9-year old Student, Tough Nut to Crack: What's My Plan?
04-21-2013, 08:38 AM
Her: Beautiful blonde 19 year old engineering student. Tall, incredibly well endowed & proportioned, very pretty face, would say she's an 8-8.5. She's smart and fun too. Comes from a strict family and has a curfew (!) (9pm nightly!). She studies and teaches English in her spare time and has other extracurriculars so is incredibly busy. Importantly, I am fairly sure she is a virgin as she seems very inexperienced and has a very strict mother (who I'm older than BTW! ![[Image: smile.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/smile.gif)
who is watching out for her.
How/Where we met: At a club in Moscow. Approached her in a 2-set...other girl ends up being her sister. Got her number after a brief 20 minute intro, and next day I text her and ask her out, to which she replies "I'm busy but will let you know when I have some time." So I went radio silent and a week later she texts me saying something like "did u forget about me?." After that we start texting and she's been initiating mostly, but so far she said she's only got limited time to meet (which seems to be true, given her crazy busy schedule and curfew). Everytime I text she pretty much instatexts me back.
I am pretty sure she is looking for a 'father figure' of sorts. She's always studying, but always texting me asking how I am, and for job search advice, what I would do, etc. Since she has to be home by 9 (mom calls to make sure!) it's been hard to work, but intriguing. She's generally very complimentary of me and the things I do. I think I have displayed and clearly represent some pretty good high value to someone like her, as I just naturally seem like the worldly traveler/successful businessman who's also cool and fun to be with, etc.
After our first two meetings I blew her off bc I didn't get anything and was having a hard time moving things forward, despite doing some limited kino which she was receptive to, and didn't get back to her. She then asked if we could meet up on a saturday afternoon, and I said I was busy (I was, had another date). I think she got worried I was dropping her, so she's been more cautious around me of late and I think might have thought I wasn't interested in her anymore, so it's been a bit more restrained.
Since then, we decided to meet again. I've tried to 'sexualize' the texts of late with stuff like "wear your prettiest, sexiest dress" (which she did wear at our last meeting) and a few other things to see what she'd do and make sure she knows I'm interested in her as a potential mate, not friend. I'd say she's been receptive but not overly so, and if anything acts like I might be her first boyfriend or something like that. As I don't want to give mixed messages and get put into the 'friendzone" I also initiated more kino at our last meeting at lunch the other day - rubbing hands at the table, reading her palms, then holding hands while walking around, which she seemed fine with and engaged me (it was pretty natural actually). But she also just seems sort of tentative and inexperienced, almost as if she's never done it before.
I think I'm making a little progress, but it's glacial, and this is crazy it's been over a month now and I'm wondering if I should keep wasting my time? I have no experience with long term 'virgin game' really.
I've worked day game this past week and have 2 other things going on so the pipeline is building, no 'Oneitis" for me, but I don't think I should let this one go just yet. I can see myself getting too busy to pursue this one that heavily, and would hate to lose momentum. Frankly a few sms's a day is no big deal, and I fell like she's into me, but I'm wondering if it's going anywhere.
Maybe it's just a question of just taking her some time to get comfortable with me being the older guy, + will I be her first guy, etc. But part of me is just like "WTF m I doing I haven't even kissed her yet" etc. In reading Krauser he's had a couple experiences where it literally took him months to b@ng, wondering if that might be the case here.
Anyway, any advice or comments on similar situations would be much appreciated. I'm in uncharted waters, and don't want to lose the momentum, but frankly that might have already started, so I wanted to see what the forum thinks before I make a mistake or am forced to move on. Most of the girls I date are in their mid to late 20s, so this is kind of an outlier.
Thx.
who is watching out for her. How/Where we met: At a club in Moscow. Approached her in a 2-set...other girl ends up being her sister. Got her number after a brief 20 minute intro, and next day I text her and ask her out, to which she replies "I'm busy but will let you know when I have some time." So I went radio silent and a week later she texts me saying something like "did u forget about me?." After that we start texting and she's been initiating mostly, but so far she said she's only got limited time to meet (which seems to be true, given her crazy busy schedule and curfew). Everytime I text she pretty much instatexts me back.
I am pretty sure she is looking for a 'father figure' of sorts. She's always studying, but always texting me asking how I am, and for job search advice, what I would do, etc. Since she has to be home by 9 (mom calls to make sure!) it's been hard to work, but intriguing. She's generally very complimentary of me and the things I do. I think I have displayed and clearly represent some pretty good high value to someone like her, as I just naturally seem like the worldly traveler/successful businessman who's also cool and fun to be with, etc.
After our first two meetings I blew her off bc I didn't get anything and was having a hard time moving things forward, despite doing some limited kino which she was receptive to, and didn't get back to her. She then asked if we could meet up on a saturday afternoon, and I said I was busy (I was, had another date). I think she got worried I was dropping her, so she's been more cautious around me of late and I think might have thought I wasn't interested in her anymore, so it's been a bit more restrained.
Since then, we decided to meet again. I've tried to 'sexualize' the texts of late with stuff like "wear your prettiest, sexiest dress" (which she did wear at our last meeting) and a few other things to see what she'd do and make sure she knows I'm interested in her as a potential mate, not friend. I'd say she's been receptive but not overly so, and if anything acts like I might be her first boyfriend or something like that. As I don't want to give mixed messages and get put into the 'friendzone" I also initiated more kino at our last meeting at lunch the other day - rubbing hands at the table, reading her palms, then holding hands while walking around, which she seemed fine with and engaged me (it was pretty natural actually). But she also just seems sort of tentative and inexperienced, almost as if she's never done it before.
I think I'm making a little progress, but it's glacial, and this is crazy it's been over a month now and I'm wondering if I should keep wasting my time? I have no experience with long term 'virgin game' really.
I've worked day game this past week and have 2 other things going on so the pipeline is building, no 'Oneitis" for me, but I don't think I should let this one go just yet. I can see myself getting too busy to pursue this one that heavily, and would hate to lose momentum. Frankly a few sms's a day is no big deal, and I fell like she's into me, but I'm wondering if it's going anywhere.
Maybe it's just a question of just taking her some time to get comfortable with me being the older guy, + will I be her first guy, etc. But part of me is just like "WTF m I doing I haven't even kissed her yet" etc. In reading Krauser he's had a couple experiences where it literally took him months to b@ng, wondering if that might be the case here.
Anyway, any advice or comments on similar situations would be much appreciated. I'm in uncharted waters, and don't want to lose the momentum, but frankly that might have already started, so I wanted to see what the forum thinks before I make a mistake or am forced to move on. Most of the girls I date are in their mid to late 20s, so this is kind of an outlier.
Thx.
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