A while back I read a post on here about how hard it was to "connect" with Slavic women. It is reiterated time and time again how money-oriented, serious and stoic they are.
Something that always got me thinking was the concept that players used of "value". "High-value women do not sleep with low-value men." Does a high-value woman know her high-value, and therefore project that on her standards? Put that question into contrast with the fact that in the West we have hoards of overvalued pussy, 5s and 6s thinking they are the shits.
Hotter girls, even the ones who know they are hot, have still always been slightly easier than their princessed-up ugly counterparts for the simple reason that they so rarely see the high-value masculine traits men display while in comfort. So even these "high-standard" girls don't even know what their emotional standards mean.
I've noticed that a lot of men on this forum see many attractive girls as these superhuman beings with confidence of steel and stone-set logical standards. When a Russian girl becomes the ice-queen, she is like the snail retreating into its shell. She is not "screening your value" in this cold manipulative way people suggest, all her behaviour is a knee-jerk expression of her insecurity.
Think of how the pickup culture has transformed American girls, from a culture that trains them to be confident. An American girl might blow you out in the first few seconds, but you will never find yourself on a second date talking to a brick-wall like in Russia. Anybody who has dated in Russia also knows how sweet they become once in a relationship, unlike American girls who remain stable all throughout the process (which is what should be expected from confidence).
If a girl acts differently in direct accordance to her level of comfort with you, we are dealing with a situation of insecurity and not of calculating confidence. Though, I will concede to gold-digging allegations, which occur due to cultural pushes from family. The Russian woman is insecure in the first stages of dating, so self-conscious she would prefer silence to making a fool of herself. Even many of the "shit-tests" come from this point, think of how it would feel so much more comfortable for the girl to adopt that frame than one of closeness. In a logical state, she falls back of her family's pushiness for hypergamy but, after the workings of a good casanova, her emotions should make her forget. Once you are, in her eyes, the lover, she can relax into her natural and comfortable state where connection is not only easy, but far more rewarding than anywhere else (especially if you are the intellectual type into philosophy and so on...).
Testament to that is the fact that you will see, in Russia, model-quality dating absolute bums. Many seem to ignore that prominent fact when claiming all Russian girls are gold-diggers.
Something that always got me thinking was the concept that players used of "value". "High-value women do not sleep with low-value men." Does a high-value woman know her high-value, and therefore project that on her standards? Put that question into contrast with the fact that in the West we have hoards of overvalued pussy, 5s and 6s thinking they are the shits.
Hotter girls, even the ones who know they are hot, have still always been slightly easier than their princessed-up ugly counterparts for the simple reason that they so rarely see the high-value masculine traits men display while in comfort. So even these "high-standard" girls don't even know what their emotional standards mean.
I've noticed that a lot of men on this forum see many attractive girls as these superhuman beings with confidence of steel and stone-set logical standards. When a Russian girl becomes the ice-queen, she is like the snail retreating into its shell. She is not "screening your value" in this cold manipulative way people suggest, all her behaviour is a knee-jerk expression of her insecurity.
Think of how the pickup culture has transformed American girls, from a culture that trains them to be confident. An American girl might blow you out in the first few seconds, but you will never find yourself on a second date talking to a brick-wall like in Russia. Anybody who has dated in Russia also knows how sweet they become once in a relationship, unlike American girls who remain stable all throughout the process (which is what should be expected from confidence).
If a girl acts differently in direct accordance to her level of comfort with you, we are dealing with a situation of insecurity and not of calculating confidence. Though, I will concede to gold-digging allegations, which occur due to cultural pushes from family. The Russian woman is insecure in the first stages of dating, so self-conscious she would prefer silence to making a fool of herself. Even many of the "shit-tests" come from this point, think of how it would feel so much more comfortable for the girl to adopt that frame than one of closeness. In a logical state, she falls back of her family's pushiness for hypergamy but, after the workings of a good casanova, her emotions should make her forget. Once you are, in her eyes, the lover, she can relax into her natural and comfortable state where connection is not only easy, but far more rewarding than anywhere else (especially if you are the intellectual type into philosophy and so on...).
Testament to that is the fact that you will see, in Russia, model-quality dating absolute bums. Many seem to ignore that prominent fact when claiming all Russian girls are gold-diggers.
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