About 3 times a year, I'll meet a girl who shows immediate
and obvious interest in me. Maybe I dressed the way she likes
that day, I don't know, but it does happen.
How does one act in that case? It always confuses me since
usually I have to work at generating attraction.
The most recent case was Saturday night. I went to a friend's
birthday party at a bar in downtown DC. One of her friends immediately
lit up when I showed up. When I was introducing myself she instantly
chimed in and was looking at me for much longer periods than I
normally expect wide eyed. I wasn't sure what to do since we were standing in a mixed social circle of 8 people and she stood directly across form me. I decided to play it slow
and made a point of just introducing myself but not giving her
too much attention. I went up and talked to
her later but things had already cooled.
Are there tricks that I can use to accelerate things to isolation
if I get an chance like that?
and obvious interest in me. Maybe I dressed the way she likes
that day, I don't know, but it does happen.
How does one act in that case? It always confuses me since
usually I have to work at generating attraction.
The most recent case was Saturday night. I went to a friend's
birthday party at a bar in downtown DC. One of her friends immediately
lit up when I showed up. When I was introducing myself she instantly
chimed in and was looking at me for much longer periods than I
normally expect wide eyed. I wasn't sure what to do since we were standing in a mixed social circle of 8 people and she stood directly across form me. I decided to play it slow
and made a point of just introducing myself but not giving her
too much attention. I went up and talked to
her later but things had already cooled.
Are there tricks that I can use to accelerate things to isolation
if I get an chance like that?