Hello guys,
I'm back from my night in Göteborg and talking with a bartender mixed with my own experience I got this:
There are basically two regions to go out: the one where the locals go and the one where the tourists go. I went to both. The barman said that people are more real in the local site. I agree, that's my experience and it's way more enriching on a personal level than the time I spent in the "touristy" area.
The main difference is that people play way more games in the touristy area and the importance of status and money is much more important.
That being said, I'm curious about your own experience regarding the easiness of getting laid, since I'm focussed on that now.
I don't want to go with any skanky woman from the touristy area and at the same time my type of woman (tattoos and piercings, sexual woman) are hanging out over there. I've never seen so many tongue piercings in my life than in Göteborg.
Now, talking on an emotional/soul level: I realized that many of the women with tattoos and piercings actually have emotional and/or mental issues. I'm not judging I'm talking about my own experience. So I'm trying to understand how I can get women that I'm attracted to physically while not going for the so-called "damaged" women, I prefer the term: "in suffering".
What's your experience?
There are two dimensions:
- Physical vs emotional experience. Meaning: would you go for the type of women you like even if you feel like shit/used after that? (narcisstic women for instance)
- Do you think that to get laid it's better to go to the touristy area or the local area, in general?
All in all, what is your attitude?
I'm back from my night in Göteborg and talking with a bartender mixed with my own experience I got this:
There are basically two regions to go out: the one where the locals go and the one where the tourists go. I went to both. The barman said that people are more real in the local site. I agree, that's my experience and it's way more enriching on a personal level than the time I spent in the "touristy" area.
The main difference is that people play way more games in the touristy area and the importance of status and money is much more important.
That being said, I'm curious about your own experience regarding the easiness of getting laid, since I'm focussed on that now.
I don't want to go with any skanky woman from the touristy area and at the same time my type of woman (tattoos and piercings, sexual woman) are hanging out over there. I've never seen so many tongue piercings in my life than in Göteborg.
Now, talking on an emotional/soul level: I realized that many of the women with tattoos and piercings actually have emotional and/or mental issues. I'm not judging I'm talking about my own experience. So I'm trying to understand how I can get women that I'm attracted to physically while not going for the so-called "damaged" women, I prefer the term: "in suffering".
What's your experience?
There are two dimensions:
- Physical vs emotional experience. Meaning: would you go for the type of women you like even if you feel like shit/used after that? (narcisstic women for instance)
- Do you think that to get laid it's better to go to the touristy area or the local area, in general?
All in all, what is your attitude?