[wolf]

I'm not just talking about online(pod, okc), but whereever I go they want to pick a fight. They make it seem like they are doing us a favor by dating. And what is this with the American thing of showing interest, telling the guy to f*ck off and showing interest again just to reject him again.

It seems to me like they don't want to date at all and just play mind games. The only chicks that are putting out are foreign.

[Lemmo]

Why are spoiled children combative?

[thegmanifesto]

(07-05-2012 04:52 PM)wolf Wrote:  

I'm not just talking about online(pod, okc), but whereever I go they want to pick a fight. They make it seem like they are doing us a favor by dating. And what is this with the American thing of showing interest, telling the guy to f*ck off and showing interest again just to reject him again.

It seems to me like they don't want to date at all and just play mind games. The only chicks that are putting out are foreign.

Please advise which bars, restaurants and nightclubs you hang out at.

So I can be sure not to go.

Thanks.

[Kickb]

Are you hanging out at biker bars?

[HiFlo]

Wolf, honestly I think it is more YOU than THEM.

The reason I say this is because if my attitude isn't right and/or I say some weird shit, the girls either get angry or run away.

Approach and converse in a more easy-going humble manner maybe? You gotta be cool, as cliche as that is to say.

[polymath]

The way people react to you is usually a function of the way they perceive you. If you want a different reaction, change your approach.

Also....if it were really easy to bed women left and right, then everyone would be doing it. As it happens, there are some who do, and some who don't. Figure out how to put in as little work to be in the first group.

But mainly, it serves no purpose blaming the girls for their behavior, because their behavior is not actionable to you. Improve upon what you can change, and don't worry about the chicks.

If a girl is combative to me, I usually either call her out, make her friends laugh at her, or play the combative game back with such exaggeration that she laughs. And if none of that is possible, then I smile and let her unload her harsh words so that she can look like the bad guy to anyone else who might be watching.

[Samseau]

I agree with Wolf 100%, American women love a good fight

[wolf]

(07-05-2012 05:38 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(07-05-2012 04:52 PM)wolf Wrote:  

I'm not just talking about online(pod, okc), but whereever I go they want to pick a fight. They make it seem like they are doing us a favor by dating. And what is this with the American thing of showing interest, telling the guy to f*ck off and showing interest again just to reject him again.

It seems to me like they don't want to date at all and just play mind games. The only chicks that are putting out are foreign.

Please advise which bars, restaurants and nightclubs you hang out at.

So I can be sure not to go.

Thanks.

I don't go to bars, clubs or restaurants.

I mainly do online, day game. Online is understandable, they are there for a reason. I think this my fault, whenever a chick gets combative I should next her right away, I get involved in their bullshit and get a headache.

[wolf]

The problem is they can't decide whether they want to be with you or not. So they come and go as they please. They ignore your phone call one week, next week they want to see you and literally asking you out, the week after that they ignore your calls and texting you why are you calling. This is not with just one chick, I have this happen pretty often.

[Samseau]

Yeah man, it's not worth the stress. If she's fighting too much, just tell her "you're not my type" and find a new girl.

[wolf]

(07-05-2012 08:23 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

Yeah man, it's not worth the stress. If she's fighting too much, just tell her "you're not my type" and find a new girl.

I can't walk out on every woman like that, I'll walk into a dry spell like that. I've left two girls that got on my last nerve.

[plague]

(07-05-2012 09:59 PM)wolf Wrote:  

I can't walk out on every woman like that, I'll walk into a dry spell like that. I've left two girls that got on my last nerve.

fear of a dry spell is a slippery slope towards not taking risks. and I've found that taking risks is the way to break through to new levels of success.

I think what you want is a consistent tolerance level. if the girl crosses the line, you'll know it, and then you are done with her.

but also, once the girl crosses the line, it's a great time to take a risk. for example, I'll say something meaner than usual. sometimes she will change her behavior. other times she will freak out, but at that point it doesn't matter anyway. it's always a learning experience.

[manilatroy]

I get combativeness when the girl feels too much of a "player" vibe from me. Usually I was super confident and playing too much attraction game. When I tone it down and go more "beta", the reactions are much better.

[thegmanifesto]

(07-05-2012 08:14 PM)wolf Wrote:  

(07-05-2012 05:38 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(07-05-2012 04:52 PM)wolf Wrote:  

I'm not just talking about online(pod, okc), but whereever I go they want to pick a fight. They make it seem like they are doing us a favor by dating. And what is this with the American thing of showing interest, telling the guy to f*ck off and showing interest again just to reject him again.

It seems to me like they don't want to date at all and just play mind games. The only chicks that are putting out are foreign.

Please advise which bars, restaurants and nightclubs you hang out at.

So I can be sure not to go.

Thanks.

I don't go to bars, clubs or restaurants.

I mainly do online, day game. Online is understandable, they are there for a reason. I think this my fault, whenever a chick gets combative I should next her right away, I get involved in their bullshit and get a headache.

These types of threads always come from guys that meet girls online.

Don't they?

[el mechanico]

(07-06-2012 07:57 AM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(07-05-2012 08:14 PM)wolf Wrote:  

(07-05-2012 05:38 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(07-05-2012 04:52 PM)wolf Wrote:  

I'm not just talking about online(pod, okc), but whereever I go they want to pick a fight. They make it seem like they are doing us a favor by dating. And what is this with the American thing of showing interest, telling the guy to f*ck off and showing interest again just to reject him again.

It seems to me like they don't want to date at all and just play mind games. The only chicks that are putting out are foreign.

Please advise which bars, restaurants and nightclubs you hang out at.

So I can be sure not to go.

Thanks.

I don't go to bars, clubs or restaurants.

I mainly do online, day game. Online is understandable, they are there for a reason. I think this my fault, whenever a chick gets combative I should next her right away, I get involved in their bullshit and get a headache.

These types of threads always come from guys that meet girls online.

Don't they?

Every American online girl has personality issues or some physical one like a big scar on her tits or a mole on her face she hides in her pictures. Keep this in mind online dating is a pump and dump deal.

[Samseau]

(07-05-2012 09:59 PM)wolf Wrote:  

(07-05-2012 08:23 PM)Samseau Wrote:  

Yeah man, it's not worth the stress. If she's fighting too much, just tell her "you're not my type" and find a new girl.

I can't walk out on every woman like that, I'll walk into a dry spell like that. I've left two girls that got on my last nerve.

Get to a location with more girls so bitches can't hold you hostage by your balls.

[MrLemon]

American girls are jerks. What part of that is confusing?

[esperar]

I learnt a while ago online gaming isn't worth the effort. I don't understand why you guys are tolerating it?

[Screwston]

Why do you put up with their bullshit? Tell her to fuck off and stop calling and texting. Online girls are fucking wack and bottom of the barrel.

I was talking to a 30 yr old that I met online, got her number and we text/talk for a few days. She has a smart ass attitude so I stop communication. She texts me this morning that she got a flat and has never changed her tire blah blah. I tell her that sucks and I'm sorry because it does when that happens. She says "you're not sorry! You're just saying that". I tell her "fuck off and stop texting me. You're a weird ass old hag and creep me out". I check my profile and she sent a message "fuck you CUNT no wonder you're single haha" and blocks me. I'm on my last nerve with these bitches and don't even waste my energy on them if they act up. I suggest you do the same.

[esperar]

lmfao, well done, Houston. I cut some bitch off Facebook the other day. I met her in person, but we spoke on facebook later. She was playing games and was pissing me off, so I deleted her.

[Samseau]

That's the way to do it gentlemen.

Because houston and esperar will drop a girl if she's being a bitch, they are more likely to get what they want from women. It's only a matter of time before a girl meets them and discovers she can't walk all over them and be happy with them.


Houston:

Quote:

I was talking to a 30 yr old that I met online, got her number and we text/talk for a few days. She has a smart ass attitude so I stop communication. She texts me this morning that she got a flat and has never changed her tire blah blah. I tell her that sucks and I'm sorry because it does when that happens. She says "you're not sorry! You're just saying that". I tell her "fuck off and stop texting me. You're a weird ass old hag and creep me out".

You could have kept the power in your hands had you not even texted back to her at all.

She says, "you're not sorry! You're just saying that"

Your response: (nothing)


She would have taken the hint, and you wouldn't have to work yourself up over her.

[WestCoast]

While i am not perfect myself and definitely get pissed at girls from time here and there and just get pissed and tell them to fuck off the answer is yes "silence". You have to "train" so to speak by rewarding good behavior and denigrating bad behavior by not acknowledging it.

[Samseau]

Actually it's a good rule.


Whenever a girl pisses you off, start ignoring her.

[WestCoast]

Yep agree Sam. For bells and whistles...

"fuck you CUNT no wonder you're single haha"

Isn't that a COMPLEMENT?

[el mechanico]

The trick here is to make them meltdown after you fuck them. If you get the phone calls and texts you own it so play along until the deal is done.
Her calling you a cunt and blocking you= she wins

You shoving household items in her ass and not returning her calls= you win

Hey, Samseau I guess that's what you would call paying the pussy backwards no?