Finally the 1st ! Whats going on brahs ?
In the past year I've gone from 145 to 183 lbs at 6 foot. I've spent my whole life being skinny and molded my personality accordingly. My default mode was the fun , intelligent , witty , yet somewhat weird beta guy.
I have a question tho .
I am having real trouble with personality/body incongruence. Now that i definitely look like i work out even with a shirt on, guys seem to give me more respect, girls give me exponentially more attention but i cannot seem to break out of my old ways of overcompensating through too much humor and display of book smarts. I can feel the incongruence turning people off ... i cannot pull my old self anymore because I'm kinda swole, and I'm trouble cultivating the Alpha.
How do i just cut it off and become Alpha ? Have any of u RVF brahs gone through the same dilemma ? Any tips , insights are appreciated. Thanks Brahs !
In the past year I've gone from 145 to 183 lbs at 6 foot. I've spent my whole life being skinny and molded my personality accordingly. My default mode was the fun , intelligent , witty , yet somewhat weird beta guy.
I have a question tho .
I am having real trouble with personality/body incongruence. Now that i definitely look like i work out even with a shirt on, guys seem to give me more respect, girls give me exponentially more attention but i cannot seem to break out of my old ways of overcompensating through too much humor and display of book smarts. I can feel the incongruence turning people off ... i cannot pull my old self anymore because I'm kinda swole, and I'm trouble cultivating the Alpha.
How do i just cut it off and become Alpha ? Have any of u RVF brahs gone through the same dilemma ? Any tips , insights are appreciated. Thanks Brahs !