Quote: (10-22-2012 11:11 AM)rationalize_this Wrote:
The first 9 (25) was a paralegal so we could have detailed conversations about interesting legal concepts/situations I'd encounter daily. The current Russian (21) i'm banging I've had conversations with her about Russian literature, poetry, impressionist artists, i could go on and on.
Sorry, but I wouldn't consider that to be even remotely serious. I have conversations like that with girls all the time, those conversations are so easy to handle I could do it in my sleep.
Serious conversations involve the following:
1. Considerations of truth. There is a right, and there is a wrong. Disagreements are not a big deal.
2. People involved in the discussion put their ego's aside in order challenge each other and seek out solutions to problems. People find the tough questions and pose them to each other even if it means someone might look bad.
3. Presenting complex arguments. Arguments that involve concepts which are so dense most people will not want to follow. Arguments that draw from all across history and from all fields of knowledge in order to present the strongest case possible.
A good example of a serious discussion is the argument I'm having with
Athlone over Affirmative Action in another thread. Both of us are going head to head right now and we'll each probably make concessions to each other in the pursuit of truth.
Now let's compare that to what you just said...
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The first 9 (25) was a paralegal so we could have detailed conversations about interesting legal concepts/situations I'd encounter daily. The current Russian (21) i'm banging I've had conversations with her about Russian literature, poetry, impressionist artists, i could go on and on.
These conversations you listed as "serious" are pure fluff talk. Look at it man! "Interesting legal concepts?" You guys could have been talking about the latest fashion trends, that's how meaningless your conversation with her was.
"Conversations with her about Russian literature, poetry, impressionist artists" = about as complex as reading a Wikipedia article.
These conversations you just listed do not even come
close to the criteria I put up above for a "serious" conversation.
Now, if you feel that my criteria for serious conversations are wrong, please feel free to list your own - but see how we are already engaging on a level far, far, far, higher than any two females could?
Even if you attempt to prove me wrong, you're just validating my opinion that serious conversations involve considerations of truth under criteria 1.
And, unlike a female, if you attempt to prove me wrong I'm not going to hold a grudge about it, because I'm a man who enjoys serious conversations. Women can't have serious conversations because women aren't capable of detaching their ego from the argument. If you prove them wrong they get pissed and hold grudges. Women will never meet criteria 2.
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Purely for curiosity I asked her, why did you pursue me after the first date. (I was thinking of rescheduling but she sent me "No, I want to see you tonight.") She told me she gets approached all the time by muscular, handsome guys at the gym, or on the street. But they can't hold a conversation of any base or value. She could tell "They had nothing in their heads."
Yeah, plenty of girls have told me I'm intelligent. The 18-year old girl I banged last Saturday told me she loved how intelligent I was.
Whatever. Girls say they like intelligent men, but of course that is bullshit. When I was 18, other 18 year old girls didn't give me the time of day even though I was much more intelligent than boys my age. Other alpha qualities are 100x more important in getting girls, the "intelligence" is just an easy rationalization girls use to avoid looking like a slut.
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This is not to say I'm not muscular or handsome. I'm 5'10, 170 lbs. I bench 245lb and squat 325 on a good day. I have blonde hair blue eyes, and would describe myself as a 7 face wise. But I wholeheartedly believe that the reason I bedded these girls was because I differentiated myself from the "typical" guy using my intelligence.
Almost guaranteed not. The reason you got the bangs is because you have blond hair, blue eyes, are in good shape, and make enough cash to visit foreign countries as an American.
The intelligent compliment is meaningless, because girls aren't intelligent.
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