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(10-23-2012 07:31 PM)houston Wrote:  

We all know the nasty attitudes that girls have.

In Batcrapnutchickovaville the girls are all sweet! Not nasty at all!

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Accept it

[Carbonic]

When you outwardly let women know that you aren't there to do things they ask of you, and put off that vibe in general, suddenly you're rude in their eyes.

I'm about 50/50 on calling out girls in public for incompetence at their menial jobs, or shitty attitudes, depending on what talent is nearby and how bad their "expectations" of your tolerance of them really are.

Shit, I don't care if you're a hot ass waitress.. if you can't perform the basic functions of taking my order and delivering me food or drinks in a reasonable amount of time, prepare for a flirty roast.. if you still continue to suck, prepare to suffer in truth.

There comes a point where enough is enough, and they need it thrown in their face... that your expectations or them aren't being met, and they're failing basic human decency. In which case, I proudly knock them off their pedestal and make a bit of a scene/public nuisance if necessary.

So conditioned to princess-land they can't handle one ounce of logical reality.

[j r]

(10-24-2012 05:24 PM)RioNomad Wrote:  

Girl: "You should buy me a drink if you want to talk to me."
Guy: "You should buy ME a drink with that attitude."
Girl: "That's stupid, you're rude. Whatever."

I just made that up, but similar to how I see a lot of conversations go. Girls not recognizing that they are being rude first, then pushing it all onto the guy.

I've always treated behavior like that as a shit test. The girl wants to see what you're made of. It's smart. Most women know that they're insane and irrational and they want to know that a man won't turn into a bitch when that side comes out.

I have noticed lately that, for some women, being rude isn't just a shit test, but has actually become a significant part of their personality. I don't think that it the norm yet, but it's problematic because you don't know which it is until you've invested some time in the conversation.

There's nothing worse than realizing that you've just wasted 15 minutes running through shit tests only to realize that the chick isn't testing and that she's a legitimate bitch.

[Don_Johnson]

(10-23-2012 07:55 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  

Instead of arguing I said "bitch shut the fuck up" (in a real serious voice) and told her something funny. She knew I said that as a joke about feminism, but I said it seriously enough she could tell I was also telling her to drop it. It had the undercurrent of "stay in line, you submit to me, you get turned on by my dominance, don't try to deny that fact."

Yeah, I'm calling bullshit on this one.

Unless you live in Camden, Philadelphia, or Detroit - you're going to have a hard time finding a woman who will tolerate an insult like that.

Now, this site seems to conflate ghetto and civilized behavioral patterns and mating strategies, but this is just extreme.

[Basil Ransom]

Disregard. It's just girls getting more mannish. If they're calling you rude, they're probably rejecting you, but instead of slinking away in the traditional feminine way, they're trying to provoke you and show off their superiority. She can't let you leave withouy you feeling like you're the loser. Sometimes, it can be a chick who is down to bang you, she is just shit testing you, so don't let up and get nice all of a sudden.

Or she has some class, and you are genuinely being a dick to the point of being annoying. There are people who are genuinely rude.

(10-24-2012 05:24 PM)RioNomad Wrote:  

Girl: "You should buy me a drink if you want to talk to me."
Guy: "You should buy ME a drink with that attitude."
Girl: "That's stupid, you're rude. Whatever."

I just made that up, but similar to how I see a lot of conversations go. Girls not recognizing that they are being rude first, then pushing it all onto the guy.

You're beneath her, so your only worth to her is in providing her with drinks. That is your role. She is saying, "Know your place, bitch." If you do not, you are violating the rules. And then you go so far as to say it should be the other way around - that's like insisting a frail old lady with a cane carry YOUR groceries across the street, instead of vice versa. How incredibly rude of you.

Obviously, that's what she's thinking, not what I believe. It's sort of like how some strippers see all men as marks. If men don't throw money at them, they're 'rude.'

(10-25-2012 07:36 AM)Don_Johnson Wrote:  

Yeah, I'm calling bullshit on this one.

Unless you live in Camden, Philadelphia, or Detroit - you're going to have a hard time finding a woman who will tolerate an insult like that.

Now, this site seems to conflate ghetto and civilized behavioral patterns and mating strategies, but this is just extreme.

Depends. White girls love to hear you imitating ghetto black people. I can easily imagine a girl saying something stupid, and me responding with, 'bitch, shut yo' trap.'

[R Smoov]

If the bitch calling you rude, then the bitch prolly a prude.

[Screwston]

Ok, I'm starting to wonder if the guys questioning my "game" and choice of words with these girls actually deal with young American females. I've been doing it for about 8 years now and have at least a basic understanding of what works and what doesn't on them. They're either getting more rude as the years have gone by but dont realize it or are so delusional from white knights and captain-save-a-ho's that they don't know what the fuck's going on when someone throws it back in their face. This is a recent phenomenon from my experience and I don't like it!

I don't go around acting like a dick or straight up asshole to anyone; I'm just sarcastic. I'm glad to see other guys on here know what I'm talking about but also sad because this shit is getting worse for us out there.

[WesternCancer]

For sure man. When you get blown out for the lightest of teases its not something wrong with you its something wrong with them. Its like what I talked about from my adventures last night. These girls (very hot girls at that so the 'neg' was being used properly) were dressed up as beauty queens. I ask them if the sash they are wearing is real because it looks similar to the one my friend has (from winning a beauty pageant). It was essentially the 'nice nails are they real' neg. Any normal person would interpret that for the most part as a complement. It says "you guys are attractive as beauty queens" but it also brings up stereotypes of beauty queens as stupid bimbos. Instead of a reasonable response such as "haha no we made them" or "why would you think they're fake/real" they got all pissy and left. This is after they'd opened me in the first place.