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During my recent flu I had some time to get more introspective which resulted in a conclusion. All of the really good guys at game that I had chance to hang out with had this one thing in common. Every single one of them calmly plowed through the bullshit girls gave them

Passing shittest 101

Not being defensive, not being confrontational. Being indifferent to anything a girl says or does trying to put you down in any shape or form. Girls might try to get cranky or ignore you or call you out or make fun of you or embarass you. Whatever you do if you let it slide and stay cool calm and collected like nothing happened they start getting the twinkle in her eye. Witty frame wars are funny, I can't deny it, but personally I like to take it in and endure it either by laughing it off and changing the subject or by looking her in the eye standing by my action 100%.

It's like the format is..
You say/do something good [you carry on]
You say/do something bad [you pass the shittest and carry on]
You say/do something good [you carry on]
You say/do something bad [you pass the shittest and carry on]
etc..

Every attractive type of a guy I ever met was passing shittest with ease and had some sort of physical chemistry with a girl. That's all. The most interesting thing is.. They had different style of game, some were touchy/aggressive, somewhere aloof/reserved, some didn't even lead but ALL of them were unreactive to girls [and people in general] shittests. That's what I noticed.

As a side note, those teases that we encounter are not meant to destroy you emotionally. It's only a way to establish who's on top. Guys do it all the time too. Those who never give shit test are usually clingy nice guys guys who always say yes to everyone.

If I had to teach my younger cousin one thing then it would be this skill for sure.

[Jaylow]

Can we compile a decent sized list of common shit tests girls give?

Biggest one is "I have a boyfriend".

[alphanov]

(02-17-2013 11:35 AM)Jaylow Wrote:  

Can we compile a decent sized list of common shit tests girls give?

Biggest one is "I have a boyfriend".

Watch out for this one. I knew this is possibly a shit test and I've already passed it once with flying colours (she actually had a bf and cheated him with me).
Yesterday one girl threw at me "I'm not available". Somehow the different phrasing bypassed my shittest reflex and I backed off. However, I've come up with an original response for next time. Whenever I get this shittest, I'll tell the girl to slap me. She'll be like "what, why, I don't want to". Insist on the slap until she gives you one, and it will be some weak pat instead. Then you say "I'm ruining your legit relationship, and you're not even mad at me?", then continue with the usual "this will be our little secret" material

[the virgin chronicles]

During daygame I recently had a girl interrupt my opener with "You stop people ALL the time. You've stopped me two times already." She was really bitchy / confrontational about it, which is unusual. I rarely run into a girl I've opened before, and when I do they usually either smile or they act like I'm a creeper and leave.

Anyway I tried to play it cool but I got pretty scared and ejected soon after.

[alphanov]

(02-28-2013 12:06 AM)the virgin chronicles Wrote:  

During daygame I recently had a girl interrupt my opener with "You stop people ALL the time. You've stopped me two times already." She was really bitchy / confrontational about it, which is unusual. I rarely run into a girl I've opened before, and when I do they usually either smile or they act like I'm a creeper and leave.

Anyway I tried to play it cool but I got pretty scared and ejected soon after.

I experience the same situation almost every day. Since I rarely remember our last encounter, I just apologize and ask carefully "I just can't remember, the last time did we separate on a good or a bad note?" If she says the good note, restart the game. If not, eject.

[GenJx]

where are you guys running into the same girls again during day game?

[Zampano]

This is a really good point. In all of my relationships before I studied game, failing shit tests was always my downfall. I just didn't get it at all, and I was probably just too insecure to let anything roll off my shoulders. I would obsess over it and try to figure why a girl who liked me or was dating me would suddenly say some sort of offhanded putdown. I've since learned that just staring dumbly into space like you didn't even hear them pretty much puts an end to it.

The dumb stare is probably one of the most valuable game skills I've learned.

[alphanov]

(02-28-2013 04:47 PM)GenJx Wrote:  

where are you guys running into the same girls again during day game?

I do only night game, and every night I run into girls I've already approached. Once I did a day approach, number closed, she flaked, then I saw her in the pub and she pretends she doesn't know me. The other day I was shopping for jeans, the cashier turned out to be one of the girls I've approached in the pub, number closed, she flaked. I'm sure I would recognize many pub girls if I were to sniff around the campus during the day.

[the virgin chronicles]

(02-28-2013 07:08 PM)alphanov Wrote:  

(02-28-2013 04:47 PM)GenJx Wrote:  

where are you guys running into the same girls again during day game?

I keep trolling the same colleges in NYC, hahah. Bound to run into the same girl when you open like I do

[Manny]

(02-28-2013 04:47 PM)GenJx Wrote:  

where are you guys running into the same girls again during day game?

Doesn't seem farfetched when you think about it. Most guys problably have their favourite day game places. And around those places some of the girls they hit on are bound to live or work and thus be walking around in the day.

No one really pays attention to the people they pass on the street so they're all lumped into the random background. You probably see hundreds of people daily and would not be able to pick them out of a line up, etc