I received this mail:
"Hey Coyote
I have been reading your posts and they are pretty good, you seem to have an interesting lifestyle.
I think you are doing well financially, if you came from a poor or middle class background, i was wondering if you could tell me if money has made a big difference in your game (or not). Do you think driving a nice car increases the quality and quantity of your bangs?
I am 26 now, i have been travelling almost non stop since i was 16. Although i enjoy my trips and i feel somewhat better off than the majority of peeps in south america, i have a feeling that if i stop travelling for a while and get a good job and make really good money, the quality of my bangs could improve even more.
I would appreciate if you could give me your input on money and women."
I though it an important question so I started the thread.
Gentlemen build you engines! / aka: Develop your Power Quiver
Well lets put it this way - The clitoris is the ruler of the world... and money is the ruler of the ruler of the world...
Money is power... Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac...
A lot of guys get pissed off and jealous because they don't want to risk their time, blood and treasure making money to compete with the guys that have sacrificed to make money.
I grew up with a silver spoon in my mouth... had it yanked out when I was 6 years old. My family was broke when I was 11 years old.
I was determined to recapture that wealth. I risked a lot.
Remember that money intensifies your personality.
Money is like the quality of fuel for your engine.
Money is not the engine.
So if you put high quality fuel in a little engine you get little results.
You have to build a big engine first. That means personal development of which money, health and knowledge are important parts. When you develop yourself, people want to work with you because you are consistent in your behaviors - dependable. People like to work with those they can count on. In addition, if you understand what is important to you - and stick to it, people recognize your purpose. They like that too and it opens doors. Women see it as "A man that knows what he wants." How many times have you gone on line and read that in a woman on line profile. They all want a man that "knows what he wants." If not they look at you as an opportunist, a schmoozer or conniver.
Remember, if you are an asshole with a bunch of money you will be a bigger asshole. If you are cool and have cash, you will be even cooler.
I understand what goes on in a younger man's mind regarding women... it's "let's run down there and fuck us a cow" versus what an experienced man thinks, which is, "lets walk down there and fuck em all..." in other words – build an engine that will deliver the cows to me so I can have my choice.
In the end, you will find that it's not about quantity. You think it is now because you are 26 and love to fuck. I get it. Believe me!!! I have fucked so many chicks... and in the end, really in a sense it just holds you back from building a bigger engine, if you get extreme about it as I did.
But the quality of chicks I have fucked each generation of my life improved. Higher quality less fucking is the name of the game. Why, because you have time to have a life (build your engine), other wise women become your life and your engine stalls. This is easier where prostitution is legal because when you really need to fuck you can simply get it out or the way.
I have a group of women that know me and provide or refer me to other women that they know I will like, Aal in their early 20's because they know that is what I like.
I did not develop this group by being tight. I amno longer a true alpha (I lack youth).
I treated them right and they say, hey this gringo is cool to hang with and he will buy your presents and take you on vacation and likes to spend money on women. BUT he is not some fresh off the plane naive gringo that you can lay a sad story on and he will give you money. No, he likes to have fun but does not take shit. He is upfront. This is where we go, what you get. and what I get. Deal or no deal. No conniving women like women connive men (that is – no being a woman).
Women like that you are not a conniving beta. It's the betas that they can seduces to act outside their self-definition that they toy with and scorn.
Again, it's about character. Build you character (engine), fuel it with money... and you will have your way.
One other thing I have learned. Men are visual. Try to get over that. Easier said than done I could not do it at your age. What I have learned is there are components to relationships, it's much more like the way US women (used to) look at relationships. That is "what is the overall package you bring to the table, besides looks?"
Don't get me wrong, I loved sport fucking, but....
Not being so hung up on looks drastically reduces a woman's power of you. I am not saying to sport fuck a million undesirable chicks, what I am saying is don't be intimidated by looks.
When women understand you are viewing them as a package rather than only an exterior package, it increases your power of them.
Most Women Are Over Confident and Under Accomplished.
Play that. I don't really get this sex now or leave stuff. To me it's playing to a woman's game; you are valuing her body more than anything else. A man's sexual desire is her strong suit. Its kind of a shallow dominance play (superficial power, - a woman's move).
Powerful strategy pays off big but takes time to mature. It's like wealth: great fortunes are usually accumulated, they take time to mature, but once they get rolling, they take on a life of their own and perpetuate themselves. That is what I have going on in my social life. It perpetuates its self externally (attracting quality women) while I refine myself (internally), not pandering to them by indulging in their game.
I set the rules for my game and here in Costa Rica you can do that.
Women in the US have an entrenched game and men play to it. Really what I see here on the forum is the needed strategies to cope with a woman's game, rather than how to make them cope with your game.
I am a kung fu man by heart. So I use kung fu situations (fighting technique) as metaphors and a teaching apparatus.
In the ancient art of authentic kung fu we bend the opponent to fit our form. We do not bend to fit the opponents form.
That is, when I grasp you I do not bend my back to wrap you in a lock or hold. I do not shape myself to fit you. I bend your back, and I remain solid and in balance, integral structurally. I bend you to shape to me.
I see most US men bending themselves to shape to the way women are. What I think I read here (and I have not been here very long / and could be and often am wrong), is that "game" are tactics to deal with women's game. They are not really personal development techniques.
It's an extremely important distinction.
Its counter attack rather than attack. An adept knows how to attack and counterattack. He uses attack almost exclusively, always on the offense and rarely on the defense. When on the defense he counterattacks.
Constant counterattack in nature is defensive.
You can win with defense but it's usually an ugly win. Not artful.
Most victories in sports, life or relationships come from offense.
So when you ask about money, you are asking about power and power is a huge part of the offense. But men have become lazy or emotionally weak and do not want to dictate to their women, thus like a spoiled child, the woman dictates to the man.
When I first started here, I thought an alpha male was the point mail. That means the lead in the group. You guys here use it to define anyone that stands up to women's game (counter attacks).
A true alpha has no need to counter attack. Women have to develop their game to counter his game, because he has developed himself (his accoutrements) to be highly desirable or the most desirable.
In an earlier post, I described myself as a former alpha. What I meant by that was I used to have money, intelligence, character and Youth and Looks. I no longer have youth and although I look accomplished and elegant in a charismatic way, still i can't really be a true alpha.
But I still have the rest of the power package and know how to use it. And use it I do…
But youth is important, as you cannot replenish it (although you can sustain it). Let me tell you this and listen up, youth is a huge advantage, just as looks are. When I was young I could do it on body and looks alone. I could walk into a strip club in my grungy Levis and chaps and walk out the back door that night with a stripper and putt away on my bike without ever putting a bill in her g string. The trick to strippers and all women is "once they view you as a customer you will always be a customer." Think about it. The way I see it in the US men act like customers and women treat them accordingly. Women like their customers but they do not love them, get attached to them. If you want to dictate to a woman, you have to own her allegiance in a deep way.
The weird thing about living through the decades I have lived through, is I have seen a huge change in US women, in that they have come to be more like men, in that they value an exterior package much more than they used to. They always have to a certain extent, but now its main stream. And this is an example of what I mean by playing to their game. It used to be an advantage to dress well and have style. Now it's a requirement. Now style, and what you perceive as style is what a woman dictates to you as style. You do not dress according to what you respond to rather according to what she responds too.
Before a woman would know attraction to a man's self dictated style. Now style is dictated to men. Therefore, style for men has become in a way, a woman style. Look at haircuts, look at colognes, the gender blur has been created by style and this is to a woman's advantage,
Remember the story about Sampson and Delilah. A woman taking a man's power? It's never been more true. Overtly women want men to be a dog and pony show, performing for them. They like the idea of men being gay, because it is demeaning to manhood. They want to degrade our power by demeaning us. "Oh I am so sheik, because I have these little weak gay men as friends." What is sheik to them is not the men, what is sheik is that they are exhibiting how men have been demeaned, denigrated.
"My man dresses like the commercial on TV and smells like the men on TV balah blah.. same thing. What they are saying is "my man dances to a woman's beat." Unfortunately now to such an extent he has become like them except in genitalia. In reality women despise conquered men (betas).
You want to be ignored, become conquerable. You want to be disposable, be conquered.
In Latin America woman actually want men to conquer then. You can read it in their on line profiles! I want a man that can conquer me. That means thay want a man to dictate to them to the point that they are disposable, or to a point as to where he views her as disposable. What she is asking for is a dominant superior man. Not a pussy dancing around, feigning punches and making evasive movements, not a counter attacker coming from the defensive – but some one that will attack her senses and command her to yield. Someone who is not waiting for her to give it, someone that will take it! Someone to whom she can relinquish the burden of her power.
Ah but this is where money comes in. Because if you have money you can dance to your beat and a woman will follow.
You are on the attack… rather than the counterattack.
Like I said you can win with counter attack and up there in the US counterattack, unless you have a LOT of money, is about the only game.
But that is because women dominate the culture there.
Its game over as I see it. Women have won. Why because men there live to impress women. Impressing the other sex is a traditional woman's role.
Not anymore...
Women used to live to impress men. Now they live to impress themselves. Just like men used to live.
Just like men for the most part still live here in Latin America.
The US culture is perverting male female relationships and that is why some cultures fly airplanes into tall buildings.
Most men up there cannot see it because they are in it.
it's like a frog (man) in a pot of water and the cook (woman) keeps turning up the heat ever so slightly. The heat goes up just a little bit and the frog adapts. He does not jump out because he still feels comfortable. The heat goes up and he adapts, again. The frog has the ability to jump out of the pot (change) but does not because he does not notice the change, that is until the heat goes up so high by small increments that he is boiled alive. That is what is happening in male female relationships there.
I know because I have seen how thing used to be. Now I see how thing are.
In kung fu you lead the technique and if your co practitioner has expertise he can reverse your leadership (counterattack) and become the leader. That is what women have done. They have become the leaders. Dominant. Its unnatural and perverted.
So you guys are left with game (counterattacking the attacker).
With money, you can be the attacker and they go on the counter attack. I am sorry to have to write "can be" because there are man their with money that have small engines so they cannot even lead the attack. They still pander to women. Its like a beautiful unarmed woman walks into your home and says "ok mother fucker give me all you money." You stand their armed to the max, and instead of shooting her, you fork over the cash… it weird shit up there… I mean women have that population for the most part on their knees.. And it fucks up shit here, You don't think these women see the shit that goes down there through chick flicks and other feminazi propaganda vehicles??? Its so fucked u that one of these Latinos may try to hijack a plane and crash it into a movie studio… and I would not blame them..
Funny but the feminazis don't understand that they are fucking it up for themselves, because deep down inside they want dominant men.
Money is not the only powerful accoutrement. There is also character.
But when it comes to the character bank there most men are broke. They do not even know that character exists as an attack mechanism! Character is offense. You bring it when you have character.
When you cannot be seduced to act outside your self-definition you have strength. Women admire this and always strive to break your character through offering you sex. Classic move since the beggining of time.
"Will you dance for me for sex?" Most men answer with "name the tune and I will not only dance but sing."
Women want to see how far a man will lower himself for sex. The less you lower yourself the more attractive you are, but that does not mean that you get laid automatically. Far from it. It means that they are on the counterattack, not that they have relinquished themselves. That is why I don't get the sex SNL thing. To me you are either shooting fish in a barrel or demeaning in some form. Maybe I don't get it yet as I am new here... (just like the alpha definition as you guys use it).
So character (of which confidence is a component) and money are important arrows in the power quiver.
One should strive to develop character and financial resources along with physical strength and knowledge. Chasing women (rather than then chasing you) takes away from building your engine. It holds you back.
Build your engine, then you can compete to be a true alpha as long as you have youth (looks and strength).
But being the alpha is not the only wining move, being one of those competing to be the Alpha is a huge victory, even if you have diminished youth and looks - like yours truly. But then again I got a big engine fueled with cash – so I am way in the hunt, on the offense and bring it, that is, Playing my game, and on the attack just laying in wait for potential counters! jajajajajja -
"Hey Coyote
I have been reading your posts and they are pretty good, you seem to have an interesting lifestyle.
I think you are doing well financially, if you came from a poor or middle class background, i was wondering if you could tell me if money has made a big difference in your game (or not). Do you think driving a nice car increases the quality and quantity of your bangs?
I am 26 now, i have been travelling almost non stop since i was 16. Although i enjoy my trips and i feel somewhat better off than the majority of peeps in south america, i have a feeling that if i stop travelling for a while and get a good job and make really good money, the quality of my bangs could improve even more.
I would appreciate if you could give me your input on money and women."
I though it an important question so I started the thread.
Gentlemen build you engines! / aka: Develop your Power Quiver
Well lets put it this way - The clitoris is the ruler of the world... and money is the ruler of the ruler of the world...
Money is power... Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac...
A lot of guys get pissed off and jealous because they don't want to risk their time, blood and treasure making money to compete with the guys that have sacrificed to make money.
I grew up with a silver spoon in my mouth... had it yanked out when I was 6 years old. My family was broke when I was 11 years old.
I was determined to recapture that wealth. I risked a lot.
Remember that money intensifies your personality.
Money is like the quality of fuel for your engine.
Money is not the engine.
So if you put high quality fuel in a little engine you get little results.
You have to build a big engine first. That means personal development of which money, health and knowledge are important parts. When you develop yourself, people want to work with you because you are consistent in your behaviors - dependable. People like to work with those they can count on. In addition, if you understand what is important to you - and stick to it, people recognize your purpose. They like that too and it opens doors. Women see it as "A man that knows what he wants." How many times have you gone on line and read that in a woman on line profile. They all want a man that "knows what he wants." If not they look at you as an opportunist, a schmoozer or conniver.
Remember, if you are an asshole with a bunch of money you will be a bigger asshole. If you are cool and have cash, you will be even cooler.
I understand what goes on in a younger man's mind regarding women... it's "let's run down there and fuck us a cow" versus what an experienced man thinks, which is, "lets walk down there and fuck em all..." in other words – build an engine that will deliver the cows to me so I can have my choice.
In the end, you will find that it's not about quantity. You think it is now because you are 26 and love to fuck. I get it. Believe me!!! I have fucked so many chicks... and in the end, really in a sense it just holds you back from building a bigger engine, if you get extreme about it as I did.
But the quality of chicks I have fucked each generation of my life improved. Higher quality less fucking is the name of the game. Why, because you have time to have a life (build your engine), other wise women become your life and your engine stalls. This is easier where prostitution is legal because when you really need to fuck you can simply get it out or the way.
I have a group of women that know me and provide or refer me to other women that they know I will like, Aal in their early 20's because they know that is what I like.
I did not develop this group by being tight. I amno longer a true alpha (I lack youth).
I treated them right and they say, hey this gringo is cool to hang with and he will buy your presents and take you on vacation and likes to spend money on women. BUT he is not some fresh off the plane naive gringo that you can lay a sad story on and he will give you money. No, he likes to have fun but does not take shit. He is upfront. This is where we go, what you get. and what I get. Deal or no deal. No conniving women like women connive men (that is – no being a woman).
Women like that you are not a conniving beta. It's the betas that they can seduces to act outside their self-definition that they toy with and scorn.
Again, it's about character. Build you character (engine), fuel it with money... and you will have your way.
One other thing I have learned. Men are visual. Try to get over that. Easier said than done I could not do it at your age. What I have learned is there are components to relationships, it's much more like the way US women (used to) look at relationships. That is "what is the overall package you bring to the table, besides looks?"
Don't get me wrong, I loved sport fucking, but....
Not being so hung up on looks drastically reduces a woman's power of you. I am not saying to sport fuck a million undesirable chicks, what I am saying is don't be intimidated by looks.
When women understand you are viewing them as a package rather than only an exterior package, it increases your power of them.
Most Women Are Over Confident and Under Accomplished.
Play that. I don't really get this sex now or leave stuff. To me it's playing to a woman's game; you are valuing her body more than anything else. A man's sexual desire is her strong suit. Its kind of a shallow dominance play (superficial power, - a woman's move).
Powerful strategy pays off big but takes time to mature. It's like wealth: great fortunes are usually accumulated, they take time to mature, but once they get rolling, they take on a life of their own and perpetuate themselves. That is what I have going on in my social life. It perpetuates its self externally (attracting quality women) while I refine myself (internally), not pandering to them by indulging in their game.
I set the rules for my game and here in Costa Rica you can do that.
Women in the US have an entrenched game and men play to it. Really what I see here on the forum is the needed strategies to cope with a woman's game, rather than how to make them cope with your game.
I am a kung fu man by heart. So I use kung fu situations (fighting technique) as metaphors and a teaching apparatus.
In the ancient art of authentic kung fu we bend the opponent to fit our form. We do not bend to fit the opponents form.
That is, when I grasp you I do not bend my back to wrap you in a lock or hold. I do not shape myself to fit you. I bend your back, and I remain solid and in balance, integral structurally. I bend you to shape to me.
I see most US men bending themselves to shape to the way women are. What I think I read here (and I have not been here very long / and could be and often am wrong), is that "game" are tactics to deal with women's game. They are not really personal development techniques.
It's an extremely important distinction.
Its counter attack rather than attack. An adept knows how to attack and counterattack. He uses attack almost exclusively, always on the offense and rarely on the defense. When on the defense he counterattacks.
Constant counterattack in nature is defensive.
You can win with defense but it's usually an ugly win. Not artful.
Most victories in sports, life or relationships come from offense.
So when you ask about money, you are asking about power and power is a huge part of the offense. But men have become lazy or emotionally weak and do not want to dictate to their women, thus like a spoiled child, the woman dictates to the man.
When I first started here, I thought an alpha male was the point mail. That means the lead in the group. You guys here use it to define anyone that stands up to women's game (counter attacks).
A true alpha has no need to counter attack. Women have to develop their game to counter his game, because he has developed himself (his accoutrements) to be highly desirable or the most desirable.
In an earlier post, I described myself as a former alpha. What I meant by that was I used to have money, intelligence, character and Youth and Looks. I no longer have youth and although I look accomplished and elegant in a charismatic way, still i can't really be a true alpha.
But I still have the rest of the power package and know how to use it. And use it I do…
But youth is important, as you cannot replenish it (although you can sustain it). Let me tell you this and listen up, youth is a huge advantage, just as looks are. When I was young I could do it on body and looks alone. I could walk into a strip club in my grungy Levis and chaps and walk out the back door that night with a stripper and putt away on my bike without ever putting a bill in her g string. The trick to strippers and all women is "once they view you as a customer you will always be a customer." Think about it. The way I see it in the US men act like customers and women treat them accordingly. Women like their customers but they do not love them, get attached to them. If you want to dictate to a woman, you have to own her allegiance in a deep way.
The weird thing about living through the decades I have lived through, is I have seen a huge change in US women, in that they have come to be more like men, in that they value an exterior package much more than they used to. They always have to a certain extent, but now its main stream. And this is an example of what I mean by playing to their game. It used to be an advantage to dress well and have style. Now it's a requirement. Now style, and what you perceive as style is what a woman dictates to you as style. You do not dress according to what you respond to rather according to what she responds too.
Before a woman would know attraction to a man's self dictated style. Now style is dictated to men. Therefore, style for men has become in a way, a woman style. Look at haircuts, look at colognes, the gender blur has been created by style and this is to a woman's advantage,
Remember the story about Sampson and Delilah. A woman taking a man's power? It's never been more true. Overtly women want men to be a dog and pony show, performing for them. They like the idea of men being gay, because it is demeaning to manhood. They want to degrade our power by demeaning us. "Oh I am so sheik, because I have these little weak gay men as friends." What is sheik to them is not the men, what is sheik is that they are exhibiting how men have been demeaned, denigrated.
"My man dresses like the commercial on TV and smells like the men on TV balah blah.. same thing. What they are saying is "my man dances to a woman's beat." Unfortunately now to such an extent he has become like them except in genitalia. In reality women despise conquered men (betas).
You want to be ignored, become conquerable. You want to be disposable, be conquered.
In Latin America woman actually want men to conquer then. You can read it in their on line profiles! I want a man that can conquer me. That means thay want a man to dictate to them to the point that they are disposable, or to a point as to where he views her as disposable. What she is asking for is a dominant superior man. Not a pussy dancing around, feigning punches and making evasive movements, not a counter attacker coming from the defensive – but some one that will attack her senses and command her to yield. Someone who is not waiting for her to give it, someone that will take it! Someone to whom she can relinquish the burden of her power.
Ah but this is where money comes in. Because if you have money you can dance to your beat and a woman will follow.
You are on the attack… rather than the counterattack.
Like I said you can win with counter attack and up there in the US counterattack, unless you have a LOT of money, is about the only game.
But that is because women dominate the culture there.
Its game over as I see it. Women have won. Why because men there live to impress women. Impressing the other sex is a traditional woman's role.
Not anymore...
Women used to live to impress men. Now they live to impress themselves. Just like men used to live.
Just like men for the most part still live here in Latin America.
The US culture is perverting male female relationships and that is why some cultures fly airplanes into tall buildings.
Most men up there cannot see it because they are in it.
it's like a frog (man) in a pot of water and the cook (woman) keeps turning up the heat ever so slightly. The heat goes up just a little bit and the frog adapts. He does not jump out because he still feels comfortable. The heat goes up and he adapts, again. The frog has the ability to jump out of the pot (change) but does not because he does not notice the change, that is until the heat goes up so high by small increments that he is boiled alive. That is what is happening in male female relationships there.
I know because I have seen how thing used to be. Now I see how thing are.
In kung fu you lead the technique and if your co practitioner has expertise he can reverse your leadership (counterattack) and become the leader. That is what women have done. They have become the leaders. Dominant. Its unnatural and perverted.
So you guys are left with game (counterattacking the attacker).
With money, you can be the attacker and they go on the counter attack. I am sorry to have to write "can be" because there are man their with money that have small engines so they cannot even lead the attack. They still pander to women. Its like a beautiful unarmed woman walks into your home and says "ok mother fucker give me all you money." You stand their armed to the max, and instead of shooting her, you fork over the cash… it weird shit up there… I mean women have that population for the most part on their knees.. And it fucks up shit here, You don't think these women see the shit that goes down there through chick flicks and other feminazi propaganda vehicles??? Its so fucked u that one of these Latinos may try to hijack a plane and crash it into a movie studio… and I would not blame them..
Funny but the feminazis don't understand that they are fucking it up for themselves, because deep down inside they want dominant men.
Money is not the only powerful accoutrement. There is also character.
But when it comes to the character bank there most men are broke. They do not even know that character exists as an attack mechanism! Character is offense. You bring it when you have character.
When you cannot be seduced to act outside your self-definition you have strength. Women admire this and always strive to break your character through offering you sex. Classic move since the beggining of time.
"Will you dance for me for sex?" Most men answer with "name the tune and I will not only dance but sing."
Women want to see how far a man will lower himself for sex. The less you lower yourself the more attractive you are, but that does not mean that you get laid automatically. Far from it. It means that they are on the counterattack, not that they have relinquished themselves. That is why I don't get the sex SNL thing. To me you are either shooting fish in a barrel or demeaning in some form. Maybe I don't get it yet as I am new here... (just like the alpha definition as you guys use it).
So character (of which confidence is a component) and money are important arrows in the power quiver.
One should strive to develop character and financial resources along with physical strength and knowledge. Chasing women (rather than then chasing you) takes away from building your engine. It holds you back.
Build your engine, then you can compete to be a true alpha as long as you have youth (looks and strength).
But being the alpha is not the only wining move, being one of those competing to be the Alpha is a huge victory, even if you have diminished youth and looks - like yours truly. But then again I got a big engine fueled with cash – so I am way in the hunt, on the offense and bring it, that is, Playing my game, and on the attack just laying in wait for potential counters! jajajajajja -
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