[artur jedi]

During my travels, I'm having more and more oportunities to get laid. But most girls want to stay overnight. And its pretty much pain in the ass for me, since I'm a light sleeper, and usually next day I'm a zombie after she stays in my place for the night.
I tried to persuade several things, like I have a meeting tomorrow morning, have a plane to catch, and so on. But most girls just wanted to sleep with me. I'm talking about good girls, or semi-pros who came with me not for fun, not money.
This is mostly about SE Asia girls. Bearing in mind that their english is most of the time veeeery limited.
How to play it? Do any of you set the frame before taking her to the room? Or just after bang?

[iknowexactly]

(03-25-2013 07:44 AM)artur jedi Wrote:  

During my travels, I'm having more and more oportunities to get laid. But most girls want to stay overnight.

four ideas:

1) Plant seed early that you have trouble sleeping with someone else in bed, so she's not surprised you explain she needs to leave

2) Set up an alternate pad/place for her to sleep in your apt.

3) Take a sleeping pill, restoril is good and might be over the counter in asia?

4) pay for taxi so it's not too inconvenient for her

[Fatless]

I usually tell them beforehand that I have to get up early in the morning and will be kicking them out later. Literally, I say, "Hey, just so you know, I'm kicking you out later, gotta get up real early in the morning tomorrow." After sex I usually make some time to cuddle or whatever but ultimately say, "ok, I'm kicking you out now. good night."

Keep in mind I do this before the trains stop running, and my neighborhood is pretty safe for girls to walk alone at night. You should reconsider letting them stay if the area is not safe or there's just regional norms that girls don't go alone anywhere at night and do what Roosh always offers but only sometimes provides: a taxi ride home: "Just so you know, I'm kicking you out later, but I'll call a cab for you later and take care of it."

[silverbullit]

Learn to like it.

[Rutting Elephant]

Presumably they understand "have to bye-bye" or "goodbye"?
Make the language barrier work for you, not for them. Appear busy or important.

[Gaston]

(03-25-2013 07:44 AM)artur jedi Wrote:  

During my travels, I'm having more and more oportunities to get laid... But most girls want to stay overnight.

Duh, it's the third world.

(03-25-2013 07:44 AM)artur jedi Wrote:  

But most girls just wanted to sleep with me. I'm talking about good girls, or semi-pros who came with me not for fun, not money.

There are three main reasons they want to stay overnight:

1. Your place will always be more comfortable/luxurious than theirs.

2. Possible opportunity to rob you of your valuables (if they are short-term thinkers, need to leave the town, or if they believe there's no serious chance between you two)

3. Getting extra benefits (waking up with someone in the same bed is intimate; the longer they spend with you the more time they have to connect with you and game you for freebies, favors, later dates, full relationship, baby, marriage etc.)

Denying them the full opportunity is denying them one of the main reasons they choose to have fun with you. That doesn't go well with them because they feel shortchanged, unless you outright pay them to make them disappear. Like it's done in the west.

And this really should be in Travel forums, not Game.

[Vicious]

"HOLY FUCK I LEFT MY WALLET AT THE BAR!
Get up babe I got to get out there right away I'll call you later ok!?"

Keep it simple...

[wi30]

When you're done, turn on the lights and start doing stuff. Go watch tv or mess around on your computer. They will usually get the hint.

[eliteinternational]

I think you just smile and say thank you so much, I like hanging out (if you did). I don't think actually you really need to lie. If you didn't like hanging out, just say "bye" and point. LOL.

[funkyzeit]

Tell them that you are suffering from khmout sukkhot when sleeping with someone. She'll either understand or burn your apartment down. Either way, she is out.

[Asaxon]

When I went to their places I always left, claiming I needed to get up early or preferred to sleep in my room, even at 3am. Made for some sketchy walking through subsois with aggressive dogs and getting lost in a residential maze. When a girl was at my place it was harder to kick them out and I just pretended to get up at 5am and made them leave with me, returning for more sleep 10 mins later.
The most " hurt" looks I usually got when leaving a girl's place which undermines the comfort theory. Maybe they felt I rejected thir hospitality and home.

[soup]

You could accidentally shart on her.

[artur jedi]

Thanks for all the responses!

They always come to my place. ATM it's Cambodia, so truly third world as Gaston pointed out.
I'm not worried about my stuff being stolen, I got it properly guarded, plus girls are always obliged to leave their id at the reception and clerk gives me a call asking if everything is okay when girl leaves in the morning.

I left my wallet in the bar would be good, but most of the times I come back by tuk tuk.. (more convenient than walking even 10 minutes).

khmot sukkoth sounds like ultimate tool. Might use that, thanks!!

Presumably they understand "have to bye-bye" or "goodbye"?.
Most obvious and easy.. Works from time to time.

[Spike]

(03-25-2013 07:44 AM)artur jedi Wrote:  

During my travels, I'm having more and more oportunities to get laid. But most girls want to stay overnight. And its pretty much pain in the ass for me, since I'm a light sleeper, and usually next day I'm a zombie after she stays in my place for the night.

My two cents,

I was a very light sleeper also. Before I traveled I was even annoyed by a girl in my kingsize bed. Today I said goodbye to a girl who slept 10 days with me in my one person bed. That's 90 cm's wide and this was a big bootied and tall girl.

In the Phils I once slept with two teenage sisters in a 90 cm one person bed. (no sister bang unfortunately).

Point of the story; bed more girls and learn to like it.

[artur jedi]

(03-26-2013 01:17 PM)Neil Skywalker Wrote:  

My two cents,

I was a very light sleeper also. Before I traveled I was even annoyed by a girl in my kingsize bed. Today I said goodbye to a girl who slept 10 days with me in my one person bed. That's 90 cm's wide and this was a big bootied and tall girl.

In the Phils I once slept with two teenage sisters in a 90 cm one person bed. (no sister bang unfortunately).

Point of the story; bed more girls and learn to like it.

Good point Neil!