Now generally I don't 'go' for numbers during night game. I am there to try and pull and bang that same night. However, when I feel I get somewhere in an interaction (strong attraction, at least a kiss, isolation from friends) and I am not able to keep the interaction going (usually due to the presence of friends) I go for the number.
Last night my first number the girl told me to take her number after a brief and very exciting/sexual tension filled dance. Took her number, told her to give me a kiss, and sent her back to her friends.
Second number was a brief interaction away from the dance floor where I stopped her and her friend. They liked me right away and her friend went to get a drink and left her with me, who stayed willingly. She was very receptive to me, although she was shy to kiss. Eventually kissed her after a 5 minute talk, she said she had to go because it was her friends birthday she was celebrating, exchanged numbers, told me to text her.
Third was a brief dance, then isolated her on the patio. Very receptive to my touching and sexual intentions in that she didn't back off. She mentioned how she thinks her tits are too small, I told her to shut up, she says she likes her ass better, I grab it and keep my hand in between and around her cheeks over her thin dress, didn't back off. Took her number when she said she was leaving, kiss.
Texted all 3 at the end of the night 'Fun to meet you, xyz funny comment -Nascimento'
The third one responded right away and we had a very interesting conversation I wrote about here: http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-24128-...#pid459820
Other two had replies in the morning.
I text all 3 about 11 am this Sunday morning about how it's my day off and I can hangout for a bit later.
Only one responded, its a no but she still seems receptive and continued the conversation. Other two are nothing for now.
I guess this whole post is just me putting my thoughts down. But it leads me to think, should I even consider numbers at all? It's such a torment because I rarely grab numbers anyways, only if the interaction was very strong. Most times I make out with girls anyways I don't even take their number, only if I feel I have a chance of seeing them again.
Makes me wonder what soup said, how this is the opposite of emotional investment: If I take several numbers over a weekend, leading to a handful a month, plus whatever other numbers I get from daygame or other areas, at certain points I will have so much girls numbers on my phone that it is just routine and I lose the ability to invest in a particular girl.
Then there is another perspective. One of my buddies I go out with at times on weekends is one of the best players I know. 40+ bangs at 22, although I know there are guys here who put that to shame. Still, this is someone I know and hang around personally that is pulling anywhere from a couple to several girls a month. He tells me to never take numbers; but instead to give them away. If a girl seems genuinely attracted/interested, offer my number instead.
I have tried that maybe 5-10 times, and maybe been texted back once, if at all.
What do you guys think?
Last night my first number the girl told me to take her number after a brief and very exciting/sexual tension filled dance. Took her number, told her to give me a kiss, and sent her back to her friends.
Second number was a brief interaction away from the dance floor where I stopped her and her friend. They liked me right away and her friend went to get a drink and left her with me, who stayed willingly. She was very receptive to me, although she was shy to kiss. Eventually kissed her after a 5 minute talk, she said she had to go because it was her friends birthday she was celebrating, exchanged numbers, told me to text her.
Third was a brief dance, then isolated her on the patio. Very receptive to my touching and sexual intentions in that she didn't back off. She mentioned how she thinks her tits are too small, I told her to shut up, she says she likes her ass better, I grab it and keep my hand in between and around her cheeks over her thin dress, didn't back off. Took her number when she said she was leaving, kiss.
Texted all 3 at the end of the night 'Fun to meet you, xyz funny comment -Nascimento'
The third one responded right away and we had a very interesting conversation I wrote about here: http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-24128-...#pid459820
Other two had replies in the morning.
I text all 3 about 11 am this Sunday morning about how it's my day off and I can hangout for a bit later.
Only one responded, its a no but she still seems receptive and continued the conversation. Other two are nothing for now.
I guess this whole post is just me putting my thoughts down. But it leads me to think, should I even consider numbers at all? It's such a torment because I rarely grab numbers anyways, only if the interaction was very strong. Most times I make out with girls anyways I don't even take their number, only if I feel I have a chance of seeing them again.
Makes me wonder what soup said, how this is the opposite of emotional investment: If I take several numbers over a weekend, leading to a handful a month, plus whatever other numbers I get from daygame or other areas, at certain points I will have so much girls numbers on my phone that it is just routine and I lose the ability to invest in a particular girl.
Then there is another perspective. One of my buddies I go out with at times on weekends is one of the best players I know. 40+ bangs at 22, although I know there are guys here who put that to shame. Still, this is someone I know and hang around personally that is pulling anywhere from a couple to several girls a month. He tells me to never take numbers; but instead to give them away. If a girl seems genuinely attracted/interested, offer my number instead.
I have tried that maybe 5-10 times, and maybe been texted back once, if at all.
What do you guys think?