So other that stop trying to get with American girls, how can I improve my game next time.
I met this girl on Tagged that was giving me all sorts of vibes (sending heart tags and commenting on my photos). I would shoot her an email from time to time but she always responded very coldly with one or two word answers. I wrote her off, however she started lto light heartedly sweat me again for the last few weeks. I finaly told her to stop messing around an lets meet for drinks. She promptly followed up with her number and said that she agreed.
First encounter-I called her to make arrangements. She didn't pick up. She then calls me back at almost midnight. My phone was messed up and I told her to hang on so I could call her from another phone. I called, she never picked up and I left a message. That night she never called back. I sent her an email asking what happened but she never responded. So I wait a day to give her a chance but I never hear from her.
Second encounter- That Friday I txt her to see if she wanted to go out that night. She txt back immediately. So we arrange to go out later that night.
The date- That night she wants me to come to her house to pick her up. I pick her up and we hit it off right away. We talk to each other as if we where long lost friends. We finaly make it to the bar and I get us a pitcher of Margaritas and we start talking. She does the most talking while I sit back laugh from time to time and bring up subject to talk about. I neg her about her cellphone, choice of tequila, and other things. As one point she breaks out and tells me that I am way too negative. From their she gets cold. I then start playing games with her. We started people watching like trying to tell if someone is a cat or dog person. Then I play some kokology quizzes with her. She then seems to have a total blast with me again. We talk about signs. She tell me that she is a Libra and Libras like the finer things in life. After making her guess that I was a Capricorn, she tells me that she really likes Capricons and that she matches well with them. We leave the place and she asks me what I do for a living. I told her that I am a "proactive Superman" to kinda keep mysterious. She then responds in a manner that signaled "get me home now and let me out of this car". When I sinced that, I elaborated a little bit more and got her attention again. She then ask me what type of car I drive. I made up something and I said so what about you? And she tells me that she has no car. When I get her home she give me a hug and she said she will be in touch, however it didn't seem very sincere.
Next day- The next day I call her to invite her to go with my friend and his girlfriend to hang out. Again, she doesn't answer her phone, I leave a message and I haven't heard from her since.
This girl is a solid 7.5 and is 32 years old. She seemed hip to some of the lines I was throwing out. She seemed to get agitated after a while with the neging, most like she didn't find it playful.
Could it be that this type of game does not work on girls this age?
Could she be just an attention whore?
Should I try to contact her again or keep moving on?
I met this girl on Tagged that was giving me all sorts of vibes (sending heart tags and commenting on my photos). I would shoot her an email from time to time but she always responded very coldly with one or two word answers. I wrote her off, however she started lto light heartedly sweat me again for the last few weeks. I finaly told her to stop messing around an lets meet for drinks. She promptly followed up with her number and said that she agreed.
First encounter-I called her to make arrangements. She didn't pick up. She then calls me back at almost midnight. My phone was messed up and I told her to hang on so I could call her from another phone. I called, she never picked up and I left a message. That night she never called back. I sent her an email asking what happened but she never responded. So I wait a day to give her a chance but I never hear from her.
Second encounter- That Friday I txt her to see if she wanted to go out that night. She txt back immediately. So we arrange to go out later that night.
The date- That night she wants me to come to her house to pick her up. I pick her up and we hit it off right away. We talk to each other as if we where long lost friends. We finaly make it to the bar and I get us a pitcher of Margaritas and we start talking. She does the most talking while I sit back laugh from time to time and bring up subject to talk about. I neg her about her cellphone, choice of tequila, and other things. As one point she breaks out and tells me that I am way too negative. From their she gets cold. I then start playing games with her. We started people watching like trying to tell if someone is a cat or dog person. Then I play some kokology quizzes with her. She then seems to have a total blast with me again. We talk about signs. She tell me that she is a Libra and Libras like the finer things in life. After making her guess that I was a Capricorn, she tells me that she really likes Capricons and that she matches well with them. We leave the place and she asks me what I do for a living. I told her that I am a "proactive Superman" to kinda keep mysterious. She then responds in a manner that signaled "get me home now and let me out of this car". When I sinced that, I elaborated a little bit more and got her attention again. She then ask me what type of car I drive. I made up something and I said so what about you? And she tells me that she has no car. When I get her home she give me a hug and she said she will be in touch, however it didn't seem very sincere.
Next day- The next day I call her to invite her to go with my friend and his girlfriend to hang out. Again, she doesn't answer her phone, I leave a message and I haven't heard from her since.
This girl is a solid 7.5 and is 32 years old. She seemed hip to some of the lines I was throwing out. She seemed to get agitated after a while with the neging, most like she didn't find it playful.
Could it be that this type of game does not work on girls this age?
Could she be just an attention whore?
Should I try to contact her again or keep moving on?
