This is an interesting thread to me because the manosphere is mostly about white
men rejecting white wo
men, at least in terms of nationality, so to put a highlight particularly on this seems odd.
I think it's a shame that
Black men and
Black wo
men can't connect more, but there are a lot of reasons for that, which at this point I just don't care to get into.
However, despite the disconnect, reality is
Black men will never have anyone to connect with more than
Black wo
men.
My roots are what they are, but I still see myself as a
Black person. I started having relationships with
Black American wo
men for the first time two years ago.
Sexually speaking, they are the best. Perhaps they're inherently built better to take what we have to offer, but they have an insatiable appetite for sex, that I think any man, who can keep up, can appreciate. They take pride in being able to have your ass curled up in the corner of the bed while sucking your thumb and contemplating what the fuck just happened.
What I found more that I could appreciate was my ability to talk to them about anything, especially the only types of things a
Black man can speak to a
Black woman about. We can not talk to non-
Black wo
men about the inherent issues we face as
men in this
Black-hating society. Unfortunately, when we do date "interracially", we either have to keep our mouths closed or be unconscious to those issues.
I've always seen myself ending up with a
Black latina, but the only way that's going to happen is if she's a Monica Carrillo type -- perhaps my only reason for going to Peru --
black latinas have a problem in that they're too busy trying to be accepted instead of just accepting they are
Black. Non-
black latinos just look at us as "niggas who speak Spanish", and they'll never see us as anything else, and this is even more prevalent here in the U.S. where these convenient Latinos leave their
black relatives behind to come live here as "whites".
Much is said about what wo
men want, but I ask myself what is it that we want, especially those of us who are
Black. A lot of the
Black men on this site are what I would consider to be amongst the cream of the crop of
Black men, but ultimately, it looks like we've created these lives for ourselves just to share them with anyone else who doesn't look like our mothers, grandmothers, etc.
All
Blacks living in this
Black hating society have issues, it's not just the wo
men. We could talk about
Black male suicide rates just as much as we talk about how obese
Black wo
men are, while being ignorant to the fact that
Latinas are the fattest women in the country.
If we could start looking at why things are the way they are, we might be able to have better dialogue about these issues and perhaps find solutions.
Until then...