Last night I rolled dolo to a club to hear a local DJ I wanted to check out. He was doing an opening set, so I got there at about 11. The place is pretty well dead, and it's all dudes. Anyway, I get a drink and pick out a spot to chill. After a while I decide to do a lap of the place to see if more girls had shown up, or if anyone I knew was there. As I'm walking, I make eye contact with a girl sitting at a table with 2 friends (girls).
She says hey, I stop, say hi, walk over to the table, she says "you look like just my type" and motions for me to sit down. I sit next to her and she is pretty instantly all over me, asking about me, telling me I'm cute, etc. She's leant up against me, etc, you probably know the drill, basically making herself available, I kiss her, we start to make out a bit. She's basically attacking me and I'm kind of pulling back a little from it, figuring I didnt want to look to eager/desperate for her attention (cause this happens to me all the time right?).
Anyway after a while more of talking/making out/groping/etc (at one point she starts to straddle me, when a club security dude comes over to the table and is like hey not in here, lol) she asks me if I will come with her back to her hotel room (nearby). The place still hadn't really "gotten going" and I figured it probably wasn't going to, and this girl was really hot, so I figured no way I was going to do better tonight, go with the sure thing. We go, she's still all over me in the cab (she paid) etc, etc
Get there, throw her down on the bed, take her top off, she rips my shirt off, it seems like it's on. Shes down to her thong and I've still got my jeans on, I pause for a second to kind of build the moment or really i have no idea wtf i was doing it just seemed like a good idea to chill for a sec.
Then suddenly she has this fake crisis about losing her cell phone. I'm like um who cares about your phone... and try to go back to what we were doing, she gets back into it a little bit, then is like "i still dont know where my phone is and my friends are going to be back here soon and then you have to go" and i'm like ok whatever, i get up to take a piss. when i come out she's using my phone to call her phone and it isn't ringing.
I'm basically confused as fuck at this point. I try to get things started again, we fool around a little more, then she basically rolls over and is like goodnight, turn the lights off will you? I'm like ummm yeah I think I'm just gonna leave. She says good idea because her friends are coming back. Then she's like "you can call me sometime" and I tell her that I don't want to call her. Then at that moment her friends get back. I say whatup to them, bs for a minute and then get my shit together and I head out.
What the fucking fuck? My read on this is that the girl was not serious about having sex but thought I was hot just really wanted some attention. I'm trying to tell myself that there wasn't much I could have done differently to get the bang.
But I want to try and learn from the experience anyway... What do you guys think? I know I didn't give too many details of the interactions but I figure nobody wants to read all that shit. Any thoughts or ideas for how I could have gotten the bang?
She says hey, I stop, say hi, walk over to the table, she says "you look like just my type" and motions for me to sit down. I sit next to her and she is pretty instantly all over me, asking about me, telling me I'm cute, etc. She's leant up against me, etc, you probably know the drill, basically making herself available, I kiss her, we start to make out a bit. She's basically attacking me and I'm kind of pulling back a little from it, figuring I didnt want to look to eager/desperate for her attention (cause this happens to me all the time right?).
Anyway after a while more of talking/making out/groping/etc (at one point she starts to straddle me, when a club security dude comes over to the table and is like hey not in here, lol) she asks me if I will come with her back to her hotel room (nearby). The place still hadn't really "gotten going" and I figured it probably wasn't going to, and this girl was really hot, so I figured no way I was going to do better tonight, go with the sure thing. We go, she's still all over me in the cab (she paid) etc, etc
Get there, throw her down on the bed, take her top off, she rips my shirt off, it seems like it's on. Shes down to her thong and I've still got my jeans on, I pause for a second to kind of build the moment or really i have no idea wtf i was doing it just seemed like a good idea to chill for a sec.
Then suddenly she has this fake crisis about losing her cell phone. I'm like um who cares about your phone... and try to go back to what we were doing, she gets back into it a little bit, then is like "i still dont know where my phone is and my friends are going to be back here soon and then you have to go" and i'm like ok whatever, i get up to take a piss. when i come out she's using my phone to call her phone and it isn't ringing.
I'm basically confused as fuck at this point. I try to get things started again, we fool around a little more, then she basically rolls over and is like goodnight, turn the lights off will you? I'm like ummm yeah I think I'm just gonna leave. She says good idea because her friends are coming back. Then she's like "you can call me sometime" and I tell her that I don't want to call her. Then at that moment her friends get back. I say whatup to them, bs for a minute and then get my shit together and I head out.
What the fucking fuck? My read on this is that the girl was not serious about having sex but thought I was hot just really wanted some attention. I'm trying to tell myself that there wasn't much I could have done differently to get the bang.
But I want to try and learn from the experience anyway... What do you guys think? I know I didn't give too many details of the interactions but I figure nobody wants to read all that shit. Any thoughts or ideas for how I could have gotten the bang?
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