The situation is as follows...
A good male friend(70% red/30% blue pill) of mine has a cute but not hot girlfriend. Recently she moved out of her parents house to stay with her childhood friend and another girl in a rented house. The girlfriend was living in a small town 15 minutes outside the city. She has the small town girl vibe to her which is why my friend likes her.
The house has 4 total bedrooms(2 upstairs and 2 downstairs) and 2 full bathrooms(one upstairs and one downstairs). The other 2 girls share the upstairs and his gf is currently alone in the basement. He called me last night in a panic about the situation. They had some interested people for the remaining room but only 1 guy showed up. The guy works construction...They will have a formal interview with the guy on Wednesday.
The childhood friend's boyfriend is 100% opposed to the idea of the 4th roommate being a guy.
His nightmare scenarios are as follows:
Since they will be sharing a bathroom there would be plenty of times for her to see him naked or vice versa...
They end up drinking together since their rooms share a common wall. One thing leads to another...
One night he has some guy friends over and they start drinking and things get out of hand because she is the closet female to them...
Or she just finds him straight up more attractive and fucks him on the side behind her bf's back...
I told him not to really get too bothered about it because it will come across very needy and that will shoot him in the foot in the long run.
How do you discourage the idea of having a male roommate in a house full of young in their sexual prime women?
I've told him to float the idea of their house not being a safe haven anymore. They dont know him at all, anyone can fake being likeable for a few hours or even days. However once a month or two passes then you really see who they are. What if he does things to make them uncomfortable? (ie walking in on them coming out of the shower or entering their room while they are changing clothes) How much harder will it be to get him to move out. As well as if anything happens who is still going to wanna live there because they definitely wont feel safe in their own home.
I'm open to more suggestions to help him deal with this.
PS. I know some people will think he should just drop her if they get a guy. However lets try to prevent the problem in the first place instead of throwing the baby out with the bath water.
A good male friend(70% red/30% blue pill) of mine has a cute but not hot girlfriend. Recently she moved out of her parents house to stay with her childhood friend and another girl in a rented house. The girlfriend was living in a small town 15 minutes outside the city. She has the small town girl vibe to her which is why my friend likes her.
The house has 4 total bedrooms(2 upstairs and 2 downstairs) and 2 full bathrooms(one upstairs and one downstairs). The other 2 girls share the upstairs and his gf is currently alone in the basement. He called me last night in a panic about the situation. They had some interested people for the remaining room but only 1 guy showed up. The guy works construction...They will have a formal interview with the guy on Wednesday.
The childhood friend's boyfriend is 100% opposed to the idea of the 4th roommate being a guy.
His nightmare scenarios are as follows:
Since they will be sharing a bathroom there would be plenty of times for her to see him naked or vice versa...
They end up drinking together since their rooms share a common wall. One thing leads to another...
One night he has some guy friends over and they start drinking and things get out of hand because she is the closet female to them...
Or she just finds him straight up more attractive and fucks him on the side behind her bf's back...
I told him not to really get too bothered about it because it will come across very needy and that will shoot him in the foot in the long run.
How do you discourage the idea of having a male roommate in a house full of young in their sexual prime women?
I've told him to float the idea of their house not being a safe haven anymore. They dont know him at all, anyone can fake being likeable for a few hours or even days. However once a month or two passes then you really see who they are. What if he does things to make them uncomfortable? (ie walking in on them coming out of the shower or entering their room while they are changing clothes) How much harder will it be to get him to move out. As well as if anything happens who is still going to wanna live there because they definitely wont feel safe in their own home.
I'm open to more suggestions to help him deal with this.
PS. I know some people will think he should just drop her if they get a guy. However lets try to prevent the problem in the first place instead of throwing the baby out with the bath water.