course I don't want to meet up just to have sex with you, I want to hang out and chat'

Personally this was cringeworthy.

I would've went the humor route:

"Woah I barely know you and you're already thinking about sex ? You little pervert !"

"Woah hey now, I'm not just some hot piece of ass you can objectify!"

"Why is it that all girls think about is sex !"

"Sex ? With me ? A man would never think of that !"

"Woah woah, how about actually hanging and having fun before rushing to the bedroom, sheesh !"

I mean these are literally ones I just made up on the fly. Emphasizing with a haha or lol or funny emojis helps relay and negate the ridiculous of her statement. Also, reduces here ASD AND it makes her LAUGH !!

Just chill out, don't think about it to much.

To me this looks like a "Don't scare the cat and don't fuck up" scenario.

It's your primary goal to make her COMFORTABLE and care free.

Run your game, adjust accordingly during the date, keep her laughing, go do something over drinks that involves interaction and kino - bowling and pool and are my go tos.

Escalate, push and pul, see how she reacts - pay attention to her body language, eyes, and how she's playing with her hair.

You should find out pretty easily if she's receptive, shutting you down, or might need a date or 2 to crack the nut.
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Quote: (11-22-2016 03:19 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  

I was just being myself. Casual, fun, carefree, and engaging. We hung out for a couple hours but by the end of the date there was just no chemistry. I didn't even hug close her. I offered to drive her home because she lived close by but she invited on spending money on an Uber. I said nice meeting you and walked to.my car.

You can't win every girl. That is okay. Youre not supposed to. People are different and have different tastes. If you meshed with everyone then you would have no personality of your own. Game helps you get better at getting the kinds of girls that work for you.


It wasn't that your personalities didn't mesh well, it was just her. I've realized after countless dates that certain commonalities within each personality of a good player makes women want more. You said you were personable fun and what not. IF she was stiff, she was always going to be stiff, no matter if it was you, me, joe blow from accounting or who ever. The only thing different I would have done is told the bitch we are splitting the bill. I reserve this honor for sluts like her who knew damn well they came on the date to be a drag, or entitled bitches.

Quote: (11-22-2016 05:23 PM)britchard Wrote:  

What I've said so far is the usual spiel of 'Of course I don't want to meet up just to have sex with you, I want to hang out and chat' which she lapped up. So do I continue along this vein then escalate in person, or do I need to make my intentions clear so that there isn't any awkward confusion when we do meet and I escalate?

Just play the aloof game. I had a blonde 7 I met up with a few weeks ago for ice cream. She agreed to hang out again that weekend. Friday she messages me that she'll meet for drinks, but she doesn't want to have sex at all. Blah blah blah. I just said "wow don't assume things about me, i'm not looking for sex either." Met, flirted with her, negged her, had her dancing on me, shots to loosen her and give her a scapegoat for the morning. By 1:00 A.M. she grabs my head and whispers: Coverdoc I want to come home with you. I say "nah man you going to try to take advantage of me, you're going home in an uber."...... 10 minutes later she grabs me again and says "Coverdoc please, I want to go home with you." I fucked her, twice!

Bitches say whatever they want to say in whatever moment because it's what they do. Every player on this forum has received that exact message. Carry on as usual, build up more comfort, touching display that high value you have and make her want you!

-CD
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We did split the bill, though she did skimp on her side of the tip (did I mention she was a jew?)

Anyway it was certainly a reaffirmation of first-rate logistics, but this girl has been with dudes before surely, and she ain't virgin. Im just curious what kind of dude gets her going. Maybe she is more I to hipster types, or dry business types. Who knows. My original ap point still stands that game is all about learning how to work girls that you work with with, not working all girls.
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Quote: (11-22-2016 07:37 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

We did split the bill, though she did skimp on her side of the tip (did I mention she was a jew?)

Anyway it was certainly a reaffirmation of first-rate logistics, but this girl has been with dudes before surely, and she ain't virgin. Im just curious what kind of dude gets her going. Maybe she is more I to hipster types, or dry business types. Who knows. My original ap point still stands that game is all about learning how to work girls that you work with with, not working all girls.

(((She))) likes doctahs, not like a doctah, but a doctah doctah.




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