People keep telling me I need to lead more. I agree with this, but is it ever okay to let the chick lead?
Some examples....
1.) I'm at the club, by the bar talking to a chick... and then she says "let's dance" and grabs my hand and takes me to the dancefloor.... it's basically her leading here... is it okay to allow this to happen or no?
2.) I meet a girl at night in the street and she tries to venue change me... "we're going to so-and-so bar, you should come too..." Go or not?
3.) Day game, I meet a chick and she tries to insta-date me, "I was just about to get something to eat at so-and-so, you wanna come with me?" Again, go or make an excuse?
4.) Letting a chick set up a date. Ex. chick calls or texts me, "we should hang out, are you free tomorrow night? I want to go do blah blah blah."
All of the above scenarios have happened to me recently, which is why I ask. I'm kind of torn on what to do in such situations, because going along with them is almost like I'm letting the chick lead and I'm just following, rather than leading... so is it actually working against me if I comply and go along with any of the above? Should I just make excuses and counter with suggestions of my own?
Some examples....
1.) I'm at the club, by the bar talking to a chick... and then she says "let's dance" and grabs my hand and takes me to the dancefloor.... it's basically her leading here... is it okay to allow this to happen or no?
2.) I meet a girl at night in the street and she tries to venue change me... "we're going to so-and-so bar, you should come too..." Go or not?
3.) Day game, I meet a chick and she tries to insta-date me, "I was just about to get something to eat at so-and-so, you wanna come with me?" Again, go or make an excuse?
4.) Letting a chick set up a date. Ex. chick calls or texts me, "we should hang out, are you free tomorrow night? I want to go do blah blah blah."
All of the above scenarios have happened to me recently, which is why I ask. I'm kind of torn on what to do in such situations, because going along with them is almost like I'm letting the chick lead and I'm just following, rather than leading... so is it actually working against me if I comply and go along with any of the above? Should I just make excuses and counter with suggestions of my own?