[iknowexactly]

Someone else here posted something like, "There's only one woman, just with different faces."

Ever leave some tasty food out in your house, and a stream of ants finds it and all come tasting it in a regimented way? Do they say, "Oh, I don't want to be like all the other ants, I want to be a special ant and show I don't like that piece of cake."

Women are about as individualistic as ants. Ergo, womant.

Be the tasty food.

As I've gotten older I've realized this is true almost to the point of total literalness. If a girl looks like 200 million others, and has the same thoughts in her mind "My thighs are too fat, I like those shoes"; how is she actually an individual?

This is not just philosophical musing, it applies to actual gaming because once you psychologically see them as sort of a point in the Cosmic Sieve where femininity is passing through to you here and now, you realize
"She"-- any individual womant-- is just an interation, a bio-computer program that runs different places, different times and which you happen to come upon (hopefully literally).

And this realization:
1) Reduces AA ("She's" the same girl you see all the time.)

2) Reduces chance of oneitis. (She's just in a bad mood today, tomorrow "she'll" ( another "she") will be nicer, blow you, and talk extra filthy to make up for what "she" did the other day.

3) Prevents getting too excited if she likes you ( related to one-itis)

4) Helps you keep in mind that women, counterintuitively to men, LIKE it when they see you gaming other chicks.
( This connects with the story below.)

5) You realize it's good they can't think for themselves and are illogical. It means that if you do all the things right it doesn't matter if it's cliche or obvious, she'll get wet and follow and really have no ability to do anything different.

Look at all the chicks at a rock concert openly adoring the same guy, when it's obvious they can't all have him. A woman who's found an Alpha is just like an ant in a colony that's found food.

She will follow her program, and neither her nor anyone else can stop her.

This leads to a story of an opening I did today.

I have a useful opener for girls who are working. I ask if whatever they are doing is "the easy job"; or if it obvious it is a better one, I congratulate them.

I use it on grocery store cashiers, any girl that's working. For a grocery store cashier that's out collecting carts, ( although often they send males to do this) I say "Oh, you've got the fun job today."

I joined the university gym here ( I'm over 50, look 40's, 5'9", 180 [20 is lard]) and after brutalizing my biceps with Tabata reps, was on an exercise bike.

There was a winsome, part Irish pretty girl on another machine, I checked her out, but no response.

Then I spotted a girl cleaning machines. She looked like a "smart girl slut"- short shorts, sexy boots, Asian, but no tattoos and very well groomed.

I have naturally curly blond hair ( was blond now grey dyed blond) and seem to get WAY WAY more attention from Asians than from white girls of similar quality here in the college town.

Asian 8's actually check me out, and I'm more than twice their age. Some I am literally 3 times their age. Now when they get up close, see some wrinkles, and realize I am at least 40-something, their interest diminishes but still, I thnk Asians are the way to go for older, blond guys here in American, and maybe Latins but that's another story.

Out of white girls only maybe 4-5 level girls check me out. (9+ girls , absolutely never. They manage to avoid even a fraction of a second of eye contact. I don't know how they pull it off.)

I do all-out intervals on the bike machine to try to lose weight, and it kind of looks dramatic. I stand up on the thing and crank out 400 watts until I'm about to pass out. ( I step down to 300 and 250 gradually)

I caught the Asian looking at me, and did another monster 20 second interval and sat down gasping. It takes a couple minutes to recover.

She made her way over to me and started cleaning the machine right next to me. I am a wimp, but come on, Fatso, bust a move...

"Is that the easy job?" I asked

She turned around and smiled, and I was even more impressed. Wide sexy mouth, perfect skin and teeth, broad, well proportioned face-- this girl was a clear 8 as far as I was concerned. No stranger danger attitude, even a little bit shy which is nice.

She was an outlier for an Asian in that she had relatively long thin legs which she was showing off.

She kind of stood there frozen with the smile on her face, so I went on.

"Is that more fun than waiting at the counter?"

"Yes, that's boring."

She seemed happy I had talked to her. I didn't continue, this gym thing is great because I'll see her again and can gauge pretty easily if she's interested without working hard.

Now when I started talking to her I thought the Irish girl is going to see this. But I realized, they are so sheeplike that this _increases_ your value. If I charm and get a good response from the Asian womant, then at the same time I'm gaming the Irish womant. There's no separation.

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All you guys under 35 in college towns, you have zero excuse not to join a COLLEGE gym by taking one class or something. It pre-screens you, they girls like intense physical sensation meaning.... duh, you tell me...

And they are all the same girl. The same womant.

[Parlay44]

That's a quote from the diner scene in Chasing Amy. Great movie if you've never seen it.

[iknowexactly]

(10-22-2012 04:15 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

That's a quote from the diner scene in Chasing Amy. Great movie if you've never seen it.

I'm sure you're right, I'm just a male version of an follower ant too!

But did they achieve my totally dismissive tone!?

[Parlay44]

(10-22-2012 04:24 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

But did they achieve my totally dismissive tone!?

I do the dismissive tone with women when I'm out if they ain't acting right. Most of them
don't seem to give a shit. The bitchy attitude gets old real quick. I think I need a vacation.

[Anon-A-Moose]

(10-22-2012 04:24 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

(10-22-2012 04:15 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  

That's a quote from the diner scene in Chasing Amy. Great movie if you've never seen it.

I'm sure you're right, I'm just a male version of an follower ant too!

But did they achieve my totally dismissive tone!?

Male follower ant...was this beta?

If you're here, you're not a follower ant because you're neglecting and dismissing the cultural norms and preconceived notions that are falling down around you. You're thinking independently, at least enough to lead you to here, and (I would hope) enough to form your own opinions independently of the ones of the site and community. In the extremely vast majority of cases, women don't think about woman-game or even WHY shit happens, they circlejerk with their girlfriends/mass media/societal norms/whatnot and just ride a drama-filled rollercoaster they don't even understand. They, for all their reputation as being intuitive, DON'T think about emotions in a figurative and objective way. Neither does your usual nice guy loser.

[Sphere]

This thread and those like it are the reason I keep coming back to this forum.

I have begun to see exactly what IKE has laid out here. It may be that I attract women who are all similar to one another or it may be that they really are, independent of whether they are attracted to me or not. Be that as it may, I have one slutty fuckbuddy, one good girl, one university full professor, one assistant professor, one jaded girl and one possible mid-30's freak in various stages of my pipeline. They all present differently on the outside but on the inside they all have a rationalization hamster running at full speed and are all just little girls with daddy issues. All shapes and sizes and all cut from the same cloth.

They are all the same.

[Nomad77]

I agree. I have dated women from all over the world. Women and men would like to think they are different but we are more alike than different. Before a woman is American, Black, Hispanic or whatever she's a womant

[kazz]

Nice story man, I just got back from the gym, the fucked up women at my gym, dont look at anyone. Does not bother me though as i go to the gym to train, lose my concentration when hot women enter the gym. Actually there is a big thing here, women only gyms and gyms with women only sections, fuck women are fucked up!

[iknowexactly]

(10-24-2012 03:47 AM)kazz Wrote:  

Nice story man, I just got back from the gym, the fucked up women at my gym, dont look at anyone. Does not bother me though as i go to the gym to train, lose my concentration when hot women enter the gym. Actually there is a big thing here, women only gyms and gyms with women only sections, fuck women are fucked up!

You're serious, they don't look at you? I'm fucking in my mid-50's, average build, and they at least make eye contact... asians especially.

Maybe you're huge and they're intimidated?

[kazz]

(10-24-2012 08:14 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

(10-24-2012 03:47 AM)kazz Wrote:  

Nice story man, I just got back from the gym, the fucked up women at my gym, dont look at anyone. Does not bother me though as i go to the gym to train, lose my concentration when hot women enter the gym. Actually there is a big thing here, women only gyms and gyms with women only sections, fuck women are fucked up!

You're serious, they don't look at you? I'm fucking in my mid-50's, average build, and they at least make eye contact... asians especially.

Maybe you're huge and they're intimidated?

The place I live right now I would compare with somewhere like DC or Toronto, the women are cold and unfriendly. The gym I go to is full of posers, so what happens is the women walk around like supermodels (it is funny to see really). most of the guys act the same way, so in this stupid pretentious situation, the women think oh Im not giving that poser an ego boost by checking him out, but to be fair, i do the same thing, as when i do check out a hottie, she will just have this stupid look on her face like she is on a runway in milan or something, so I dont validate that bullshit. Even when I lived in TO when i went to the gym girls would be friendly, often they would initiate a conversation with me.

Shit that turned into a rant didnt it; anyway morel of the story is some places are just fucked up/much harder for gaming women, I am living in one of those places at the moment, but not for much longer

[iknowexactly]

(10-25-2012 02:09 AM)kazz Wrote:  

Shit that turned into a rant didnt it; anyway morel of the story is some places are just fucked up/much harder for gaming women, I am living in one of those places at the moment, but not for much longer

Wow, I used to bitch about California; but the college towns are great .

I think the big thing is the chicks are healthy and really horny and they feel like losers compared to their hot social friends if they're not getting laid.

Of course part of it is me being less picky as I age, if an Asian girl is a tiny bit chunky and not tall, but has perfect skin and is moping around like all she ever does is masturbate, that's hot enough for me.

I think getting laid is like a required fashion statement /status point for these 18-27 year olds. I wonder if online porn has something to do with it? They see these girls screaming their heads off and they want some.

EDIT: The responses from Asians (mostly US born) are like three notches better than white chicks. Tall white chicks still look right through me. I'm blond, so maybe that's Asian bait.

[soup]

I wonder if they ever made a porn version of "Chasing Amy" called "Chasing Pussy"

[Parlay44]

(10-25-2012 06:22 PM)soup Wrote:  

I wonder if they ever made a porn version of "Chasing Amy" called "Chasing Pussy"

Chafing Amy

[wolf]

(10-25-2012 05:39 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

(10-25-2012 02:09 AM)kazz Wrote:  

Shit that turned into a rant didnt it; anyway morel of the story is some places are just fucked up/much harder for gaming women, I am living in one of those places at the moment, but not for much longer

Wow, I used to bitch about California; but the college towns are great .

I think the big thing is the chicks are healthy and really horny and they feel like losers compared to their hot social friends if they're not getting laid.

Of course part of it is me being less picky as I age, if an Asian girl is a tiny bit chunky and not tall, but has perfect skin and is moping around like all she ever does is masturbate, that's hot enough for me.

I think getting laid is like a required fashion statement /status point for these 18-27 year olds. I wonder if online porn has something to do with it? They see these girls screaming their heads off and they want some.

EDIT: The responses from Asians (mostly US born) are like three notches better than white chicks. Tall white chicks still look right through me. I'm blond, so maybe that's Asian bait.

How many of these US born asians do you actually fuck?

[3rdmilleniummen]

(10-24-2012 03:47 AM)kazz Wrote:  

Nice story man, I just got back from the gym, the fucked up women at my gym, dont look at anyone. Does not bother me though as i go to the gym to train, lose my concentration when hot women enter the gym. Actually there is a big thing here, women only gyms and gyms with women only sections, fuck women are fucked up!

So many girls wear clothes to the gym just to try and distract you. Ass hanging out, revealing sports bras etc... makes it difficult to get in the zone you need to lift a massive weight in a dead or squat.

[iknowexactly]

(10-27-2012 05:16 AM)wolf Wrote:  

[quote] (10-25-2012 05:39 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

EDIT: The responses from Asians (mostly US born) are like three notches better than white chicks. Tall white chicks still look right through me. I'm blond, so maybe that's Asian bait.

How many of these US born asians do you actually fuck?

None since I hit 50, but I haven't tried hard. BUt what I'm getting at is they are much more willing to talk than the white chicks, who barely look at me and never hold eye contact.

[wolf]

(10-27-2012 01:30 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

(10-27-2012 05:16 AM)wolf Wrote:  

[quote] (10-25-2012 05:39 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

EDIT: The responses from Asians (mostly US born) are like three notches better than white chicks. Tall white chicks still look right through me. I'm blond, so maybe that's Asian bait.

How many of these US born asians do you actually fuck?

None since I hit 50, but I haven't tried hard. BUt what I'm getting at is they are much more willing to talk than the white chicks, who barely look at me and never hold eye contact.

That's what I get too.

[iknowexactly]

doubled

[iknowexactly]

(10-28-2012 05:59 AM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

(10-28-2012 02:26 AM)wolf Wrote:  

Tall white chicks still look right through me. I'm blond, so maybe that's Asian bait.

How many of these US born asians do you actually fuck?

None since I hit 50, but I haven't tried hard. BUt what I'm getting at is they are much more willing to talk than the white chicks, who barely look at me and never hold eye contact.
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That's what I get too.
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Actually the shorter white chicks are a little more responsive than the tall ones ( over 5'6" or so) ; I mean ones below about 5'3". I think they don't get noticed as much maybe just because they are not as visible!!
THe main barrier now is just escalating and learning when they're hoping for it.