[Cobra]

(08-15-2014 10:02 AM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  

Everywhere I go the glass is half full

And I know this because I've met MDP. He's the real deal.

And I agree. If you give a fuck and think about it, it will come out in conversation and then you've let the cat out of the bag and they will also think about it now. Never let the "race" cat out of the bag. Example below.

I recently had a situation where I was talking to a white girl (maybe 6.5) at a bar and opened her. Now, this is a small town. I somehow I ended up mentioning that I was in the military and then proceeded to say some shit like "I bet you would never guess that looking at me." (sidebar: I'm an Indian guy)

As soon as I said this she started asking me why I would have ever thought that she would never guess. In this example, it wasn't as much insecurity on my part as much as what I actually thought, but it refocused the attention on race instead of sex.

Another words...

TL;DR: In this situation, she likely may not have been the one making any assumptions about me or the way I look. However, I assumed she did. Big fucking key. Another words, I let the "race" cat out of the bag. So I fucked it up with the girl. Could have gamed her differently and got a number for sure.

[Hipster Hunter]

As a minority, I do it simple. Don't mention race and treat the white girl like every other girl! If she doesn't bite oh well. Unfortunately, it's more tricky for minority guys in America because of the racial history. The inferiority comPlex.

[MY DETROIT PLAYAS]

Another great point Cobra!!!

Who's to say she doesn't have a thing for your type/look/style

Always assume the sale

[jariel]

If you want to prove value, don't approach white women, let them approach you.

White women are not afraid to approach fly Black dudes, especially if you're out with a wingwoman, they'll approach you through her.

If you just have to approach, don't think of yourself as a Black dude approaching a non-Black woman, you're just a man approaching a woman, how will you view her when she's licking your asshole?

Viewing her through any other lens puts her above you, that's a losing perspective, we want to be winners.

[civpro]

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