Do you tend to kiss the girl in the cheek two times, hug, do nothing and keep walking or do you do something else?
Way of greeting a girl when on going on the first date
I guess it's different depending on your country.
In France, kissing the cheeks 2 times is common and won't alarm the girl.
I believe in Germany it's uncommon, so wouldn't advise it there, for example.
But I think you have to directly show you're not afraid of her and make a physical contact.
Wether it's touching her shoulder or kissing her, it's important to show you're not an "asocial gamer who never talks to girls".
In France, kissing the cheeks 2 times is common and won't alarm the girl.
I believe in Germany it's uncommon, so wouldn't advise it there, for example.
But I think you have to directly show you're not afraid of her and make a physical contact.
Wether it's touching her shoulder or kissing her, it's important to show you're not an "asocial gamer who never talks to girls".
I hug. It's a good in-between.
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As always.. it depends. If initial interaction was good and there is obvious chemistry [also on the phone] then hug or light short kiss is fine. Otherwise hugging [reaching out hand to hug first] is all I do.
One cheek
Light hug
I always go for a light kiss on the lips if her body language is off then a peck on the cheek. It really take the pressure off and set the tone on date..
Hug open but don't hug close.
Interesting.
I haven't been on many first dates as I'm more of a night-game, one night pull kind of guy.
I am trying to transition into this type of game and I think I quite like the kiss on the cheek greeting.
Simply, classy, dominant. I like it.
I haven't been on many first dates as I'm more of a night-game, one night pull kind of guy.
I am trying to transition into this type of game and I think I quite like the kiss on the cheek greeting.
Simply, classy, dominant. I like it.
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In the US, it always pays to go for a deep hug. Get it warm right from the start.
Judge the body language.
If you're new and unfamiliar with women, getting a good hug should be your priority.
As you gain experience, start going for the kiss. Hug her well, pull back and read her eyes. You can tell a lot from how she looks at you. If you kiss her, it will set the tone as fun and sexual from the beginning. After a light kiss, pull back, smile at her, and say "alright let's go!" Keep a positive mood.
Think about what most males would do....they would be shocked to kiss a girl so soon and when you meet them. A true player knows kissing is natural....so when you pull back convey that vibe.
If you're new and unfamiliar with women, getting a good hug should be your priority.
As you gain experience, start going for the kiss. Hug her well, pull back and read her eyes. You can tell a lot from how she looks at you. If you kiss her, it will set the tone as fun and sexual from the beginning. After a light kiss, pull back, smile at her, and say "alright let's go!" Keep a positive mood.
Think about what most males would do....they would be shocked to kiss a girl so soon and when you meet them. A true player knows kissing is natural....so when you pull back convey that vibe.
I actually always dislike greeting girls in social settings, with guys it's easy - just a hand shake. It always gets a bit weird when you are greeting girls who you have a professional relationship with in social settings.
As I'm running R selection, the need to minimise social touching/hand holding etc is important. So it varies on the girl, i'll never kiss them but a hug or european cheek kiss
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I'v say go for a deep, smooth hug after you have already had put on a good trendy perfume so that she feels a strong masculine touch of you and make a good first impression on you.
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