About 6 months ago I broke up with my gf. This girl was the typical "good girl" mentioned in Roosh's latest post
-Had slept with one other guy before me (verified, have known her since high school, am 24 now)
-Religiously went to the gym
-Never played stupid games like flirting to make me jealous
-Very feminine, never looked like a slob, hair, makeup and wax always on point
-Incredibly low maintenance
-Tiny waist, nice round butt, thick thighs, natural blonde hair and Scandinavian features
-Tight box
I broke up with her for a few reasons; she really had no intellectual curiosity or interests aside from shopping, working out or being a "foodie", she would be "shy to the point of being mute" as Roosh described it, around my family and friends (this was a big one- I'm close with my family and have lots of friends) and she had some habits in the relationship that bothered me. I didn't like how she'd constantly drone on about work and then snap at me when I asked for clarification on some minor detail, and I didn't like how she couldn't deal with confrontation and was unable to discuss our problems frankly.
I know some of you will say the answer is to go bang girls and get over it. I have, and I have consistently found myself coming back to preferring more stable LTRs over the random sex. The fact that I live in Toronto, where feminine nice girls are so rare, has me second guessing myself as well. But I could never shake the nagging feeling that I was settling/could do better.
-Had slept with one other guy before me (verified, have known her since high school, am 24 now)
-Religiously went to the gym
-Never played stupid games like flirting to make me jealous
-Very feminine, never looked like a slob, hair, makeup and wax always on point
-Incredibly low maintenance
-Tiny waist, nice round butt, thick thighs, natural blonde hair and Scandinavian features
-Tight box
I broke up with her for a few reasons; she really had no intellectual curiosity or interests aside from shopping, working out or being a "foodie", she would be "shy to the point of being mute" as Roosh described it, around my family and friends (this was a big one- I'm close with my family and have lots of friends) and she had some habits in the relationship that bothered me. I didn't like how she'd constantly drone on about work and then snap at me when I asked for clarification on some minor detail, and I didn't like how she couldn't deal with confrontation and was unable to discuss our problems frankly.
I know some of you will say the answer is to go bang girls and get over it. I have, and I have consistently found myself coming back to preferring more stable LTRs over the random sex. The fact that I live in Toronto, where feminine nice girls are so rare, has me second guessing myself as well. But I could never shake the nagging feeling that I was settling/could do better.