Quote: (01-14-2013 11:52 AM)Frost Wrote:
1) Avoid making any decision that will permanently affect your life for the next five years. Do not get married. Do not knock her up.
This, this, many times this. All my friends who have knocked up women in their earlier years or gotten married or even in an extended LTR (I'm talking 3-5 years) completely regret it at this point. I basically have a five year head start on most of them on how to live as a bachelor who still gets ass on the side. I fucking hate it when my friends have to constantly be glued to their LTR at the time; it's annoying and it detracts from the camaraderie that men enjoy. Most of their significant others try to be "one of the guys" and it disgusts me when they try to outdrink me (a feat which has never been done by an American woman) or generally just compete to try to be one of the guys.
But in any case, it's hard to label yourself as an "exemplary alpha" because, and this was shitty for me the first time I thought about it, one of the things about being alpha is being experienced, which age has a lot to do with. There's a reason why older men who were even modestly accomplished were well respected in the past; it's because they got that far in the first place, so they knew something that most of their peers didn't. Whenever I try to label myself, I usually go for Greater Beta as my go-to response, as it's a lot softer than Rockfuck McHardass the alpha male extraordinaire and it implies that I still haven't figured everything out yet. That, and most alphas don't need to think about shit like I do; they just do it. I haven't hit that "End Game" that Roosh talks about, where the end game is no game at all, merely an internalization of what works.
I also knew a lot of "alphas" in highschool who haven't pulled ass in the five years since I graduated, so there's that. Do what you want, but if you supposedly have a perfect girlfriend, you probably want to spend some quality time with her before you go burying your pecker in as many sluts as you can manage. Or, if you want to get with some of them on the side, make damn sure she only has lingering feelings of doom that the relationship is jeopardized before you (and yes, that means you) cut it off.
I was a dumbass with my first girlfriend and didn't see it coming when she dumped me, something I still have a lingering feeling of regret about because she thought she was better than me when she did it. She also proceeded to fuck all the guys in my circle before getting engaged to some blue pill fucktard in the military who praises her constantly. Am I jealous of her? No, but I learned pretty fucking quick from my mistakes.
edit: I just watched that old guy beats up a young buck youtube video. It does look like they're fucking. That young guy must be a 19 year old vegetarian who gets a workout from Wii Fitness.