Roosh's
Why Can't I Use A Smiley Face? is an enjoyable read that chronicles his thoughts and experiences upon returning to the United States following two years of living abroad in Europe.
From the beginning it's clear that this is a more reflective, personal work than the
Bang guides he has been pumping out regularly for the past few years, which detail the precise methodology he utilizes to meet and seduce foreign women (whom he has also been pumping out regularly for the past few years).
In this book, however, Roosh's focus shifts from the external to the internal. This is more of a memoir that documents the way that the game has shaped the man that Roosh has become. This is most apparent in his interactions with his family, who struggle to come to terms with the nomadic, player lifestyle he has chosen.
There are also a number of entertaining stories about Roosh's forays into the D.C. nightlife (which lives up to its abysmal reputation) with cameos by Virgle Kent, The Rookie, and at one point the RVF meetup crew.
This portion of the book could have easily been titled "
Don't Bang D.C.", because story after story reinforces the commonly held wisdom that American women are going down the tubes. There's a particularly amusing encounter with an overly-eager cougar that I won't spoil, but which was both funny and perfectly emblematic of both the power of game and the abysmal attitudes of entitled American women. On one night out, Roosh finds himself looking around a crowded bar, and summarizes the experience of many men who attempt to night game these days but find the talent sorely lacking:
Quote:Roosh Wrote:
I saw some opportunities with 6s who had thick arms. They’re the type of girl that causes you to rub your chin for a couple seconds, squint your eyes, and ask yourself, “Do I really want to bang that?” While thinking about it, you subconsciously hope she walks away so you won’t have to act.
The book takes its title from an experience Roosh has with a D.C. girl he has a one-night-stand with, whose behavior is depressingly on par with the stereotypical liberated, young American feminist. As he is leaving the girl's apartment following the bang, he decides to write down his email address for her, then pauses and wonders whether or not he should cap it off with smiley face.
By the end of the book I realized that the title also served as Roosh's metaphorical lament on the awful state of American women when contrasted with his direct experience of Eastern European women. Why can't I behave like a pleasant gentleman toward you? Why can't I actually treat you with kindness and respect? Why must you be so needlessly hostile and bitchy?
Why can't I use a smiley face?
In this book we clearly see a Roosh who has traveled far and wide, and who upon returning home has fully realized what he has gained (and what he has lost). His travels have transformed him. He is no longer the idealistic seeker, traversing the globe on a mission to unlock the true nature of women. He no longer defines his worth as a man solely by his ability to bed women. His holy grail has been discovered. That inner void has been filled. This Roosh is older and wiser, more self-aware, more confident in his masculinity and more cognizant of his inner need to pursue the next great challenge. It is clear he is beyond the
Bang at this point, and has nothing left to prove to himself or others regarding his ability to pick up women.
The book ends with Roosh's departure from D.C. and a (somewhat, but not really) shocking resolution for his future.
Overall I enjoyed the book, and am interested to see where Roosh goes from here with his future work. He seems to be at a crossroads of sort, but judging by
Why Cant I Use A Smiley Face?, he has a lot more to offer than just his
Bang guides, and I expect he is just getting started.