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07-24-2012, 08:04 AM
Not really a PC sentiment, but it seems like it's true.
It's probably not an accident that the minute nuclear weapons made state-on-state direct warfare between major powers obsolete, proxy wars and terrorism became all the rage.
It also seems like the rise of war metaphors in business and dating advice and shit correlates pretty well with the decline of formal warfare between large states.
At some point, it's inevitable you'll get into verbal fights with other men... Question is, how do you handle it? Actually fighting every fight that presents itself doesn't seem smart; dudes who are overly combative seem pretty miserable. But how do you show you're not willing to participate, without actually backing down? With a joke?
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07-24-2012, 09:54 AM
It's an inevitable consequence of human nature and the struggle for resources.
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07-24-2012, 11:22 AM
Economics has only been an issue the past 10,000 years (after agriculture and explosive population growth) We had hundreds of thousands of years before that living in small tribes that wandered around, maybe interacted marginally but largely didnt bother each other.
As hunter-gatherers we lived in small 15-150 person tribes (which we're evolved for). Aggression, anger, killer instinct, strength etc are healthy human capacities - necessary for hunting, defense against predators, stabilising inter-tribal disorder etc. I think alot of what drives war and conflict in civilisation comes from extreme version of these healthy capacities though. More pathological disorder that we've developed with civilisation and over-population (due to agriculture), than functional healthy trait.
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07-24-2012, 12:01 PM
Of course not..
War is not central to men, its central to survival for all humans and animals.
Its bullshit that men get labeled as violent and women are presumed to be non-violent. Thats bullshit. They are more cruel then us. Imagine if women ruled the world and controlled the militaries, there would be more government sponsored senseless violence, more petty disputes and more of the viscous cycle of revenge.
Who would you rather control the guns? The logical or the emotional?
What do animals do when they feel threatened or are hungry? They attack. Did men cause this instinct?
No.
Blame it on God or mother nature or whatever you want to call it. Violence is a natural result of the struggle for finite resources. If all the men disappeared, women would go to war for gold, pearls, silk, and diamonds.
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07-24-2012, 12:33 PM
It's already been said, but I will reiterate: All wars are fought for economic reasons.
I'm sure we'd all agree that, as men, it is our purpose to gather resources. War is one of the ways to do so. The problem is that the people fighting the wars today aren't profiting from the spoils. Instead those go to the chickenhawks in power.
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07-24-2012, 01:17 PM
War destroys resources and ergo does not make sense economically.
There have been long periods of peace and trading in human history, but of course that's boring and thus most history books focus on wars etc.
Some people profit from wars (usually the ones lobbying...) but it is bad for an economy anyways (see broken window fallacy).
Often fighting is overcompensation. A reasonable man will avoid conflict if possible because it preserves precious resources.
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07-24-2012, 02:38 PM
Long ago I figured out that one of the purposes of war is simply to reduce sexual competition.
Who starts wars historically ???
Old men (kings.emperors.pharoahs, generals, etc.)
Who fights the wars and dies fighting them ???
Young men.
What is left behind typically ??
land, resources, and ........women - young/old/widows/ .......
Ancient tribal chiefs must have figured out that in order to keep control and run of the females that periodically he would have to
kill off the younger males and/or distract them - dissipate the testerone or kill it off.
War: "Old men talk while young men die:
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07-24-2012, 03:14 PM
War is largely feminine. I will go into detail in another post I have saved.
Men were given the gift of aggression and strength
BUT
The rationality to only use it when needed... life or death.
The tenants of war conflict with the desires and tropes of Males.
The desire to "Stuff" and salugther fellow men outside of any class or cultural base that would effect a mans life is feminine.
The ancient God of Slaughter Agrona, is a female.
War is Femine.... Not Masculine.
This is why when the Male dominated military and research during the cold war used rationality to delude themselves into a possible war push.
Their rationality actually kept them from fighting because it served no good to either side. Male rationality kept us from literally destroying all of mankind with a nuclear war.
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07-24-2012, 04:28 PM
Quote: (07-24-2012 03:14 PM)kosko Wrote:
War is largely feminine. I will go into detail in another post I have saved.
Men were given the gift of aggression and strength
BUT
The rationality to only use it when needed... life or death.
The tenants of war conflict with the desires and tropes of Males.
The desire to "Stuff" and salugther fellow men outside of any class or cultural base that would effect a mans life is feminine.
The ancient God of Slaughter Agrona, is a female.
War is Femine.... Not Masculine.
This is why when the Male dominated military and research during the cold war used rationality to delude themselves into a possible war push.
Their rationality actually kept them from fighting because it served no good to either side. Male rationality kept us from literally destroying all of mankind with a nuclear war.
Exactly ...War in many ways is the height of feminine or even beta behavior.
The rational typically is: since I can't earn what I want or control or convince those who have what I want to give it to me at the price I am willing to pay by peaceful honorable means, I will destroy them using extreme violence.
In this way war is the triumph of the feminine/beta
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07-25-2012, 12:33 AM
Traditional war was good for men if you were on the winning team and didn't get killed. It was guaranteed pussy and profit as soon as the fighting was done, and once you returned home victorious, your elevated social status guaranteed you more pussy and profit.
In 2012, war is not such a good idea. It's only profitable for those who hold government contracts because pillaging is forbidden, and fucking the local widows can get you a court martial. There's no change in social status or recognition for serving. If anything, you'll get less pussy because your wife/girlfriend will roll out on you while you're gone.