Not really a game thread, but more of a social grace question. About me - I'm pretty good in social situations, but sometimes I'll put my foot in my mouth in group situations when I respond too honestly to a question forgetting my audience.
This happened in a mixed group of guys and girls (mostly mid twenties, one 35ish year old chick) on the ride home from a road trip. One of the guys is a greater beta, friendly and well liked, but gets no action, friendzoned, and not really trying date.
One of the girls pulled up a facebook picture of a girl she wanted to set him up with. He responded she wasn't his type.
They asked me what I thought about her. I said I needed more info because this chick is 35, so what's her deal?
The older chick responds in an offended tone of voice, "what's that supposed to mean?".
At this point, I couldn't puss out and say nothing, so I said that most of the mid 30's and single chicks I've met have a reason why they are single - divorce, personality flaw that keeps guys from committing to them, or too picky when it comes to men.
The older chick obviously took this response personally and came back with, "well, maybe there aren't any good guys out there".
At this point, I just waved the white flag rather than dropping some serious redpill knowledge and nuking her hamster.
The mood for the rest of the ride home was distinctly uncomfortable, as all the women now hated me.
How would you have handled this situation at the 2 key points - when asked for your opinion on the chick, and when asked to explain your query about the 35 year old chick's background?
This happened in a mixed group of guys and girls (mostly mid twenties, one 35ish year old chick) on the ride home from a road trip. One of the guys is a greater beta, friendly and well liked, but gets no action, friendzoned, and not really trying date.
One of the girls pulled up a facebook picture of a girl she wanted to set him up with. He responded she wasn't his type.
They asked me what I thought about her. I said I needed more info because this chick is 35, so what's her deal?
The older chick responds in an offended tone of voice, "what's that supposed to mean?".
At this point, I couldn't puss out and say nothing, so I said that most of the mid 30's and single chicks I've met have a reason why they are single - divorce, personality flaw that keeps guys from committing to them, or too picky when it comes to men.
The older chick obviously took this response personally and came back with, "well, maybe there aren't any good guys out there".
At this point, I just waved the white flag rather than dropping some serious redpill knowledge and nuking her hamster.
The mood for the rest of the ride home was distinctly uncomfortable, as all the women now hated me.
How would you have handled this situation at the 2 key points - when asked for your opinion on the chick, and when asked to explain your query about the 35 year old chick's background?