[AJ]

Long story short

Graduated college, had a blast with new found free time and $$ while employed but I lost my mind in the 40 hr grind. Moved to baltimore for grad school but of course there's a catch to everything. Intellectual stimulation went up but social life cratered as all the stereotypes of grad students are true. Peers don't mind the life but it really irks me that I had something better and now I'm just settling.

On some good advice by Roosh I decided to man up and bud a testicle.

So I'm looking for a wing in baltimore because my peers spit sloppy sloppy game. I'm pretty intent on hitting the trenches this year to fight off warpigs with the occasional necessary grenade jumping with the sole intent of growing brass balls.

If anyone's interested give me a shout.

[JoeSea]

IMO, you'd probably be better served by reading Roosh's latest post on flying solo. It sounds like for you it would be jumping in the deep end, but I'd say its a lot better than waiting around and auditioning for a wingman when you could be out hunting. What you'll find as you get older is that it's tough to count on anyone else to be available for going out and hunting chicks. Guys will fall in love, get lazy, get married ect. Most disappear forever and the ones that come back have usually forgotten any of the skills they had before.

As far as finding a good wingman, the real players that I know prefer to go out hunting alone and a true wingman is someone you have to be able to trust. It's tough to build that on the internet. So what you're left with is a bunch of guys who want to get better, but really are lacking in skills themselves. And in this game, two (or more) wrongs definitely don't make a right. So I would work on honing the skills of the one wingman you can always count on, yourself.

[thegmanifesto]

Yeah, I agree with JoeSea, go for Dolo: http://www.thegmanifesto.com/2007/08/goi...-dolo.html

Good running partners are hard to find.

And Read Roosh's post on Dolo Game.

[AJ]

Oh yea, completely agree with both posts.

Sure posting anonymously on the intertube is a complete shot in the dark but what do I have to lose. Worst case meet up with wing and he doesn't speak english, I lose a couple of hours of my life and makes for an interesting night.

It's funny, it's a bit of the cornered animal thing. While backpacking I've gone out by myself with no problem as I had absolutely no options. Whereas here there's always the faint hope something random would happen or I get "distracted" with work.

Jumping into deep end thing. Was half hoping to ease into it but you're right everything I've done in my life that went well there were deep jumps involved. It's painful at first but then it smooths out.

Thank you both, I'm going out this weekend regardless.

[thegmanifesto]

"Thank you both, I'm going out this weekend regardless. "

That's the spirit.

Grab a crabcake, throw down a few beers and get out there.

I heard B-More has some pretty decent Gentlemen's Clubs too.

Let's us know how your Dolo Adventure goes.

[AJ]

Dear internet friends

Baltimore was shat on for the past 2 weekends or so keeping everyone indoors and only last night did the city open up.

Copped out of solo and went to a friend's bday party at upscale club (Douchey clientele). Pulled my thumb out of my ass and got to work. Overall went 2/6, crashing and burning magnificently.

Pulled the number of the waitress/hostess. Made small talk while she was serving our table and it turned out we had more in common that I expected. Ejected out of a sure thing when the club was closing and hunted her down before leaving. Music was blaring so I could barely make out what she was saying. After repeating for the 4th time she gave up and was walking away when I complained that her voice was too high. My god that worked, she immediately snapped back. Told her it was rare that we had that much in common, got the #, she volunteered her name, and I left.

Notes

(1) I really need to wear some sort of visual aid (contacts/glasses). Half the time I'd approach girls and end up surprised then they would reject me and I would end up confused. Thanks dim lighting and beer.
(2) Upscale clubs aren't my niche. I'm broke, haven't bought new clothes for 2 years now, and I have my friend's suit and won't give it back. I probably should hunt around the homeless shelter or female penitentiary instead.
(3) I keep forgetting most girls are taken by 12:15a
(4) I'd probably need a more mainstream look to do better in clubs. Got lazy and haven't cut hair/shaved.
(5) I told the waitress I was cut from the washington wizards when she mentioned she knew a couple of the dancers... I'm curious now.
(6) Need to sand game with couple years of hard work.
(7) I can see how solo is doable. There's so much chaos in that club no one cares.

I'm naming my right testicle after roosh. The larger cancerous one.

[PurSang]

PM me AJ, I'm in Baltimore, a grad student and could be your wing