RVF, I turn to you.
I have a coworker here in South America, very cute girl, fun to talk to, always looks out for me, can't cook but pays for me when we go out even though she doesn't make much money, and I really want to sleep with her. Up until now, I didn't even consider it because of workplace issues, but I leave the country in a few days and most of the time, I get hard just sitting next to this girl and chatting. It's not a oneitis thing, I don't want to wife her or shit like that, but she's cute and pretty and I like her.
Today I got mad compliance from her, and I wanted to kiss her but again, the workplace stigma got the best of me. After that I felt pretty neuter for the rest of the night, even complimented her on how nice she looked.
I have a local friend, he says I should just go for it. I think I should too, but there's a special kind of shame I would feel if she's not receptive and I still have to work with her for the next week. She laughs at my jokes, plays with her hair when we talk, respects me, accepts all my kino and sometimes reciprocates, gives me rides back to my apartment even when its late, refuses to let me pay for her gas, and always tries to make me happy. I can't think of much I would change about her behavior.
But, I don't know if I should shit where I eat. Am I wise to hesitate, or am I just letting an opportunity pass me by?
I have a coworker here in South America, very cute girl, fun to talk to, always looks out for me, can't cook but pays for me when we go out even though she doesn't make much money, and I really want to sleep with her. Up until now, I didn't even consider it because of workplace issues, but I leave the country in a few days and most of the time, I get hard just sitting next to this girl and chatting. It's not a oneitis thing, I don't want to wife her or shit like that, but she's cute and pretty and I like her.
Today I got mad compliance from her, and I wanted to kiss her but again, the workplace stigma got the best of me. After that I felt pretty neuter for the rest of the night, even complimented her on how nice she looked.
I have a local friend, he says I should just go for it. I think I should too, but there's a special kind of shame I would feel if she's not receptive and I still have to work with her for the next week. She laughs at my jokes, plays with her hair when we talk, respects me, accepts all my kino and sometimes reciprocates, gives me rides back to my apartment even when its late, refuses to let me pay for her gas, and always tries to make me happy. I can't think of much I would change about her behavior.
But, I don't know if I should shit where I eat. Am I wise to hesitate, or am I just letting an opportunity pass me by?